Stuff Asian People Like

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• 1 HKGuy // Mar 19, 2008 at 10:29 pm

  I’m of Chinese heritage (first generation immigrant from Hong Kong, but very much “assimilated”), and I’d have to admit I very much like white girls and pretty much only date them exclusively. Only about 10% of my girlfriends have been asian — but not intentionally; I think it’s because most of my social circle is white so I meet mostly white girls.

  Anyway, contrary to what this post might say, I’ve had quite a bit of success, even having dated several models, so it’s really quite possible!

  It hasn’t always been “easy” though. So take it from a guy who’s been there. The secret is this: Every girl is attracted to a guy who is smart, athletic, and confident. Most asian guys I know have the smarts department down pat, but in the athletics and confidence department, not so much.

  So, the fix is straightforward. First, get ye to the gym and get fit. It might take a couple of years of hard work, but the payoff is *enormous*. Start slow and work your way up, it’s the only way to do it. I started by bench pressing only the bar, and after a year and a half I was benching my body weight, and it shows.

  Second, work on confidence. I mean *real* confidence, *not* arrogance or cockiness. The kind of confidence where everyone knows you are the nicest guy around with a heart of gold and yet they also know that as soon as you walk in the room, you’re in charge. How to do this? Probably outside the scope of this comment, but just like going to the gym, start with small successes and work your way up.

  In the final analysis, all three desirable attributes need to be there: intelligence, physical, and social (confidence). With all three in place, you’ll have to fight the girls off with a stick, regardless if they are white girls or any other race!

• 2 Shaun // Mar 19, 2008 at 10:56 pm

  Great work guys, top article!

  *nudges* Banana Boy * Peter, you heard HKGuy it’s all about confidence and hitting the gym hehe as if it’s that simple…

  However I’m sure those 2 get their share of white tail I’m sure they found that it was just more fun to lump the majority of asians into one huge pot and stir. Come on, let’s face it, most Asian guys DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT get with white girls, let alone non-asian girls. It’s just how it is. Also, not all of us are as suave as you make yourself out to be, HKGuy…

  Also, Harold & Kumar is the oddest example you could have thought of to represent Asians with white girls. Haha seems like I have to go and get stoned to get me some white tail

• 3 YASPY Chick // Mar 20, 2008 at 4:44 am

  Many Asian guys I know, at least in Toronto, are really, really metro (saw a few guys who looked like their hair was DONE at a salon. One guy also had a Gucci “man bag”…and Mr. Gucci didn’t ping my ‘dar, so he probably wasn’t gay). This works well in bigger cities, but in smaller communities? As HK Guy said, get ye to a gym.

• 4 cj // Mar 20, 2008 at 6:47 am

  common guys you can be slutty. experiment!

• 5 David // Mar 20, 2008 at 6:59 am

  I’m a white guy, and I obviously like Asian girls. They look like elves, but without the pointy ears. So fuggin hot!

• 6 Anonymouse // Mar 20, 2008 at 8:28 am

  This isnt funny, why do I bother checking it over and over?

• 7 Mike Kay // Mar 20, 2008 at 8:54 am

  Haha, pretty funny article. But, I don’t see how this is “stuff asian people like.” It is more along the lines of “stuff asian people like but prefer to complain a lot about.” Try dating a white girl, they aren’t all that great (really needy, sorta self centered, and get less hot as they mature). Great blog tho ^^

• 8 Shimmer // Mar 20, 2008 at 10:07 am

  Oh, you’re wrong. I’m not the only white girl who thinks Asian guys are attractive–I was just talking about this last week with a friend. The problem is that the guys don’t seem to catch our signals, or maybe they don’t know what to do about them.

• 9 A white guy // Mar 20, 2008 at 10:39 am

  I’ll tell you what works for me with white women. Give them lots of attention. If you’re an asian guy and you want to hook up with a white chick, just try showing some interest in what she’s talking about. You know why? Because more than anything women LOVE to talk. All women. Even that shy girl at work or school who rarely says a word. Trust me, she’s dying to spill her guts about everything from her grandmother to Coach bags. Be that guy she can talk to. You don’t always have to care, but you always have to LOOK like you care. It’s the easiest thing in the world for average looking guys of any race to hook up with women.

• 10 MR // Mar 20, 2008 at 11:05 am

  Moderator’s Note: Unacceptable comment.
  White women do not date Asian men because they have small ****. Everyone knows that. Not addressing it in your post will not make that go away.

• 11 Stuart // Mar 20, 2008 at 1:12 pm

  Take solace my friends in the FACT! that no matter how hot, curvaceous and mysterious the unattainable women may appear there is some guy, some where, who is sick of her shit.

  I’m not saying any man should give-up on the pursuit of the kind of women he wants to be with. Just keep in mind that six months into any relationship her ethnicity doesn’t really figure into the equation. Although, if she’s hot she’ll never stop making your friends jealous.

• 12 Alex Chow // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:09 pm

  If this is simply a question of “White beauty standards”, when then do so many White women date Black men?

  Clearly there is something you’re missing here.

• 13 tenniscutie1208 // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:10 pm

  I agree with some of this. But just because an Asian guy would want to date a white girl doesn’t mean that most of the people he hangs out with are white. My boyfriend is Taiwanese and all of his friends in high school were Asian, but at our university, there weren’t a whole lot of Asians, but we were friends with the Asians that were there along with other nationalities. and my boyfriend told me that one reason he likes dating white girls is because their families are a lot less strict and the girls are less uptight.

• 14 Flip Wilson // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:10 pm

  OK, Filipino guy here. I am what is called by other Filipinos as Mestizo… the term “mestizo” originally bore the connotation of mixed Spaniard and indigenous Filipino. In short I look like a white boy. As with many asians, I have a very large extended family. In the neighborhood where I grew up, I was the only asian on the block among my peers. In fact, this trend continued through high-school. Growing up (1970s-1980s) my non-asian friends, and peers in school were quick to label me as asian, or something less euphimistic. My filipino cousins all thought of me as a white boy. So, you could say I grew up with somewhat of an identity crisis. It was a natural progression for me to date mainly ‘white girls’. My experience in the DC suburbs was that of being a lone asian. Being that my peers were predominantly white or black, I dated within that pool. I matured with an ‘exotic’ look that many races find appealing. My ex-wife is white, my current wife is white. I never considered any white girl I have had a relationship with as some sort of trophy to wave at my filipino homies, but I can say my relatives did question my penchant for dating non-asians. I admit some of my cousins were envious. I really did not think anything of it until recently. I just think my dating choices were natural considering my peer group.

• 15 radiodude // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:10 pm

  This Texas white boy has always been powerfully attracted to Asian women - since I was a teenager on the farm far from any Asians. It must be biological. I even think Asian kids are cuter. I’ve noticed that in the gay porno stuff on-line that Asian young guys are lusted after by white gay men too.
  Can’t explain any of it but I’ve always said that to me, if you put a very nice looking Asian girl next to a knockout Anglo, I would always find the Asian more attractive and my life experience has shown that to remain true for me.
  So, Viva you gorgeous Asian girls! I love you all.

• 16 White (I think) // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:12 pm

  Beauty standards dictate that White men are the “pinnacle”.
  Stereotypically at least, black men exhibit many of the characteristics that were supposed to make white men the pinnacle of masculinity (it was an unintended consequence).
  That explains to some degree some Black/White relationships.

  Asian men, however, are not considered “masculine” (much in the same way the “nice Jewish guy” has a similar problem).

  This is why it is hard for Asian men to find white women willing to date them.

  White men, however, are highly prized by many Asian women (not all), since looks and colorism is rife in the Asian community.

  In the list of ethnicities to marry (handed down by grandma), many Asians will tell you that the Chinese are second (behind your own race) then the Koreans then the Japanese, then the Vietnamese.
  In truth, Whites are at the top, but this is unspoken.

• 17 White (I think) // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:12 pm

  Uh, Texas White boy…

  Gay Asian men are what you call a “fetish”–and a very small one at that.

  They have probably the hardest time of any minority in the gay community–bar none.

  If straight beauty standards are strict, gay ones are Nazi-like. Blond twinks are at the top, and Asians are at the bottom (way, way, way “below” blacks, who themselves are “below” Latinos).

  We could discuss this further, but it would take all day. Ask any gay Asian male.

  This is confounded by the fact that gay Asian males are exclusively in the position of Straight Asian males–hopelessly in love with White gay males (often to the point of explicitly NOT liking other gay Asian males); who will almost never return the affection (unless they are older, and off the market in the youth-obsessed gay world. And I mean OLDER–like 45 years old and up).

• 18 White (I think) // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:13 pm

  You read the study wrong. Asian women are not the “least discriminatory”:
  ———————

  “We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women’s neutrality, not the men’s pronounced preference. We also found that regional differences mattered. Daters of both sexes from south of the Mason-Dixon Line revealed much stronger same-race preferences than Northern daters.”
  ———————

  They do discriminate.

• 19 Arthur // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:13 pm

  some suggestions:

  -Costco
  -vitamins (especially in bulk)
  -passing off their 16 year old children as under 12 in order to qualify for cheaper admission to theme parks, etc
  -stocking up on napkins, ketchup packets, and other free stuff from restaurants
  -not throwing away old food
  -getting haircuts from a family friend/acquaintance who operates a side business in their basement
  -fruit: lychees, Korean pears (pyris pyrifolia?), white peaches
  -incorporating water into home decorations (feng shui)
  -Toronto, Canada
  -traditional medicine, herbal medicine, ginseng
  -(you’ve already done some, but any Asian celebrity in any field): Yo-Yo Ma, Michelle Kwan, Yao Ming, Kristi Yamaguchi, etc
  -pop music
  -Asian “variety” shows
  -ordering only water/tea for beverages at restaurants
  -taro
  -red beans

• 20 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:15 pm

  That’s sort of funny - I should let my Asian husband know that he really can’t date me.

  -White Girl

• 21 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:16 pm

  As a white guy, here is my suggestion for what works with white women: just be someone they can talk to. Women love to talk… ALL women. Just show some interest in what they’re talking about. They love that stuff. It’s the easiest way I know for average looking guys of any race to hook up with a woman. Give it a try.

  -White Guy

• 22 andy dabydeen // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:17 pm

  See Why Asian Guys Can’t Get White Girls — hilarious video. [this video is on post #38 of this site]

• 23 heather // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:17 pm

  I’m also a white girl, and I have an asian husband. I stand firmly behind the mantra: “once you go asian, you don’t go caucasian…” This goes both ways, as far as I’m concerned.

• 24 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:18 pm

  that video is funny

• 25 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:19 pm

  The reason why Asians are obsessed with all things white, to the point of changing their faces to look more white, (oops! I mean ‘Western’ ‘Western’ is the code word for white.) bleaching their skin to achieve whiteness, isolating themselves to themselves (with the exception of white folks), to the point of when being put down by their idols, they take it and don’t say anything (because we don’t what to upset the whites!) is because of one thing: Asians think whites have status in this world and if it’s one thing Asians crave that’s….STATUS!

  They way a lot of Asians try to achieve the ‘great white way’ is an interesting phenomenon. They treat it like a religion!

  Why people can’t be individuals, I’ll never understand…

• 26 Mike // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:30 pm

  I personally think it all matters how you handle your business. BOTTOM LINE: if you’re shy, timid, and unsure of yourself- you will NOT get a white girl or any other kind of girl to date you for that matter. I think part of why Asian guys tend to strike out w/ white girls is the confidence thing- not because we’re asian. Then, w/ girls, its like high school- when they get these negative stereotypes in their heads they really believe these things. Girls will believe any stupid thing you tell them, even if its just a half truth- trust me.
  MR- I dont know what you’re talking about bro.
  Im pretty happy w/ my power tools man. So apparently you’ve been checking out yellow coc*. How nice of you.

• 27 Li // Mar 21, 2008 at 10:38 pm

  Re: the comments of MR: It never ceases to amaze me how obsessed non-Asian men are with the genitalia of Asian men. Are you insecure, ignorant, or just a plain weirdo? I am Asian and I have absolutely ZERO interest in other men’s penises. As far as sexual thoughts go, all of mine involve women.

• 28 Pam // Mar 21, 2008 at 10:55 pm

  A few years back New York magazine did a survey on singles and what they look for in a mate. For women, intelligence, sense of humor, ambition, and other criteria were ranked as more important than race. For men, race was also low on the list, with looks very high (surprise, surprise.) Women had a longer list of criteria, whereas men had a shorter list. From the article I also remember reading something from an exasperated guy, I think it was, that every New York woman wants an Ivy League graduate with a good job, speaks five languages, and plays three musical instruments or something like that, which I found funny. (I only require three languages in my man, j/k.) Neither women nor men regarded race as a deal-breaker in looking for a partner. So ask us out already!

• 29 Asian girl // Mar 21, 2008 at 11:35 pm

  I think race thing is wrong. But yeah I don`t give a shit about it. I am asian girl, but I am not american. And I am attracted to the black guys, cause they are different from asians. I am proud asian, but I like black guys. that`s my choice. Well, about race and culture thing, I think if compare with blacks and whites ,asians are more shy and not confident, but smarter and talented and cute. but not everyone tho. White chicks - i think most of them are hoes around, and it`s easy to get them than asian girls. Need proof? how many teenage moms you have in US? and how many of them are white? USA is the most rated of teenage pregnancy. so don`t tell me bullshit that I am wrong. wtf is that white chick pregnant at 13. that`s ridiculous. but anyways I still like black guys or asians or white guys.

• 30 ned // Mar 23, 2008 at 6:02 am

  >>This isn’t because asian guys are not attracted to white girls<.< so think a bit more before you take it only in one line of white girls!
  ——–

  it always depends on pesons what kind of peson they can get as bf/gf.

• 31 sandra m // Mar 23, 2008 at 12:20 pm

  I think this desire for white partners is the logical outgrowth of white supremacy. But look around, folks. Whiteness isn’t what it used to be and in less than a century, Asians will rule. It’s happening as we speak.

• 32 Anonymous // Mar 23, 2008 at 1:18 pm

  asian girl you are one retarded b*tch.

• 33 Jaeri // Mar 23, 2008 at 7:50 pm

  Being Asian myself I have to agree with Asians and having a white partner as a status thing, this is also very true of black guys.

  In my experiance Alot of white girls who go after black guys are usually ones who are rebelling against their parents (mainly their fathers) and the whole “forbidden fruit” idea.

  The white beauty standard is everywhere including Africa especially ones that were held by the French, where models have lighter skin and thinner noses.

  The Penis thing is annoying, if your a secure guy you don’t talk about other guys dicks, simple as that.

• 34 Jaeri // Mar 23, 2008 at 8:51 pm

  The media also has alot to do with it
  (after-thought) when it comes to how girls (any race) view guys of (any race) and vice-versa. It also has to do with people’s self-image and confidence.

• 35 Kristyn // Mar 25, 2008 at 6:44 am

  Asian girl is more open-minded than YOU Anonymous. Good for you Asian girl. And Sandra M, I SOOO agree with you, the desire for White partners IS an outgrowth of White supremacy. White people are attractive, but there are some incredibly beautiful people in ALL races. But through colonialism and slavery (which are kindred whether some want to admit it or not), people of color have bought into Whiteness as best. Although I don’t like Tyra, I saw an episode of Amerca’s Next Top Model with this incredibly beautiful Indian girl. But, she was so obsessed with looking White, something she couldn’t be, it made her insecure and she self-sabotaged her own chances. I think she would have been the model if not for her acute insecurity.

  As for Asia, or China specifically, FDR once said, “China is a sleeping giant, let it sleep.” Well, thanks to outsourcing of jobs, China’s population size, and many other factors, China has awakened and, as Sandra said, ” in less than a century, Asians will rule. ” It’s a fact of life. Egypt, Rome, and Great Britian don’t exist “as is” anymore, so why would US be an exception…and for that matter, any empire after that?

• 36 Winner // Mar 26, 2008 at 8:26 am

  Hey, I am an asian male and I married a white girl (hot one too). So I win!!!! Yay for me!!!! Don’t give up my brothers!

• 37 chingchangchong // Mar 26, 2008 at 9:19 am

  who doesn’t like white girls?

• 38 k // Mar 27, 2008 at 12:07 am

  i think the media has set an standard to asian guys making them have less self esteem against white chicks
  i personally think all chicks are the same, its just the way u treat them, unless the chick is racist i dun have a problem dating them.
  for those asian guys that want white chicks, stop being a pussy thinking u cant, its just an excuse that u think u cant get them cuz ur asian.
  if bruce lee can date a white chick and marry one in the 60s why cant u? its 2008 man

• 39 lol // Mar 28, 2008 at 3:51 pm

  lol the only reason why white guys can date asian girls and asian guys cannot date white girls is because white guys can LIE and asian cannot. lol there is a hope that we all asian can start LIE like white people and it will be over for white guys.

• 40 just here // Mar 28, 2008 at 9:11 pm

  There are beautiful people in all races. All guys have their taste, if they think white women are their ultimate beauty, then let it be so.

• 41 Asian guy // Mar 28, 2008 at 11:07 pm

  I stumbled on to this site while visiting another site that had a link here. Anyways, my first impression was, why is this site called “Stuff Asian People Like”??? The article sounds more like it’s mocking asians.

  Example:
  - Who wouldn’t want to have a lobster dinner, talk about current events, AND finish their Advanced Calculus Homework (all the while getting their computer reformatted) during the same date? Asian guys sure know how to live it up!
  - When asian guys talk about “Bleach” to white girls, they immediately think “hair product,” before they realize the guy is talking about that book he is reading from right to left (manga). When asian guys talk about meeting after school, it isn’t to make out. It’s to finish up a school project.

  Anyways, to comment on this subject, I don’t know why people make such a big deal about race. It’s ridiculous. Unfortunately, most people do. You’re not going to pick up any chicks (white, asian, black, hispanic, or any other race) if you don’t grow some balls and talk to them. If you just starting out, go practice on the not-so-good-looking ones and build your confidence. And don’t put them on a higher pedastal just because they’re a certain race. That idea is ridiculous, it plays to the superior/inferior race theory. That’s what many of my asian friends do, and it really pains me because they’re setting roadblocks for themselves.

  Another thing that I’ve encoutered is that some white men will stoop really low to put you down when they see an Asian guy w/ a white female, saying things like, “Why are you with an asian guy? Don’t you know they are controlling?” or “Don’t you know they have small ****?” Do not let them get to you! Just remember that you the one getting some action while they on the sidelines with a frown.

  -Asian guy

• 42 R // Mar 31, 2008 at 8:16 am

  I am Asian but my boyfriend is white, and going out for lobster and having him work on my computer actually sounds like an average weekend for us. It’s nice to have a guy who can help with your computer or your car. Current events are too depressing for me though.

• 43 Tex // Apr 1, 2008 at 12:10 pm

  As an Indian-American growing up in rural Texas in the 1970’s and 80’s, here are my observations on race:

  1). The rural south is still quite hard for an Asian male of any type to get white girls….in the teenage/college years.

  2). The urban north is quite EASY for an Asian male of any type to get white girls…..at any stage in life.

  3). As the Asian male in the south ages, it gets easier, as white women grow “less racist” as they age. By the time they are 35-40, these white girls/women are begging for ANY man.

  4). Most Asian men, especially Indian-Americans are not held back by stupid and untrue things such as lack of confidence or small penis, etc., but by their overbearing and strict parents whose idea of an exciting Saturday night is doing extra homework.

  5). Money talks and shit walks. Get educated, get somewhat wealthy (over 200K), and it doesn’t matter if you have a unicorn on your head. You will get laid even if you are a green martian!

  The only thing that held me back in high school was my overbearing and strict parents. It’s hard to date when your parents open your mail, call the girl’s family up and tells them to stop dating their son, and yell at you because you got a 92 on a calculus test.

  In college, same thing (I went local).

  Now, however, things have changed. I have used my education to get healthy and wealthy, and white guys have to kindly step aside. I went from oily nerd getting beaten up on the school bus to driving a Porsche 911 with a cheerleader in less than 15 years. I went from being humiliated to humiliating white guys as I stole their girlfriends out from under them. I went from the guy who never went to a party or prom to the guy who went to two parties with two different white girls.

  In the end, I had my fill with those useless, overrated, empty-headed, vain, prematurely aged, white trash bitches in 5 years, and now I am happily married to an Indian-American girl, highly educated like me, hot, looks 20 when she is 35, obeys me all the time, and together, we laugh at the ex-football dorks and cheerleaders from high school pumping our gas and stocking our shelves, and cleaning our bathrooms in our palatial estate. Their question of the day is how do we survive this economy. My question is what gas-guzzling supercar do I drive today…

  When you have knowledge, education, and smarts, you have the world by the balls. Asians rule.

• 44 Johnny Utah // Apr 2, 2008 at 4:05 pm

  I went to college with the Asian girl in the very first pic. No lie. She has a twin sister who dated a white guy during college.

• 45 Justin // Apr 2, 2008 at 4:13 pm

  small world!

• 46 mari // Apr 2, 2008 at 6:08 pm

  Wow…I feel like the only Hispanic female in existence who finds some Asian men attractive…

  ::blushes::

• 47 Anonymous // Apr 2, 2008 at 6:09 pm

  Wow, Mike Kay (#7)… That was a very insulting racist generalization you just made there… Not cool man.

• 48 C // Apr 2, 2008 at 10:09 pm

  Im an asian guy dating a hot 6′2 white guy from Spain, I grew up in all white suburban america and is constantly live in whiteland. so i think instead of it being a preference i think its more of the situation. Plus I personally never had a problem of dating “white guys” because I’m asian, and i definitely have one of those “asian and never go caucasian” effect hehehe so as for that comment of that asswipe that said for gay guys its the same as the straight asian guys, i dont think so. first of all, asian men age gracefully, look about 10 years younger than our white counterparts of the same age, have nice skin, and less hair(unless your japanese or chinese) which girls and guys love. thats my opinion.

  -C-

• 49 COMMENT TO "MR" // Apr 3, 2008 at 9:20 am

  “White women do not date Asian men because they have small penises. ”

  Your logic is jacked up. If that were the case White women wouldn’t be dating White men either.

  Oh wait…increasingly, they don’t…

• 50 WhoaIsMe // Apr 3, 2008 at 1:16 pm

  @ # 12 Alex Chow:

  The idealizing of whiteness in the West is backfiring on white men. Look at it like this:

  White women are deemed the ultimate prize in this society. We’ve been told this all out lives & society is built on this premise.

  White men went so far as to create laws keeping white women from ethnic (specifically black) men. White men put white women on a pedastal for generations while denigrating ethnic men.

  White guys eventually grew resentful of competing for them even though this is the system they created. The ones who felt they couldnt compete often seek ethnic women who in their eyes require much less effort.

  The nature of the stereotyping is the biggest issue (& the long visible history of blacks in the US). Black have hyper masculine traits like athleticism, rebellion etc. Asians (male & female) are historically feminized.

  More images of Asians protrayed as athletic & masculine will change the perception inside & outside the Asian community. Dont wait for Hollywood to volunteer it, take it upon yourself

• 51 whitegirl // Apr 4, 2008 at 8:53 am

  i wish more asian boys liked white girls, because lately i have been feelin on the asian boys! so many hot asian boys in my area. hot asian boys hit me up!

• 52 The white girl // Apr 4, 2008 at 10:34 am

  To my mind, Asian boys are really really attractive, they are KAWAII!!!

• 53 alli // Apr 4, 2008 at 7:31 pm

  I love asian men…

• 54 maria // Apr 5, 2008 at 2:06 pm

  hey mari, you are not the only one. I am from Panama and married to the coolest Asian-American guy. I have plenty of latina friends who are into Asian guys. I am trying to hook them up with some of my husband’s friends!

• 55 cat; syke // Apr 6, 2008 at 3:54 pm

  sorry I disagree, I’m a white girl who has no attraction to western guys whatsoever, and I only date asian guys =)

• 56 Anything Black // Apr 7, 2008 at 6:33 pm

  you just like anime cat syke

  youll grow up soon

• 57 lisa:) // Apr 9, 2008 at 3:23 pm

  cat;syke
  finally someone who has my thoughts!!!
  i am a white girl in UK, never dated a white man!! i fancy asian men, to me they are hotter than any other male in the world!!! BUT!! do you have any idea it is to find an asian guy?? they either dont talk to me because they fear some sort of language barrier!! or they fear that i will fuck any guy that i happen to look at!! (not all white women are as easy as that!!) all i say is if you like a white woman then talk to a white woman! do you know why white men get asian girls?? because they have the balls to go upto them and make the 1st move!! i have never had an asian guy make the 1st move i have always had to start it! but then they tell me that after being my friend for a while they liked me but were afraid i didnt like them due to there race!
  its soooo frustrating that asian guys think ALL white women do not like them! but in fact white women like there man to be brave and make the 1st move so we wait and wait but then its too late!
  i am solving this problem of mine by actually learning mandarin (for now/something else later) so then maybe an asian man will feel ok talking to me because it wont be such a language barrier but i suppose that untill you men relise that confidence is key i guess i will still be making the 1st move!

• 58 lisa:) // Apr 9, 2008 at 3:30 pm

  oh and one more thing!!! as far as d*ck sizes go asian men are no smaller than any other man!! BUT asian men know how to work it A LOT BETTER wuhoo asian guy come rock my world (your out there somewhere )

  

• 59 Q // Apr 9, 2008 at 11:32 pm

  The comment by Tex has to be the most insecure one of this blog so far. It reads more like a vindication of your self worth. Gas guzzlers? Humiliating people by stealing their girlfriends? Laughing at the less fortunate? Are these supposed to be things to brag about?!? Surely life should be more than that. You’ve had a tough childhood, who hasn’t, but let’s move on. Be an agent of positivity in this world, not bottled resentment. We’re all here as one human race, we all want the same things in life, and all have our own insecurities. Most of the great wars in history were started by bickering little men with superiority complexes like yours. Please don’t contribute to the downward spiral, nor to the gene pool!

• 60 Darren // Apr 10, 2008 at 2:05 am

  It’s not very surprising seeing the articles and comments on this site. I’m kind of a mutt myself so, I tend to look at all the sites since I’m not sure which one I really belong to. I most identify with the white and asian sites. My last name is hispanic, but my largest single ancestral ethnicity is japanese. I think that the “stuff” sites will do well because they allow people to talk about social matters that are typically out of bounds in most circles. I looked at the sites for whites, browns, and asians and here is what I found. Needless to say these are generalization , but there is probably something to the stereotypes.

  White sites were generally all about white guilt. The main theme for most of the posts were poking fun at hypocrissy, arrogance, and status quo. Generally the white stuff site is the most “high brow” type humor. I would argue that their sensibilities are overly evolved to the point where it is becoming bizarre, much like french culture under Louis XIV for many of the same basic reasons. I would argue that the generic white culture is begnining decay, and is in need of re-invigoration through the struggle of hard times.

  Asian sites are all about inferiority complex. Asia by and large was conquered in large part by the west and the trickle down effect has been a sense of envy/jealousy. The asian cultures generally were largely immasculated during the wars with the west. I would say that confidence/arrogance is highly concentrated to a small minority of individuals, but the vast majority of asians subscribe to the “peasant” style paradigm hence the low self-esteem.

  The brown stuff sites are perhaps the most colorful and funny as one might expect (if you can identify with the humor). Like the asian sites they suffer from the low-self esteem problems also, but with a stronger emphasis on poverty, education, and oppression. In many ways its almost an exact opposite of the asian stuff sites in that the strengths and weaknesses are the mirror opposite of the asians. Where asians see themselves strong in education and weak in physical and social attributes, the browns see themselves as strong in the physical and social departments, but weak in education and opportunity. Having very little in common it’s not surprising that the two mix so little.

  Try not to take too much offense at my comments, as they are just thoughts after all.

• 61 Yammer // Apr 10, 2008 at 1:18 pm

  Size matters.

  Of course, I am talking about height. The real scourge amongst men is not our ****. Once you’re in the realm of getting your junk out, the date has obviously been going extremely well. There are other ways to impress her in and out of the sack, should you be packing a less-than-gargantuan trouser snake.

  However, chances are that she will not be on this date with you if she is three inches taller than you.

  If it is true, and I think it is, that East Asians are shorter on average, then it stands to reason that East Asian dudes are going to be vertically disadvantaged date-wise.

  I’ve dated girls of various ethnicities and my wife is white. I like to think I’m reasonably witty and presentable, but the real key is being 5′11″.

  If you can’t be tall, fellas, be very very very fit. Everyone else, merely be very fit.

• 62 Simon // Apr 10, 2008 at 1:35 pm

  All these posts are so matter of fact. Where’s the humor? “It’s funny because it’s true” doesn’t apply here. It’s just true… and sad.

• 63 Korean J // Apr 11, 2008 at 11:37 am

  I’ve noticed that most of your comments on this blog is not about asians, but about chinese. Alot of my friends dated white girls just for the sport of it. NO ONE I know wants to marry the white girl, true telling point. It’s similar to why europeans love American girls. I think it’s the same reason why my friends like white girls.

  Another comment is for the eye surgeries. I think you posted 2 korean girls, and mostly the finger is pointed towards koreans. The reason is, a majority of korean do not have big “creased” eyes. It does not mean that koreans don’t get it, in fact 15-20% do have it naturally. Rest of the 75% want it not because they want to look like white, but it was symbol of beauty that was passed down. They like the big eyes of their fellow korean. It’s like wanting something that’s rare. Now that most korean girls get it, media is starting to tilt the other way in korea. Too much is not considered cool. On the other hand, I’ve noticed a lot of chinese have it naturally, so less inclination to have it because the shortage is the non-creased eyes.

  Korea also is different from chinese or japanese. We’re very homogenic society and do not like other races that much. This includes whites. Although we might prefer ‘em over other races, we generally do not like whites all that much. It’s more of a curiosity. Alot of these ideas flows from the motherland to AAmericans here. Of course, I do not speak for the white washed ones.

• 64 Swoon // Apr 11, 2008 at 5:26 pm

  Oh my goodness, Asian guys are sooo addorable! Especially Filipino guys…..wow. Such sweethearts, really genuine and friendly, so nice to meet someone so friendly right off the bat, you automatically feel comfortable with any Filipino. Wish I had one…. haha. The first Filipino guy I met made my heart jump in my throat, so gorgeous!
  I hope Asian guys/everyone realises white girls arn’t all brainless! Although…. yes, some are, but same could be said all over. To sum up, I wish more Asians were super friendly like my Filipino friend!!! Not just for dating, but just for a friend! Although, as I said, Filipino’s are drop dead gorgeous with hearts of gold!

• 65 Ariel // Apr 13, 2008 at 3:44 pm

  […] the post ‘White Girls’: . . . most white girls do not even see asian guys as “dateable.” They would rather ask them […]

• 66 Anonymous // Apr 13, 2008 at 5:39 pm

  it’s true that many asian celebrities get plastic surgery for a better nose and eyes and what not but NEVER do they think that they are doing so because they want to be “white.” You are missing the true purpose. Stuff Asian People Like? i don’t thinks so.
  Also, this whole article is pretty much streotypical. Twinkies want to date white women? Asians want to be white? wtf Are we in the 1800s when the whites lived in the misconception of Superiority among races?

• 67 Anonymous // Apr 13, 2008 at 5:42 pm

  I agree… that this is Stuff Asian People Like NOT.

• 68 jewpanese // Apr 14, 2008 at 12:05 pm

  So of course you can make generalizations, and that’s the whole point of all the “What X People Like” sites. I’m not going to get all defensive about this shit just cause I’m a white chick marrying a Japanese-American guy, but I do want to give nerdy Asian guys (or any nerdy guys) hope. You might want to try chatting up a Jewish girl.

  A lot of Jewish chicks share stereotypical appreciation of intelligence, culture and education, and have strong geek tendencies. Most also love Asian food and might are sick of super-hairy physiques.

  Warning - if you don’t have a good sense of humor, don’t bother.

  And don’t be frightened of their families’ reaction. Even if they are disappointed that their kids are dating non-Jews, they’ll never admit it (even to themselves) cause they are too crippled by white liberal guilt!

  Bonus: If you end up making babies with the Jewish chick, you’ll have Asian-Jewish kids, the SMARTEST KIDS in the UNIVERSE.

• 69 Justin // Apr 14, 2008 at 12:10 pm

  Cool, thanks for the tip!

• 70 Amanda // Apr 14, 2008 at 8:43 pm

  I am a white girl, and I find this article funny.
  I don’t know where this “no white women will date asian men” thing came from…’cuz I know I would date an asian man, and many of my friends would rather date an asian man than any other race.
  I like smarts, looks, and personality…those three aspects seem to come hand in hand with every asian man I have ever met!

• 71 Isha Lee // Apr 15, 2008 at 8:30 am

  David #5, shut the **** up ****** *****

• 72 Asian dude // Apr 15, 2008 at 12:48 pm

  Alright, I’m gonna have to post my 2 cents here.

  First off, I’m an asian male; 3/4 Chinese, 1/4 Russo-Mongolian. I look like any other asian guy out there but most Chinese people don’t think I’m Chinese at first glance.

  I’m still in college for another few months but since I have been in college, the only girls that I have pursued have been white females. This pursuit has gone both ways too. About 90% of these pursuits, I have concluded was because of my physical attributes. I’m 6′, 180, and my abs will show through an underarmor shirt clearly. You think this is a good thing? Keep reading. Recently, this one girl that I had been hooking up with (who i thought we were dating), SMOKING hot btw, told me that she really liked this other guy and they were about to date but she lost interest in him because she had met me and that guy had no muscle or 6-pac. Furthermore, she made it clear that she wasn’t looking to date me.

  For more or less, every relationship I’ve had, this has been the scenario in one way or the other. I’m one of the nicest and most personable guy you’ll ever meet, I’ve never gotten into an argument ever with any girl I liked and I would always take them out on dates, call them, do nice things etc. Maybe I’ve just been setting myself up with the wrong girls or maybe it’s just not meant to be?

  So what’s my advice? If you’re just looking for some ass, go work out and get a nice 6 pack. As for love and relationships? I’ve got absolutely nothing.

• 73 Big Chan // Apr 16, 2008 at 7:39 pm

  why is there a guy named radiodue claiming to be straight then talking about gay porn?

• 74 CoolDustin82 // Apr 19, 2008 at 11:25 am

  First of all, Asians don’t try to look like white people. That sounds suspiciously like white power propoganda to me. I’ve heard of Asians getting eyelid surgery to put the lines in their eyelids. Those are naturally occurring in East Asians but just not as common. Besides, ethnic groups all over the world have “large eyes”, not just white people. Other ethnic groups have thin noses, too, but I’ll admit that it’s a trait that’s probably most common among Europeans. “A longer face”? Like you’ve never seen Asian people with long faces? I do. In the mirror! That one doesn’t even make sense. Fair skin has been a desired trait among Asian women since China was an advanced civilization laughing at European savages stealing their noodle recipes. A woman with fair skin did less work than the women working out in the rice fields. It’s the same standard of beauty principle behind the crazy foot-binding they used to do, because having malformed feet meant a woman did not have to work.

  Onto personal experience. Environment does shape your perceptions. So I bet if I grew up in Kentucky, I’d prefer white trash girls over any other. Luckily, I grew up in a more diverse environment. In the end, it depends on statistics. You go after who you like, not what race you like. If the majority of girls around you are white, which is often the case, then you will probably date a white girl. But if you live in Southwest Texas, you may date a Latina. I’m with a beautiful black (Creole) girl who’s very smart, cooks, and treats me well. We met in college. You can’t go after a woman for her race. It’s the 21st century. You have to treat other people as if they’re all part of the same human race.

• 75 CoolDustin82 // Apr 19, 2008 at 11:34 am

  A response to Yammer’s post about height:

  My dad was 6′ (I’m only 26; unfortunately he died too young, that’ why I say “was”) and I always thought I would grow up to be as tall as him. Surprise! I’m only 5′7″. But my girlfriend (future wife, we both decided), is probably an inch taller. To me, the idea that a man has to be bigger than a woman is outdated. I majored in anthropology, and one thing that stood out to me was that sexual dimorphism (physical size difference between male and female) has gotten less pronounced since our cavemen ancestors. It’s all up to personal taste, though, so if you’re short, just find a girl who doesn’t mind.

• 76 mixed breed // Apr 20, 2008 at 7:17 am

  in the words of Russel peters.. India and China have the 2 largest populations in the world.. so, all u white ppl… u can run from us for now. But, sooner or later… were gonna hump u!

  and in the future everyone is going to be beige

  cheers
  ~joker

• 77 aBlackguy1986 // Apr 25, 2008 at 7:21 am

  I guess I’ll be the man to represent the black community on this topic. Ahem; why do we get all the girls? well if its about fulfilling the 3 criteria of fitness, intellect, and confidence, we fill em but I don’t know about intellect. haha I’m bein real most black men in Los Angeles and San Diego aren’t exactly about hitting books. They pretty much grow up mastering the art of picking girls up with charm and looks. And thats honestly what asian girls are all about, looks.

  You never see hot asian girls with really dorky guys, so you are all led to believe that they want guys that are fit and confident but that’s not true. asian girls think that cause they put so much work on their own physical beauty that they deserve a guy that matches their level of good looks. Simple as that, homies. Asian girls have high high ass standards. and why shouldn’t they, they’re “worth it” right? Meh who knows. HOnestly all the asian girls I’ve dated are pretty much full out white anyway. They embrace white culture hence attracted to white boys more than anyone else. White culture is similar to asian cultures more than my latino brother’s and black brother’s cultures are by far anyway. So Through my experiences they’re a much better match with asian/white boys anyway. And we usually don’t stick with them anyway cause they’re so damn white hahah.

  Anyway all you asian brothers out there that think you can’t get asian girls, you might be trying to date the ASIAN AMERICANS that have embraced american standards of attractive men? like oh i dont know, white/black guys with nice bodies and confidence? I know for a damn fact that shyness from both sexes in asia is attractive. So keep ya heads up. Either you gotta change to fit in with the people here, or date foreign girls, homies. PEACE

• 78 CoolDustin82 // Apr 26, 2008 at 2:05 pm

  Originally posted by aBlackguy1986:
  “White culture is similar to asian cultures more than my latino brother’s and black brother’s cultures are by far anyway. So Through my experiences they’re a much better match with asian/white boys anyway. ”

  I don’t know about that. Me and my girlfriend are always talking about how her black culture and my Asian culture are similar. Black and Asian women have strong opinions. They believe in cooking a hot meal for their families. Black and Asian parents discipline their kids, not that “time out” stuff white parents do. We like fried food. We like rice. We don’t like Bush. We have strong family bonds.

  I can’t say much against the Asian girl and white guy combination, because my sister dates white guys. She’s the typical bossy Asian girl. I don’t get why white guys like that. But black girls and Asian guys should try each other out more often.

• 79 CoolDustin82 // Apr 27, 2008 at 7:33 am

  Wow, sam, angry much?

• 80 sowhat // Apr 28, 2008 at 3:46 pm

  Asian male here, my experience. It takes twice the effort to get a decent looking white girl while it takes half the effort to get a smoking hot asian girl. Even though I’m not that tall (5″11), I’m athleticly slim, relatively good looking, and possess a very open personality with no problems at all approaching women.

• 81 White female // Apr 29, 2008 at 9:53 am

  What ever happened to a good personality? I love my Jap man because he is a good man. He is a good father. A good provider and great in bed. I have dated white, mexican, black and asian. Men are all the same. They want a good woman, we want a good man. Find someone who loves you. The rest will work out.

• 82 ABlackGuy86 // Apr 29, 2008 at 4:31 pm

  yeah cooldustin im talking about similarities more obvious than strong family ties and how much our mama’s believe in cooking hot food for their families but aight hahah

  I AGREE 100% with whitefemale Thank you THANK YOU

• 83 Cheng Tung // Apr 29, 2008 at 6:21 pm

  Not all asians are good at math! My friend Mike failed out of high school and after he recieved his GED, he failed out of public university! WTF?

• 84 Anonymous // May 8, 2008 at 8:26 am

  i am a white girl, i dress conservatively and 75% of the time i leave my house i get approached and asked for my number.

  yet, i don’t think i’ve ever been approached by an asian guy.

  i grew up in a predominantly asian area and two of my best female friends, who are both white and very very attractive, are engaged to chinese men, one guy is 5′4 and the other is 6′0.

  girls love attention and will feed off of it from any guy, regardless of race. it’s strict statistics, unless the girl is racist.

• 85 asianbeauty // May 9, 2008 at 10:20 pm

  Well, whatever posted on this website is mostly based on stereotypes.
  Asians, whites, latinos, blacks, we can date who ever/ however we want, there is no boundaries just because whoever thinks they have smaller xx, or have a western look which include a six-pack. I know everyone is “stuck” with their own ethnicity, but appearance surely isnt the most important thing on everyone’s list.
  I’ve also heard that white guys like asian girls because we are “tiny”, (im 5′2 asian girl) but white girls will mainly go for guys who are buff, athletic, tall… therefore asian guys just have work harder.
  But the truth is, go for someone that is the right ‘fit’ for you, not the right “look.”
  IN the end, whoever loves you will end up with you, otherwise; no matter how god damn white, or asian, they leave you before you know it.

• 86 jumbo // May 12, 2008 at 8:03 pm

  awww this makes me depressed….im asain (indian)…and ive been with one white girl…mostly asains…i would like to date a white girl again too but i guess white women just dont like us?…dissapointing

• 87 Steve // May 14, 2008 at 11:35 am

  I’m an asian guy. I actually have a hard time dating and meeting asian woman. White girls are not a problem.

• 88 hot asian chick ;D // May 19, 2008 at 6:26 pm

  I sooo totallty agree with Kristyn!! I saw Onchal (idk how to spell it) on television too.She is such a beeeaaauuutiful girl but society got in her way and overpowered her mind into thinking that, “being white/having blue eyes” is the most beautiful thing. She was trying sooo hard to impress the judges. (no offense or anything to the white people,I didn’t think of it..she did.) Oh,It totally changed my perspective on things.

  I think it all depends on the individual and asians have different ways of thinking/customs than other ethnicities. Ever heard of the phrase, “Oppisites Attract”? Well,I think it’s true. Imagine spending time w/ a person who thinks like you.You guys would already know what you guys are thinking/like…and that’s kind of boring. You wouldn’t have a thing to talk about.

  Personally, I like all ethnicities. I thought I liked white guys only but I realized I also find some asian guys attractive too. So,I don’t know..depends on the PERSON.

• 89 carmen // May 23, 2008 at 4:31 pm

  mari #46 and maria #54
  that would make three of us.

  Wow i had no idea that the whole asian girls dating white guys and vice-versa was such a big deal but i’ve seen that happen quiet a few times although to my recolection i have never seen a asian guy/girl with someone who is hispanic? why? is this what you would consider as bad as dating someone who is black? i did not mean to use black people as a way to offend there are just as many beautiful black people as there are of any other race.

• 90 samuri warrior // May 26, 2008 at 2:42 pm

  im a white girl an im asian so stop putting in offensive writingabout me and im half african

• 91 I Wuv Bleach! // May 28, 2008 at 1:50 pm

  “When asian guys talk about “Bleach” to white girls, they immediately think “hair product,” before they realize the guy is talking about that book he is reading from right to left (manga).”

  First off, I’m a white girl and have loved Bleach (the manga and show) practically forever! (ok so since the subs and english manga were available…)
  And I prefer left to right, any manga I read that’s different messes me up

  and doesn’t that fact that white males can date Asian females mean that the Asian girls find the white guys attractive? Wouldn’t that mean that Asian girls do the same thing as the Asian guys?

• 92 ceridwen // May 30, 2008 at 1:48 pm

  i’m a ‘white’ girl (mixed heritage: cherokee, german, irish) who always thought that asian boys were kind of cute. I had always wanted to date an asian boy (that of course had similar interests as me).

  Anytime I would try to strike up a conversation with an asian boy at school, I would end up feeling embarassed, like I had embarrassed THEM by being to forward or talkative. Maybe my curvy-ness was a turn-off? I don’t know.

  I guess it just wasn’t meant to be, I ended up married to a guy of mixed blood like myself, (choctaw and scottish) who’s an army officer.

• 93 hayanyujah // Jun 3, 2008 at 12:14 am

  i think asian girl is a bit jelous…anyways each race has their hotties and their uglies, their sluts and their innocents…al i kno is im a hot polish girl going out with a hot korean guy and our relationship is very strong for a long time. at first i was hesitance with the limitations our relationship could develop but over time i realized our differences balanced out into a beautiful relationship and we love each other and thats all that matters. so al you ignorant mf’ers aka asian girl should stfu and think before you speak. p.s. i love love hina, bleach, princess mononoke, kimchi, and maplestory and all of the above something i wouldn’t have been exposed to if i would have been dating a lame ass white boy

• 94 blonde white girl // Jun 3, 2008 at 12:26 am

  Im a white girl and i love asian guys. They are so cute. But there are not alot of asian guys at my college or where i live. I would love to have an asian boyfriend.

• 95 Linda Chen // Jun 3, 2008 at 5:05 am

  Hi guys. I am a sexual and relationship expert, my name is Linda chen. Now I am going to review the secrets fact about interracial dating between asian guys and white girls.
  Most girls only date guys within their own race. Comparing to male, female’s sexual drive are lower, most female do not have a strong sexual preference (for example, my b/f must have six packs) when it comes to attractiveness, we consider a man’s kindness, sense of humour, personality are far important than their looks. That is why most of us prefer dating guys within our own race, because we feel more comfortable and easier to approach a guy who has more culture connection. This is why it is hard for any male to score a female with different race.
  Right now, some people will wonder why there are more af/wm couple than am/wf couples. There are a few reasons.
  1 Europe and US are the continents dominated by white male, because most people living there are white. Physiologically female would prefer to settle down with male who are able to protect them and look after them financially. In most white girls’ mind, white male can do better job than black and Asians

  2 Culture background, speaking openly, it’s our asian male culture. 1000 years ago, male can not kiss a girl or even hold their hands before they get married. Most of our parents do not allow us seeing girls before we finish our university. Asian guys are shy because in the back of their mind, strict family education becomes the barrier to their dating opportunity. Girls like a guy make the first move, that’s the rule.

  3 There are a lot of asian male who only date asian female because they consider asian female are more faithful to them. It is easier to dominate asian female rather than “open minded”, tall white female. Again this is kind of culture barrier.

  4 Some white female have strong sexual preference which means they prefer dating white guys only because their body are more attractive (for example they are taller).

  5 Western culture influence and trend matters. The whole world love American culture because they have the biggest corporation companies, best RnB artist, funky fashion design. In korea and japan, teenagers make their hair brown , put on make ups with whiter skin tone. 80% American male models are white, 80% American heroes are white male. our asian just fall for western culture. Once a white female friend told me she needs to love and understand a culture before she falls in love with the man from that particular culture. How many white women love our asian male domination culture? how many white female think its funky and trendy? How many hot asian male models you can find on American TV? we don’t get the asian image.

  Now, I am going to give a few tips to my asian men about how to approach white female.
  1 Be confident, all girls love confident guys, you should go out more, making more friends with different races, this will improve your social skill(also you can ask your white buddy if his sister looking for a b/f . )
  2 Break the culture rules and get into group. Don’t let conservative asain culture or your parents’ strict sex education bother you if you are looking for white female, because they do not buy it. You shouldn’t judge them by asain rules, you need to respect them and showing them you are strong enough to look after them. Be a good listener, pretend you are interested in what they are talking about and make their smile.
  3 get into gym, work out more, build up some muscles. If you are short, this is quite important.
  4 Be a slut, don’t be afraid to talk to the girls you like, you are a man, what are you going to lose? Focus on their emotions, first impression is very important. If they keep their eye contact with you longer than 5 seconds and quickly move away, then immediately look back at you, that means they like you.
  5 Western girls like going clubbing, club is the easiest way and most popular dating scene. Do not just sit at the corner all night hopping a girl will throw herself to you. Do some sexy dance to impress a girl, if you find someone like your butt, then you should approach her straight way( do not delay, it’s a biggest turn off for western girls) The only problem is our asains are not good at drinking, you need to practise more.

• 96 MW // Jun 3, 2008 at 9:18 am

  Hey Asian guys,

  ask us out! Really, if you strike out with white chicks, you have only yourself to blame. I think Asian guys are hella hot, but none of you ever talk to me! White guys, black guys, whatever guys — they make a move, but you never talk to me.

• 97 hayanyujah // Jun 3, 2008 at 9:24 am

  Linda Chen, you really shouldn’t be a sexual/relationship expert. it seems to me all you can do is spit out information that is given to you. relationships work because two people love each other not because of some **** statistics and generalizations and stereotypical observations on cultures

• 98 hy // Jun 3, 2008 at 9:27 am

  p.s. my bf is a drug dealer and he’s asian, now how do you explain yourself now….you still think asian boys are shy and have a strict education system? i don’t think so…you should think before you stereotype. o here’s a stereotype for you, asian girls can’t think for themselves

• 99 Dove // Jun 3, 2008 at 3:27 pm

  To be honest I think sometimes it can be as different in the opposite sense. As a white girl i have always found asian features very attractive but being 5ft 10 i find it difficult to approach as i fear they will be too conserned with my height or the fact that im not genetically as “dainty” as their female counterparts. Overall tricky really.
  good blog though, very good read.

• 100 Linda Chen // Jun 3, 2008 at 5:57 pm

  Hi hayanyujah

  Thanks for you comment about my post. I totally agree with you that “relationships work because two people love each other not because of some **** statistics and generalizations and stereotypical observations on cultures” But statistics, generalizations and stereotypical observations on cultures are the barriers of interracial dating between asian male and western female. I was using these elements to analyse the fact why most white female won’t date asian male. I don’t think you have noticed that. We all have bios and personal sexual preference in some degree, they affect our dating structure. Most white female do not know what is asian culture about, that’s why they will be afraid to date one.

  You also said “my bf is a drug dealer and he’s asian, now how do you explain yourself now….you still think asian boys are shy and have a strict education system?” well good for you, if that is type of guy you go for, but that doesn’t change the fact that most asian guy are hard working, kind and a bit shy when it comes to interracial dating. Did you say “asian girls can’t think for themselves” LOL please read my post in asian girl and white guy section to find more.

• 101 Kate // Jun 5, 2008 at 5:29 am

  I’m a white girl dating a Korean guy, I’ve always been more attracted to Asian guys, they have nicer skin, darker eyes and that great straight black hair. We’ve found when we go out in public people often stare, but it’s mainly been older Asian women, and they mostly seem confused as to how we overcome cultural barriers. But white girls in their 20’s are really jealous of my gorgeous boy, and several of my white female friends also have Asian boyfriends.

• 102 KahY // Jun 10, 2008 at 1:32 pm

  Over the years I’ve been approached by whites guys, hispanic guys, black guys, one jewish guy- but no asian guys. ever. is this because i’m black? because i’m 5′7″? because i’m not delicate looking? you tell me.

• 103 Kaila // Jun 14, 2008 at 8:45 pm

  My friends say I have yellow fever, because I love Asians. I love the small nerdy type. I love how the only hair I can see on my asian boyfriend is the hair on his head. They care about what they wear and what their hair looks like. I also love the fact I can’t pay for anything and how he got a 99 in Algebra 2 honors. My boyfriend has been here in the United States for about 5 months, and next week he is returning to Hong Kong for the summer. One of my best friends only dates asian guys too. My mother has dated asian men, and my last stepfather was from Vietnam. From what I know, White girls actually do like asian men. They like the cute gentle features, slim bodies, sensitivity, brains, amazing hair, and style. Most white girls don’t think asian guys want to date them because they never talk to them. My school is about 70% asian. out of that 70%, about 40% are FOBS. You really don’t see any of the fobs even approach a white girl. As long as your taller then the girl, you shaved you facial hair off, you don’t have teeth that match your skin color, and you don’t speak in that annoying heavy asian accent that we have no idea what your saying…you do have a chance like any white guy to date a white girl. Actually, most of my white friends would prefer dating an asian guy then dating a black guy. xDDD

• 104 TecH // Jun 15, 2008 at 5:21 am

  lets be honest all asain guys are ugly its nature inteneded - it sucks to be asain and unless you wipe them all out (the ugly ones) then there will always be thoses ugly asains who are left at the bottom feeling like shit because they live in a majority white environment so are brought up to find whites more attractive however cannot mate with them because they themselves are ugly- not by features but by race and nature asains are ugly as seen by whites

• 105 Linda Chen // Jun 16, 2008 at 10:07 am

  Tech, in your mind it’s full of hate. You need to see a doctor. Are you asian yourself? or you are just a jealous kid? grow up

• 106 lemure // Jun 18, 2008 at 9:41 am

  Huh? White girls are definitely not hard to get and are in abundance. They aren’t some rare trophy or exotic prize. I think this is really an American thing. While I grew up here, I’m primarily Afro Caribbean (Grenadian) identified but have South Asian grandparents. And from what I’ve seen particularly in Trinidad and Jamaica, East and South Asian men are just like any other man, they like pretty women, of any race. Asian women do seem to like white men alot though. As far as I’ve seen, most Asian men in the US (granted I’m a NYer) seem to prefer Asian women (though most of my Asian guy friends in particular - both American and “immos”- date any woman they find hot - then again they are pretty good looking, sweet, and employed guys, so its easy!) I’ve never heard this one.

• 107 lemure // Jun 18, 2008 at 9:43 am

  “…you don’t speak in that annoying heavy asian accent that we have no idea what your saying…you do have a chance like any white guy to date a white girl. Actually, most of my white friends would prefer dating an asian guy then dating a black guy” Kaila you are so ignorant, I can’t even begin to point out how many things are wrong with this.

• 108 SVT Cobra // Jun 20, 2008 at 11:42 am

  “im a white girl an im asian so stop putting in offensive writingabout me and im half african”

  That’s too many halves. You might be half afican and half white, but no asian would make that math mistake.

• 109 Ray // Jun 23, 2008 at 5:21 am

  white girls seem to be attracted to me at times. down-to earth regular girl next door types. And vice-versa. As I said earlier. nothing hotter than either a stereotypical pale-skinned redheaded freckled Irish girl (or any girl that happens to be white/european) or a pale skinned chapatsu, nihon-jin.
  so kawaii. got to love the red-heads. dyed or not.

• 110 Ray // Jun 23, 2008 at 5:23 am

  as for KahY post 102. I’ve hit on plenty of black women. But the only ones who seem to be attracted to me are the ghetto ones. Not my thing.

• 111 Ray // Jun 23, 2008 at 5:25 am

  Now a white girl with an ethnic sounding name like Cerwiden. that is HOT. sounds like it might be welsh.

• 112 elgato // Jun 24, 2008 at 7:53 pm

  I’m a Latino who dates an Asian girl (I look white which is what she found attractive) I have a lot of respect and admiration of Asian cultures always have. Don’t put diss the Asians, it lowers your IQ.

• 113 elgato // Jun 24, 2008 at 7:56 pm

  “Tech is an idiot, read his post, consider the source. He should not mate or spread his mutated inbred spawn across the planet.

• 114 Peter // Jun 24, 2008 at 8:44 pm

  lol

• 115 chink that is annoyed // Jun 26, 2008 at 3:28 pm

  loll WTFFFFFF

• 116 Mr.King Kong // Jun 29, 2008 at 11:30 pm

  I am an asia guys I have a new friend white girls her I really intz about her ex bf lots white never touch africa, latina, and asia I really understand about her cause I never saw a girl beautiful with eye blue and hair brown I have a feel about her….she like me cause she everyday look me into lunch the desk her the other desk but I have no chioce I try date her but I can’t do fuck long far at the road she living so far I do can’t take her…when I like that this is moring she hi to me I feel like that smile her.

• 117 MistressOfMusic // Jul 3, 2008 at 10:10 am

  I would just like to side with the white girls here. I, too, am a typical white girl, who happens to be VERY attracted to asian guys. But I feel like they won’t give me the time of day!! And I’m tall, so that doesn’t help at all-taller than Dove who posted a bit earlier…but nonetheless I think asian guys are hot! So, asian boys, please don’t be afraid of us darnit!!

• 118 anna // Jul 5, 2008 at 6:30 am

  I am a white chick. So white in fact, my parents are Euro immigrants and I am blonde. Okay, you’ve got the picture. I live in a big, big city. And I love Asian guys! Or some Asian guys. I love the Japanese skater boys. I love the metros. I mean, there’s lots of different types. BUT…they are so not into me! And I AM hot. I’ve gone out with two, and they were very different and great. I mean like anyone, like all people, they were individual. What I love about some Asian guys is they are so smart, and I love the dark hair and eyes. After that, it’s open. Other than a few creepy middle aged guys {who could be any race} I’ve just thought that Asians preferred Asian women.

• 119 Blondie // Jul 5, 2008 at 11:20 pm

  this is an interesting topic that seems to be all of a sudden in the current for me personally, and i guess collectively too. i never thought one way or the other about the attractiveness of asian guys, though i have had plenty of asian friends (female/male) over the years.

  but now, i have fallen in love a beautiful brilliant chinese scientist at work. and he has fallen just as hard for me. now i am so into all things chinese! for his part, he says it’s my california attitude and blond locks that were the initial draw. he is so brilliant and so spiritually evolved. he treats me with such respect. and the passion lust between us is just completely off the charts and out of this world.

  i have never met a white guy with whom i have had a similar experience. i am not saying they do not exist, but somehow they never came into my orbit. i have never been happier than i am now with my exotic brilliant zen master lover.

• 120 leavingjapan // Jul 6, 2008 at 7:11 am

  I’m a white girl and I really like Asian men. I’ve lived in Japan for 4 years and have had 2 Japanese boyfriends and one Chinese-Australian boyfriend. But actually I’m leaving Japan because Japanese men have broken my heart and left me hanging too many times. I love them but they don’t love me! (I’m small, petite, cute and adoring, plus smart! but deep down they really just want Japanese wives).

• 121 gian // Jul 6, 2008 at 6:19 pm

  ^^^Wow, where were you when I was at Arizona State. Sad to hear, but good thing there’s enough Asians to be had!

• 122 MM // Jul 7, 2008 at 8:30 am

  What should I make of being called a bitch in the first paragraph? Really, bad joke there, “female dogs.” Yep, that’ll get you attention. Having a real sense of humor attracts people. This, not so much.

  Big news: there are racists. Bigger news: they’re not all white. Biggest news: sexism beats racism every time.

  Want to date anyone? Bathe. Brush your teeth. Cultivate good taste. Engage with the world. Be an adult with ideas, interests and goals. Go places. Try new things. Make mistakes and learn to apologize. Laugh until you cry. Then do it the other way ’round.

• 123 Raj from Singapore // Jul 8, 2008 at 10:48 am

  Generally white women will not date Asian guys or any non-whites for that matter, even in countries such as Singapore where Asians are a majority..heck they wont even sit next to Asians, guys or gals in a bus…the only exceptions are the white South African women, both Dutch and British origin, who are very so desparate to stay out of their country that they will date and marry any Asian in Singapore.

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