Stuff Asian People Like

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• 1 Anonymous // Mar 18, 2008 at 5:09 pm

  true, but what about black guys?

• 2 steve // Mar 18, 2008 at 5:32 pm

  haha!
  white men consider their overly-large nose to be a symbol of authority, strength, and moral fiber. they know that asian women subconsciously recognize this as an important facet of western history and are deeply attracted to his nasal mojo.
  however, the white man is stuck in a dilemma- although the disproportionate nose carries with it power, he knows that if his kind continues to breed with other big-nosed types then one day there will arise one who can woo any women in the world with one flare of his nostrils.
  in defense of men everywhere, then, the white man must bear the burden to ensure noses don’t grow too large anywhere in the global gene pool. the best way to do this is to couple their genes with smaller-nosed asians.
  i assume the writer is an asian female, which could explain why she was not privy to these details. that’s forgivable. but people should know.

• 3 Tonya // Mar 18, 2008 at 6:35 pm

  Just so you know, Wentworth Miller (the handsome guy’s picture you posted with this entry) is half African-American and very proud of it. He first came to critical fame in the movie “The Human Stain,” which is about a light-skinned African-American who passes for white. But it’s nice to know you dig him.

• 4 Kyle // Mar 18, 2008 at 7:11 pm

  OK - At first I thought maybe this little essay was a self hating Asian thing - then I started to think it was a little more researched with the stats and might be legit - and then I started to feel that the author is just someone being upfront about a subject we were taught that “we ’shouldn’t’ speak about” - (sex relationships and stuff like that is just programmed in me from my Asian mother to just not talk about) - but then the author won me over with the comment on cute “halfie babies”…being a cute “halfie” (I prefer the term HAPA) myself with a white dad and Asian mom; well. . .I was flattered enough to end up liking the essay in the end. . .=) thanks!

• 5 suzy // Mar 18, 2008 at 7:48 pm

  Just to clarify Tonya’s statement, here’s an excerpt from Wentworth Miller’s wikipedia entry:

  “Miller has stated that his father is of African-American, Jamaican, English, German, Jewish and Cherokee ancestry, and that his mother is of Russian, French, Dutch, Lebanese and Syrian descent.”

  So I’m thinking the “half black” is a little bit of an overstatement. That being said, he’s a poster child for making a beautiful person out of a multitude of nationalities.

  Kristin Kreuk is an interesting blend as well. Here’s a quote from her wiki:

  “Kreuk was born in Vancouver, British Columbia. Her father, Peter Kreuk, is of Dutch descent; her mother, Deanna Che, is of Chinese descent, but was born in Indonesia; her maternal grandmother is Chinese-Jamaican.”

  Seriously, I gotta find me a guy who’s black-asian-french-brazillian-indian-arabic to marry so I can have the most gorgeous babies EVER. Wentworth Miller will suffice.

• 6 YASPY Chick // Mar 18, 2008 at 9:01 pm

  Note about John and Yoko: Yoko was also like 7 or so years older than John! Does this mean that she’s a cougar? Or does she have to be 10+ years older to be one?

  Oh, and I notice a lot of Chinese women dating Jewish men…

• 7 Anonymous // Mar 18, 2008 at 9:24 pm

  LOL, I don’t think so. Sure there are some gorgeous half Asian/half white people out there, but there are also just ugly ones. Mixing with whites doesn’t give you magical, guaranteed-beautiful kids. To be honest the cutest Asian-mixed kids I’ve seen were Asian-black and Asian-Middle Eastern. Yup.

• 8 estella // Mar 18, 2008 at 11:00 pm

  i’ll be honest. i’m an asian female who happens to be attracted to white males. i’m primarily not attracted to my nationality for the “fear” that i could be related to them.

  that, and for some unknown reason, i find most of the white males asthetically pleasing to my eyes.

• 9 perfectlynice?? // Mar 19, 2008 at 12:56 am

  white guys are lot more aggressive in pursuing a girl they want compared to most Asian guys I know. Plus, they don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc. Most Asian guys want a more traditional bride, stay at hoome mom even though their women may have graduate degree physics, chemistry, etc.

• 10 Scott // Mar 19, 2008 at 2:50 am

  estella: “i’m primarily not attracted to my nationality for the ‘fear” that i could be related to them.”

  I have tons of Turkish friends. They’re a very closely knit group and none of them date non-Turkish people. And Turkey is such a smaller place than the major Asian countries. I swear, I know five girls named Zeynep. Anyway, from your statement I think you’re weird! The chances you’re related to the Asian guy in the next cubicle is probably nil.

  I’m a Chinese-American male and I also find whites (women) more attractive than Asian women. I have since I was in junior high. I was the one Asian guy who always dated white girls when all my buddies were dating Chinese girls. I think the reason for this, and perhaps for you as well, is because my whole life I’ve been exposed to nothing but beautiful and sexy white women–Maxim magazine, Playboy, the SI Swimsuit issue, Victoria’s Secret, tv commercials, tv shows, movies, fashion models, etc. Probably the only time I found an Asian woman attractive was when I was in Hong Kong and there was a cute girl in a clothing store. I think if I had stayed in HK I probably would have ended up dating a Chinese girl but when I got back, I became Americanized again. I’m guessing you watch Brad Pitt or whomever white actors you like and the only Asian guys you see on tv and movies are dweeby scientists while the white actors play the hero and romantic lead. It makes alot of sense to me if that’s the case.

• 11 Anoymous1 // Mar 19, 2008 at 3:07 am

  I agree with Anonymous; how many Kristen Kreuks are there in the world? One in 100,000? By the way, some of the best looking halfies are from Asian-male/White female and Black male/White female combinations:

  AM/WF:
  Russell Wong (DROOL! Have you seen New Jack City or Romeo Must Die? Gorgeous!)
  Keanu Reeves (Also really good looking. He looks more white than Asian, though he’s definitely got the Chinese eyes. I think he looks most Asian in Speed.)
  Brandon Lee (Bruce Lee’s late son–great body)

  BM/WF:
  Wentworth Miller (already established above)
  Derek Jeter (shortstop for the Yankees–quite handsome)

  And the women, too:
  Halle Berry (one of the most beautiful women in the world IMO)
  Alicia Keys (also beautiful)

  I think that’s the better combination–Ethnic Male + White Female LOL

• 12 Justin // Mar 19, 2008 at 3:54 am

  @Scott: very nicely explained. I agree that being related should not be a fear. I’ve never heard that as a reason from any asian girl. Today was the first.

• 13 YASPY Chick // Mar 19, 2008 at 5:59 am

  Scott,

  Maybe you like girls who are the equivalent of the “All American” type? The Asian girls I grew up with here in Toronto were either really high maintenance (you know, those who take all the advanced classes, are pretty, play piano, violin AND flute until they finished high school AND hold high-paying jobs (if they’re out of school) ) or quiet and nerdy types. Rarely do I see an in-between. Hong Kong, however, has lots of those, and that girl-next-door type is their ideal. Why else would the Edison Chen sex scandal be so career-ending for the female celebs involved? In Hollywood, it would only ELEVATE the girls.

• 14 Anonymous // Mar 19, 2008 at 9:31 am

  FYI, if you’re going to talk about white guys, at least post a picture of a 100% white guy. Wentworth Miller is half black . . . not that he’s not eye candy!

• 15 ?????????????????? // Mar 19, 2008 at 10:07 am

  i see alot of asian women with white men, but i think it would be more accurate to say that asian women love black men. I see it so often its normal. As a matter of fact, i see that more than two asians together. BTW my black boyfriends mother is thai. i rest my case.

• 16 Justin // Mar 19, 2008 at 3:46 pm

  @Anonymous, please read suzy’s explanation above, also read post #26 to understand why this article is about white guys as your points are valid that asian girls date other people than just white…but majority of them date white guys…you’ll understand if you start our blog with #26

  we were going to stick with wentworth miller since girls consider him hot but we found another picture.

• 17 anon // Mar 19, 2008 at 6:46 pm

  You should have left the Wentworth Miller picture up. That picture you have up there? I’m guessing that’s not a real couple. Look at the guy’s eyes. He looks like a robot. This looks like an Asian girl tourist visiting an Abercrombie store where they have the half-naked models at the door and she asks to have her picture taken. He might as well be Mickey Mouse at Disneyland. On second thought, maybe you *should* leave it there b/c it’s such a goofy picture if you look at it for more than a second. Besides, any tall, blonde haired, blue-eyed, muscle-bound male-model type is not going to go for a short Asian girl whose eyes don’t reach his neck. A guy like that gets with a tall, gorgeous white woman, probably also blonde with long legs.

• 18 zimri // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:20 pm

  Hmm… interesting blog. (I’m English, personally; we’re the Japanese of Europe…)

  A few comments:

  I have met Hapa girls and I have been to New Mexico… honestly, I can’t tell the difference. One Hapa lady friend (Korean-Greek) told me that Mexicans kept talking Spanish at her. But although she did not look nearly as exotic as she in fact was I will concede she was cute.

  As for Ono - Lennon, my impression is that the relationship was working out great until some butthead shot the gaijin.

• 19 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:21 pm

  I lived in Japan for 10 years and have 4 gorgeous half-breed kids.

  My youngest now works at the Polynesian Cultural Center in Hawaii where he tells the tourists that he’s a full blooded hawaiian, tongan, or samoan. He’s half Japanese and Half white….no polynesian blood at all.

  He looks a lot like Johnny Lingo in the old movie.

• 20 gil // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:21 pm

  A buddie of mine refers to his ABC sister’s kids as ‘Swirlies’, but they sure are cute. As for the whole Asian fetish thing, it’s totally A) Childish and B) Moronic. Girls lap it up because they like the attention, but it’s hardly the kind of thing that’s going to result in a real relationship. As for my ABC friend, he’s going steady with a good Korean lass who is totally hiding there realtionship from her parents, but that’s life.

  March 21, 2008 4:48 AM

• 21 song li-ling // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:22 pm

  OK, easily offended hetero folks, stop reading now. Gaysian guy here to say that the white guy fetish is even more prevalent among gay (U.S.) Asian guys. Not brain surgery to figure out why, for the all the obvious socio-political psycho-sexual reasons. If white guys have the ostensibly highest status in the American dating pool among straight people, you can imagine how doubly minimized a gay Asian guy might feel in the even more insular competitive gay world. Don’t know if you would ever hear this in a straight bar, but get more than two Asians in a gay bar, and some white guys will actually say out loud that we have taken over, and when did this place become Saigon City. Believe it. Drag out ever bad cliche about the older unattractive white guy getting the twinky off-the-boat smaller Asian guy. The “last one picked” syndrome.

  Pretty much the same, but to a lesser extent, for the American-born Asian gay guys, who are most likely to want to date in this order: White, Hispanic, Asian, black. It’s changing slowly; improved self-image, self-empowerment, enlightment, or simple political correctness now dictate that younger gay Asians will actually consider dating their own kind. It’s progress of sorts. But go to any gay ghetto in the big cities, and if you see a couple where one is Asian, the odds are more than good that other guy’s gonna be white.

  March 21, 2008 2:14 PM

• 22 estella // Mar 22, 2008 at 8:49 am

  Scott : “Anyway, from your statement I think you’re weird! The chances you’re related to the Asian guy in the next cubicle is probably nil.”

  maybe i am weird. or maybe it has happened to my friends. she became attracted to this guy of the same nationality as us. after awhile she had this feeling she was related to him, so she checked it out and they were. it wasn’t like she was attracted to/liked/had a crush –what have you — on an immediate relative (uncle, cousin … because that would be really unnerving). it was more of a 2nd or 3rd cousin, or even more distant.

  but even if its to someone related somehow, someway, even a distant relative. its still not a good revelation to find out.

  i don’t know if the last few statements of your comment were directed to me, so i’ll just say that from the time i became attracted to the opposite sex, i noticed that i was primarily attracted to white guys.

• 23 544 // Mar 23, 2008 at 5:25 pm

  America hates Asian guys, and makes fun of us. When we start getting some respect, they find a clown Asian to mock. Other people of color do it too. It’s been fucked up like this for a century, and shit isn’t changing fast enough.

  I don’t blame our Asian sisters from doing the crossover. They’ve been facing the same thing, but in different ways, and, white people are giving them a pass into the white world. It’s only human to take the goodies when they’re offered.

  And it’s not like Asian guys have been 100% upstanding either. I know some who go and screw a bunch of women to make some point to themselves. Some women do this, too, but not the way guys get out and just do the “pump and dump.” Some of them pay for it. (Then again, it’s not like they’ve got a lot of women after them, so, at some level, they’re free to do whatever they want. I don’t bag on Asian women who’ve fucked a lot of guys. The opportunity for them is more than for any other women, and they have shit to work out, too.)

  One thing that bugs me is Asian women who get with white guys and then act like they’re better than Asians, and start getting racist on Asians. (Some guys do this too, but it’s not that common.) Another thing that bugs is Asian women who get with a Black man, and start talking like they’re Black, and then start acting all aggressive and ghetto.

  I’m not saying this happens to everyone. Most people don’t even get like this. Way more often, it is the other way around, with the guy wanting to be Asian (which is also creepy). It’s just, please, ladies, you’re still Asian, and the rule in America is that if you’re Asian looking, you are a representative for all Asians. Don’t be a racist, and don’t be a bitch.

  I guess it would be fair for me to criticize crossover guys too. I’m not sure what to say, because I’m a crossover too. Maybe the main thing is don’t get racist on Asians and don’t pretend to be some other race. Even if you feel more comfortable in other environments, look in the mirror and know how the world is still looking at you. You have to spend time trying to lift the situation for your Asian brothers.

• 24 Just because // Mar 26, 2008 at 11:12 am

  I’m a white guy dating an Asian girl so I’m getting a kick out of these replys. (tribute to fark cliches)

• 25 Kit // Mar 26, 2008 at 8:35 pm

  I can guess why white guys get Asian girls - possibly because THEY’D ASK THEM OUT. I swear in high school almost all the Asian guys were like shorter and thinner than I was - and I think my average height and average weight must have scared them off. Because they never paid any attention to me. There is a double standard - Asian guys complain Asian girls date white guys, but a lot of them want thin thin HK girls or are all too engrossed with their computer games to pay attention to girls who weren’t a size 2. As I got older I realized I could not engage in regular conversation with an Asian guy. Topically, the ones I knew, we had nothing in common. I also grew up in a predominantly Asian neighbourhood in Ontario, so who knows how I ended up with a white army boyfriend.

• 26 vldschmidt // Mar 27, 2008 at 11:25 am

  that’s not Wentworth Miller by the way…that dude is definitely not him! Stop being such haters and get over it…Asian and white dudes are about as American as apple pie and make better couples. This is coming from the product of a marriage of a White dad and Vietnamese mom.

• 27 leezy // Mar 28, 2008 at 4:01 pm

  I’m a black man married to an asian woman. I personally hate these conversations, asian women have all sorts of preferences in men. To me, it all depends on where they are from. If they are cali asians sure they loooooove white guys. In NY you see more asians with black men than you do with asian men. We black men also get this rep for liking white women, but that is soooooooooo not true. It may have been 10 years ago, but not anymore. a woman is a beautiful creation whether she is asian, black, white, latino, middle eastern(asian),etc… if she’s hot she’s hot. once people start thinking that way. We’ll be on our way to a better world. Until then….I’m happy with my choice and glad she looooooooves black men!

• 28 Justin // Mar 28, 2008 at 6:09 pm

  i feel like it’s not a matter of race when you’ve fallen in true love…asians white black latino etc…

• 29 Steph // Apr 1, 2008 at 11:01 am

  I’m an asian girl and am only attracted to asian guys. Can’t ever imagineeeee dating a white guy, nor do I want to.

• 30 Maia // Apr 1, 2008 at 9:51 pm

  I’ve read somewhere that typically if a child aged 10 and under moves to a different country that has a different language, they are more likely to completely absorb the new language and accent better than a child 11 and over who are more likely to speak in the new language with an accent. I think this can also be applicable to culture and even preferences. My older sister was about 14 when she moved here from the Philippines and she still has her Filipino intonation when she speaks English. My brother who was 7 when we moved somehow physically can’t speak Tagalog though he understands it. I, on the other hand, moved when I was eleven and though I can speak fluent Tagalog, I can’t get rid of that slight American twang when I speak it.

  Interestingly enough, our dating records all reflect this predominance (my sister dated mostly Asian guys and married a Filipino, I dated a little bit all over the board but I’m in a long-term relationship with a white guy and my younger brother have only dated the whitest [as in skin color] girls I’ve ever seen).

  So that may have been a long obvious response but nonetheless a small consideration. And the fact that my offspring could possibly have green slant-y eyes (I have some European blood too so it is possible), not a bad deal topper.

  OH and I’d have to agree with Kit that yeah, the white guys actually asked me out! None of the Asian guys I went out with asked me out directly per se. It was always kind of pussyfooting around the issue until it was pretty obvious. But then again these instances were in high school and college…

• 31 Mongol Warrior // Apr 3, 2008 at 4:54 am

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  Asian women with white guys are ****. Pure and simple. Go with whites - but never expect anything again from your own race. You have sold out. A traitor. The lowest of the low.

  End of story.

• 32 sy88 // Apr 3, 2008 at 6:31 am

  Mongol warrior, from a personal point of view, I’m a bit sad that the white guys are taking “our girls”, but man it’s the 21st century, get a life! There’s a thing called ‘free will’ and people can date whoever they want, pur and simple. Your insulting comments aren’t wanted on a place like this.

  End of story.

• 33 M3 // Apr 3, 2008 at 10:49 pm

  Mongol Warrior speaks the truth. ALL YOUR WOMEN ARE BELONG TO M3.

  (M3>Civic)

• 34 YASPY Chick // Apr 4, 2008 at 9:53 am

  Maia,

  I know people who were born and raised in an English speaking country, who speak without an accent, yet have recognizable traits of a specific culture. For example, one only has to listen to Martin Scorsese or Rudy Guiliani speak to realize that they’re Italian-American. Plenty of Asians, especially Hong Kong Chinese Canadian women under 40 have a tone of speech that is very much Hong Kong Chinese as well. Including people who do not have accents.

• 35 Justin // Apr 4, 2008 at 3:54 pm

  Hi Al, we’re just talking about a group of people who like white guys in this post. I would agree with you that majority of asians date within their race; however, dating outside is a new trend many people are observing. I feel that skunkgal has the freedom to explain her choice and where she’s coming from. Thanks for your comment. - J

• 36 freeearth // Apr 5, 2008 at 9:17 am

  I am a German/English-American guy married to my beautiful Korean-American wife. We have a beautiful daughter.

  What originally caught my eye for my wife was her gracefulness and beauty when we were in psych class together. She paid no attention to me and from observing her I determined she stayed within the Asian groupings. Another hurdle I figured for this blue grey eyed white boy. I had shortly dated a Laotian-American girl before but besides that my girlfriends had either been white or Mexican.

  I purposely sat near her and made it a point to be very friendly and jovial with her. She was born here but her parents had immigrated in from S. Korea.

  I finally asked her out for coffee and she said no that she couldn’t. I had found out she had a boyfriend (Chinese-American) but I took the gamble anyways. I kept “bothering” her about coffee and finally she relented.

  To make a long story short, we hit it off wonderfully and eventually she broke it off with her boyfriend and then we started dating. We dated through college and graduated at the same time. It took over a year for her to finally tell her parents about me. Needless to say they were none to happy and even threatened to force her to change schools. But their barking was bigger than their bites.

  We married 3 years ago and have a great life together. She put her career on hold for our daughter (not at my urging btw…entirely her decision) and her family fully accepts me now..especially now that we have a child.

• 37 Justin // Apr 5, 2008 at 9:45 am

  Check post 40 for more discussion on Asian and Dating. Keep in mind that this is a fun, light-hearted satire piece - so please take it for what it is.

• 38 WhoaIsMe // Apr 5, 2008 at 8:25 pm

  Media case in point:

  The film “21″ is the life story of MIT grad Jeff Ma.

  Instead of an Asian actor playing him, they chose a white Brit.

  How many Asian actors are chosen to star in films based on white guys lives?

• 39 sy88 // Apr 5, 2008 at 8:53 pm

  “How many Asian actors are chosen to star in films based on white guys lives?”

  The answer is: very few. You have a valid point, WhoaIsMe. The main exception in Hollywood seems to be Lucy Liu, who as an Asian can get white roles, but she is a real discrepancy. There’s a few others, but they can’t seem to get ‘white roles’ on a regular basis, and tend to float back into ‘Asian roles’. That’s why many a respected HK actor like Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung almost refuse to break into Hollywood, because of their fear that they will be pigeonholed as an ‘Asian character’.

  As for the recent film 21, simply put, it’s been Hollywood-ised (that’s not a word, is it?). Pretty much, the sad truth is, there’s not enough Asian actors of prominence, or with rising star potential that can be used to headline a film. There are 2 Asians in the film, Aaron Yoo (Shia LaBeouf’s friend in Disturbia) and some girl with the name of Liza Lapira, who possibly could be half Asian (?). They’re hardly the sort of people who can be used to headline a film. So basically, I’m not too fussed about that. Most people would seem to be more fussed about the fact that a pretty much unknown Brit actor (Jim Sturgess) has got the lead role instead. Well, at it’s core, deep down inside, 21 can be seen as a bit of a star-pushing vehicle for Jim Sturgess, as they see him as a potential star-in-the-making. He was awesome in a little film called Across The Universe IMO and 21 is another film to push him as a leading man, but I digress… Point is, there just aren’t any Asians in the same situation. Perhaps it’s something wrong with the system, perhaps it’s subliminal racism, who knows…

  Hey, also relating to 21, you could argue anti-sexism as well, as in ‘real life’ the group comprised of all Asian males. They plonked 2 females in there (Liza Lapira and Kate Bosworth) because frankly it’s nothing more than a film. If it was truly based on real life, quite simply, there’d be no chicks in the film…

  Ah, great opportunity to let me rant about one of my favourite topics

• 40 asian girl // Apr 6, 2008 at 5:35 pm

  white guys are hot(:

• 41 foxwithcpu // Apr 7, 2008 at 8:28 am

  I have 3 main preferences in men: built, educated, respectful. I prefer the dark handsome types no matter what race. And muscles. I like guys who hit the gym. No pudginess or skinny indie-chic for me.

  The thing I find intolerably unattractive? Guys who whine about not being able to get a girl instead of going out there and getting one. Cry me a river. I wonder why you’re not getting any.

  PS: For any nay-sayers out there - I am a Vietnamese American woman who has been in a relationship with her Vietnamese American boyfriend for 2 years. Coincidentally, he’s pretty damn secure in his manhood and this has always been a non-issue for him.

• 42 Asian Girl // Apr 9, 2008 at 2:06 pm

  I don’t get the fascination with white guys. They just look foreign to me, maybe the way some white guys look at asians as foreign.

• 43 LeaMae // Apr 10, 2008 at 11:29 pm

  I’m a half white, half Native American and I say asian boys are yummy.
  I have dated Native American, White, and am now dating a Viet boy and am extremely happy. I love asian boys because they are a LOT more respectful to me than any African American or white guy has ever been. What is up with the lack of respect for women these days anyways?

• 44 Korean J // Apr 11, 2008 at 11:17 am

  I think ur ****. Obvious it’s the Media. US’s #1 export/industry, entertainment, portrays white men that asian women, all women, fantasizes. Is the portrayal true, hell no. But joke will be on ‘em soon.

  One evidence I point to is what is called Korean wave (hallyu) going on in Asia recent (past 3-4 years?). Where other asian countries fell in love with korean dramas, and thought most korean men were good looking and romantic and rich like the leading men. Many women even came to korea to look for her dream man in korea. Jokes were on ‘em, because most of these guys tended to be a playas, and not romantic nor rich at the least. It’s a false portrayal created by a entertainment medium. So blame hollywood. Blacks do, so should we.

• 45 Latino Man // Apr 14, 2008 at 12:16 pm

  I’m sorry, but in your post’s third paragraph you wrote:
  “One economist says it’s because Asian women are the least discriminatory female demographic (second-to-last paragraph)”

  However, the actual quote from the article is:
  “However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). ”

  So how did you get the “least discriminatory female demographic ” from that??? As a latino man, I can tell you that from my experiences, that getting asian women to give me the time of day is a lot harder than for women of any other race. However, when I show some status, i.e. Harvard grad, financially successful, they tend to become more receptive.

• 46 Kate // Apr 19, 2008 at 4:24 pm

  Could it be height and weight that makes Asian women attracted to white or black men? I know a lot of girls want guys that are taller and from living in San Francisco, MANY Asian guys are SO SHORT!!! And not only short, but HELLA skinny!! I’m average, not a size 0. I probably would break their toes if I accidentally stepped on it. I’m an ABJ (American born Japanese) dating an ABC (American born Chinese) and couldn’t be more in love. I used to go for white guys, but my bf isn’t the typical Asian I see in the city. He’s tall (6 feet even) and is muscular (Mmmm.) All the prior guys I dated were tall and muscular…and white. The only other Asian guy I dated was short, but muscular. That’s what I think. But people shouldn’t HATE on Asians or whites or blacks! People like who they like.

  And speaking of half bred babies. There are some really hot half white half asian babies and half black half white/half asian babies, but TRUST ME that there are butt ass ugly half babies. If you think babies can’t be ugly, work at a day care. There are a lot of half babies and some are just NOT CUTE!

• 47 c0nscience // Apr 24, 2008 at 1:45 am

  I have a fever, and the only prescription is MORE ASIAN CHICKS!

• 48 sowhat // Apr 28, 2008 at 3:20 pm

  Mixed white/asian babies are all cute? LOL. If anyone wants to get real for a second, the attractive scale for any race, mixed or not, is usually the same across the board. An ugly white dude with an ugly asian chick will just make an ugly mixed kid with serious identity issues. Still need attractive parents to make attractive kids, genetics don’t lie. Btw, in my experience, most of the white male/asian female couples aren’t very good looking at all, especially the females.

• 49 HAHAHA // Apr 28, 2008 at 9:46 pm

  This was going along pretty good until the end. Then everybody had to go and get racist.
  Let me be another ass to add his opion. I am married to a malay and am white.
  Asian women like whitey because on average we are nicer and more open with our emotions.
  Our familys tend to be more accepting of our wife. Yes we do not have a problem with our wives working or having something defining them outside of our marriage (my wifes mother wept WEPT!! when I told her I was had no problem with her daughter working)
  And not to sound like a white power douche, but you just can’t beat the blue eyes.

  We are attracted to them because on average they are slimmer and more feminine than white or black women. They tent to be much more apreciative of anything you do for them (my wife about fell on the gorund when I changed a diaper for her sister) They tend ot be much more together financially and emotionally then anybody else.
  And come on they are just so freaking cute….
  They way their noses crunkly when they smile. And those deep sparkley brown/black eyes.
  Man……beautiful.

  But mostly I think is becasue the stigma has been removed. Whites/blacks dating are excepted, even embraced.
  All I can say is I walk around with my wife and people barley take notice.
  I love my wife. She is my heart. She is the person I have found that I think is good enought to have my babies grow in her stomach.
  I’m not with her because she is asian, but I was attracted to her becasue of it.

  Asian women are dating out of their “race” because they now have the power to do it. They can bring a non asian home without their parents throwing them out.
  So don’t hate man. Just live.

• 50 Elle // May 1, 2008 at 11:18 am

  LOL. OMG that film was awesome funny! Tow things: why is the Indian guy calling Philip “you asians”? Indians (from India) are Asian too! And why isn’t Filipinos included in the tags? =(

  I’m a 30-yr old asian with female with a white guy from England. But I think Philip Wang is so attractive I will take a breather from my boyf and date him for 2 weeks! I can honestly say I can see myself with a man of various race. I have friends who’s told me “I only date white guys” or “I will only be with black guys” which is so juvenile since the foundation of that relationship will be based on physical attraction. But whatever floats their boat ei?

  Dating/marriage outside race has nothing to do with with where the other person is from, which gender/color mix-match. It’s about understanding the other’s beliefs, background, culture, behaviors, and IF THE PERSONALITIES CLICK!

  Nuff said.

• 51 Elle // May 1, 2008 at 11:23 am

  Oh and btw, I know that half-naked guy on the photo. His name is Darryl and that shot was taken at A&F at the Grove. lol. small world indeed!

  p.s. Why is Wentworth so darn handsome?! =)

• 52 Cocobutter // May 2, 2008 at 3:20 pm

  I am a Black woman from the U.S. You guys seem really nuts! I was hoping for some critical race analysis here, but YOU AIN’T GOT ANY!!! My god, they have brainwashed you. I was hoping blogging amongst your own, you really have something inciteful to say about the weird asian/white couplings. I’m not sure the most important thing is to wish for cute mixed children. Stop being so shallow.

  I often have watched Asian women friends go for white guys for a variety of reasons. I think some legitimately like their boyfriends, however many seem to passively engage in a relationship where they will benefit the race and class privilege of their white lovers. I’m a little embarrassed for these women at times. Will you give any part of yourself away, just to be with a white man?? I think you will. Being westernized is a helluva drug.

• 53 Chibolyte // May 3, 2008 at 7:39 am

  I do love them cute halfie babies, and many halfie people are amazingly good looking.

  But, as an Asian female, I actually do prefer the Asian male much more than the White male. I don’t know, many white men are very good looking, but I just don’t find most of them as attractive as many Asian men. I like masculine men, but to be honest I’m really attracted to feminine men. There are plenty of trendy, feminine guys in places like Japan, China and Korea (I um, have a thing for Japanese men). So I do agree with you on a certain level from an objective point of you, but the way say it makes it seem you are applying it to most Asian women, which isn’t true. Almost every single of my peers that are Asian (both men and women) prefer Asian counterparts.

• 54 helena // May 4, 2008 at 2:58 pm

  Chinese-American girl here. I don’t like white guys, the only hot one I can think of is Sean Connery (who doesnt even like Asian girls - aww.) In fact I feel especially embarassed for those Asian women who date white men for “pretty babies” or social benefits. I can only hope I see the worst of those relationships, being in the Bay Area ‘n all. I do like Black and Latino guys too, in addition to Asian. I also think black-latino mixes are the best looking in general, with asian-white & asian-black the ugliest. sorry.

• 55 J // May 5, 2008 at 2:13 am

  Has anyone else noticed the phenomenon of cute asian girls with really ugly white guys?! That always angers me. Everytime I go to Santana Row I see a ton of these strange oddball couples. It makes me think that maybe the Asian girls are so happy to be with a White guy that they don’t care what he looks like…

• 56 joe // May 5, 2008 at 8:35 am

  Why does it anger you? Are you angry when you see a cute Asian girl with an ugly Asian guy?

• 57 ladyluck // May 5, 2008 at 10:37 pm

  I’m an Asian American girl that constantly is hit on by white men (every kind of white man) everywhere - on my way to/from work, walking anywhere, going anywhere/doing anything really.

  Personally, what I find the most offensive is when a white man comes up to me (I look mixed/racially ambiguous) and will say something along the lines of “I’m French, and you look Vietnamese. We colonized your country! We have something in common! *smile*”

  I hope I don’t need to go into why that makes me. . . annoyed.

  I like Asian American guys and have gotten verbal abuse from both White males and Asian/Asian American females. In the end, getting mad at me for not dating you, or saying that I’m wrong for rejecting some random white dude doesn’t make the world a better place.

  To all the white guys with Asian Fetishes in the Bay Area, stop trying to literally molest and/or press your body onto the girl next to you on the bus (me). She really will kick you where the sun don’t shine next time.

• 58 guest // May 11, 2008 at 6:34 pm

  white, black, yellow, brown, tall, short, thin, fat, etc - who cares?? what really matter is the personality, the heart, the soul and whether they’re mutual…the reason why you guys could be so disgust by interracial dating/marriage is because you had never been in one or it was a bad one, talking about those shallow and narrow minded people…learn people, learn!

• 59 blah // May 14, 2008 at 11:40 pm

  parents: born and raised in hong kong.
  me: born and raised in jakarta indonesia…
  currently dating: a colombian man, (first boyfriend, goin on three years now)… graduated from highschool together, and now in college studyin art and design…

  we both grew up in international schools… and so we’re both super internationalized. i dunno why everyones making such a huge fuss out of who’s dating who and from which race… and i honestly don’t think they’re dating for the whole “my baby will be cute” factor… i honestly think its just based on pure attraction of personalities and characteristics.

  i have loads of friends ranging from asians, whites (americans, europeans), blacks, arabs… you name it, i got a friend that is that race. you can be purple, green or blue, and if you’ve got the personality, id date you if i didnt have a boyfriend.

  man…i seriously think some people just need to open up. asians that are callin asian chicks bitches for dating another race…wtf man… wtf. that’s the meanest shit i’ve heard. just cos an asian chick is dating someone from another race doesnt mean she’s ashamed of being asian, damnfck im proud of being asian, and no one can take that away from me… and im not being a traitor just because im dating someone from another race (you’re fckin narrow minded and racist if you think so). and second of all… im not dating someone from another race just so that i get respect or whatever kind of bullshit, and im not dating someone from another race so i feel like im better than any other asians… damn that’s so narrow minded to think like that.

  im dating a person that happens to be from another race just because im attracted to him and just because i love him.

• 60 blah // May 14, 2008 at 11:48 pm

  ps: you cant say **** about hot asian chicks dating ugly white boys, because it works the other way around where a hot white boy is dating an ugly asian chick….(who ever mentioned this). ALSO- this isnt really valid cos you see ugly guys dating hot chicks, or visa versa - where an ugly chick is dating a hot guy, regardless what RACE!

• 61 ARGH // May 15, 2008 at 12:02 am

  who gives a **** what the baby is gonna look like, asian-white/asian-black babies, whatever man, its a baby! whatchu gonna do if it turns out ugly? ITS STILL A LIVING THING GODDAMMIT… i cant believe u guys even talk about **** like that.

• 62 bebe // May 15, 2008 at 8:25 pm

  im a vietnamese canadian dating an european guy. we’ve been together for two years now and it seems perfect. other that, from where i am in canada, the white guys hardly notice the asian girls.

• 63 bebe // May 15, 2008 at 8:26 pm

  dating a portuguese canadian *
  other than that *

• 64 DC // May 19, 2008 at 8:13 pm

  White chicks are too easy!!! I like a challenge.

  Honest,
  (White boy)

• 65 Lulu // May 22, 2008 at 5:09 pm

  I prefer asian people a lot more than white people (When dating.)

  No offense.

• 66 sy88 // May 22, 2008 at 8:44 pm

  ^^Gee why would anyone find that offensive, we’re pretty much solely consisting of Asians on here anyway, so in essence it’s another form of flattery to us Asian guys! We gotta grasp onto anything… anything!

• 67 Anonymous // May 23, 2008 at 5:05 pm

  “We gotta grasp onto anything”¦ anything!”
  funny aww half babies are sooo cute! :]
  not all white girls are easy.

• 68 anonymous // May 24, 2008 at 1:15 pm

  I find it very ironic that we point out that asian women are dating white men when asian men prefer asian women with white features! So why do some asian women end up dating white guys. One answer is that asian males don’t have any interest in asian females with asian facial features and western personalities.

  Asian males prefer asian women with not only caucasian like facial features, but also asian personality traits (non-outspoken, won’t challenge the male ego types). I have very asian facial features, and am very independent, a bit over-confident, and quirky in some ways (not exactly the personality trait that will fit into the conformist exclusive asian cliques). As an asian female who does not fit these characteristics, I’ve had the hardest time trying to get the attention of asian males despite living in a diverse urban metropolitan city (and taking the initiative to asking these people out). Instead, i get hit on by blacks, latinos, and whites- go figure.

• 69 linda chen // May 30, 2008 at 7:27 am

  I am a potato queen who only date white male, from my personal experience, there are three basic facts about white guys : Do most white male fancy asian girl? The answer is no. Do most white man like slutty girls for sex only? The answer is yes. Do white male know they are the dominant race in the western world and possible take advantage of it? The answer is yes! This is why white guys aren’t shy in dating scene, because they know their winning percentage.

  There are seven types of white male would date asian female : type 1 are the people who only fancy Asians, who has asian fetish, in general they think all asian are hot regardless our looks and personality. type 2 are the white male who thinks asians are easy girls, they pick us from a nightclub or dating site, tell us a bunch of sweet words, but they have to start with sexual relationship first. type 3 are the white male who love our culture and lifestyle, they love our food and looking for long term relationship with us. in general they are well educated. ( my type, just like my hubby) type 4 are the adventurous white male, they don’t have a particular type and would like to cross the racial line and have a bite of different taste. type 5 are the power control male, they like to take advantage of their status in the western society, make visa, marriage promise to attempt us bedding with them. type 6 are the white male who cant get young and sexy white females anymore, they start to target younger asian females as an alternative choice. Type 7 are the white males who thinks a girl’s personality is more important than their looks, race is not that important for them.

  Seven types of Asain girls who would date white guys work slicely different but same principle. Type 1 are the asian girls who have white fetish, who only go after white male, they think white male are hotter regardless their age and personality. Type 2 are the typical China doll woman who likes to chased by man, they are extremely into fashion and all time attention from male, they like to spend 1 or 2 hours doing their make up and go out clubbing at least once a week, these type of girl are very likely to date type2 white male. Type 3 asian girl has lost their own culture identity, most of them grow up in America and consider themselves Americans Usually they like to make command like ‘asian guys remind me my brother” they are similar to type1 asain girl, but type 1 asain girl still follow asian tradition more than type3. Types 4 are the asian girls who thinks a man’s personality is more important than their looks, race is not that important for them. Type 5 girls consider a man’s society status and power are more important than their looks, they like to be looked after and treated well by powerful white male. Type 6 has a soft spot for tall and muscular male, they consider a strong physical appearance is necessity for a man, in general they consider white is better race and sex life works better with white male. Type7 4 are the adventurous asian women, they don’t have a particular type and would like to cross the racial line sometimes and have a bite of different taste.
  I personally think interracial dating is cool, every time when I see A/W couple passing by, I feel there is hope and culture connection between our asian and white people in this racist world. The reason we talk about this topic is because our asian in general really care about the relationship between white and ourselves, we have a admit that America and Europe are the continents dominated by white male, so keep a good relationship between us are very important.

• 70 Jason // Jun 1, 2008 at 10:10 am

  I am white male married to a wonderful Filipina woman that I have known since I was a child. Prior to marriage I dated several other asian women not because I have a “fever” or “fetish” but because you can not help what you find to be most attractive. I must admit that in reading these posts I find it ridiculous to think I did it because I expect these women to be submissive, that is BS. I think one of the things that I find so attractive is the intelligence and sense of accomplishment that I see and the pride that is in making all things go well: work, relationships, etc. I hope to instill in our children the same thing that her parents did in her.

• 71 Anonymous // Jun 2, 2008 at 12:46 pm

  Personally, I think that anything mixed with asian=asian. Those so called white asian kids always end up looking chinese to me. A french guy once said this to me: Asian+white=Asian
  White +black=black or white or a beautiful in bewteen. Asian and White very rarely give rise to anything except Asian.

• 72 Linda Chen // Jun 2, 2008 at 5:25 pm

  Hi Jason
  Thanks to your comment on my post about “asan fetish” please let me expain what is asian fetish: asian fetish means white/black male who could ONLY date asian female because they love their body, skin colour and eye shape,.
  Does that apply to yourself? If so, you do have asian fetish. In your post, you have mentioned “you can not help what you find to be most attractive” I do think you have a soft spot for asian female. Does your sexual preference make you exclusive to asian woman.

• 73 jen // Jun 6, 2008 at 1:17 am

  i dunno, im half asian, and im pretty damn hot. so there you go.

• 74 Linda Chen // Jun 6, 2008 at 3:34 am

  Reply to Jen
  For asian admirers, you will always look hot no matter what, but you may not be every white man’s cup of tea. Asian woman or half asian woman will always be a special category for western man.

  That is why we should always respect our own man(asian man)
  I have so many asian female friends being so negative about our own asian man, just because they are not going to date any. Don’t forget your father is asian too.

  ‘Asian man remind me my brother, that’s why I cant date them.” ?????? silly silly little girl. Are you saying all Asians look the same? That is so racist. Show some respect.

  I know a girl in work, she is so funny, she told the other white girls in work that the reason she date white guys is asian man treat their wife badly, there’s no life with an asian. People came back and asked if that is true, I felt so embarrassed. There are Asian girls have to find some sort of excuse to ride white guy. Anyway, this girl went out with a Russian guy and she got bitten up so badly and escaped from their apartment after a year.

  Don’t get over-confident just because there are a few white guys chasing behind you, don’t be some kinda of drama queen, you still need to respect our own man.

• 75 Chriss // Jun 6, 2008 at 10:47 am

  I agree with anonymous(1:15 pm)

  Asian guys tend to be more conservative. As a hobby, I’m a street performer and there were asian guys who were offended by me. They were like..”why would would you bring attention to yourself?”

  I have lots of asian guyfriends but I can’t ever see myself dating them because we just don’t click. There’s an upcoming Gay Film Festival in NYC and I invited them to come with me but they just said…” errrr no…that’ weird.” My white guy friends were all up for it. (They’re film makers & photographers themselves)

  So long story short, Asian guys think I’m weird. I’m sure there are artsy asian guys out there but it’s a very small pool. I often find myself being the ONLY asian person at art galleries or any other event.

  All jokes aside, I think Yoko Ono and John Lennon were a beautiful couple.

• 76 Shakira // Jun 10, 2008 at 9:34 pm

  Honestly, I feel like the study you quoted is correct. I think the reason you see more East Asian girl/white guys couples is because…East Asian girls are waaay more open to dating white guys than girls of other ethnicities.

  Pretty much all of my South Asian (Indian, Pakistani, etc.) and Middle Eastern girlfriends have been pursued by several white guys. They might have dated a few of the guys, but most of them didn’t, and almost all preferred not to marry one. They just found quality guys in their own communities. Plus, I don’t think these girls are super harsh on their own men like East Asian girls are. Maybe b/c the guys have big eyes and sharp noses like white guys and you find a diversity of looks within each of these communities. Not that you don’t in East Asian communities, but damn, I have heard several East Asian chicks treat the men in their own communities like they were rats or something. Harsh.

  So yeah, I don’t think it’s b/c white guys have a special place in their hearts for the “exotic” East Asian girl…they pretty much go for any hot girl (if you want to get to the heart of it). I think they just find it much easier to get an East Asian girl vs. a girl of any other ethnicity.

  Plus, like they always say, a dorky white guy can get a cute Asian girl…all the cute white girls won’t have him!

• 77 Asian Girl // Jun 13, 2008 at 1:45 pm

  I’ve been dating a white guy for 6 years who’s not a geek or unattractive in any way. My relationship isn’t a way to feel more American or “white”. I’ve never dated an Asian guy because I seem to always be negatively judged by Asians just because I can’t speak Vietnamese fluently or hang out with only Asian people. That’s a bunch of crap! I don’t judge the people I date by race. It makes me sick to hear people say such nonsense about races. I no longer talk to one of my brothers because he said I was trying to be “white” just because I have white friends. Well, I live in a predominantly white area and grew up in a small town in upstate NY where a small percentage of the community were non-white. Who else am I going to hang out with? I used to live in SF and my closest friends were Chinese, Koreans and Hispanics. Maybe there are some Asian girls dating white guys for the wrong reasons but isn’t that the same for any race?

• 78 Brian // Jun 13, 2008 at 6:33 pm

  Whoa, that’s a lotta comments. I got a chuckle out of many of them… it’s interesting how many people got so fired up by this issue. I think most people don’t realize that the idea here is that a large quantity of Asian women like white guys, but that doesn’t mean it is all or even a majority of them. Just a statistically significant number, that’s all! It also doesn’t mean that Asian women only like white guys and don’t give a damn about blacks, hispanics, etc.

  As for me, I am a white male, born and raised in a smallish town in Massachusetts, USA. Also known as whiteville… though nearby cities have a good number of blacks and hispanics, so it doesn’t get too boring. I believe the fact that I grew up surrounded by whites has a lot to do with why I like ethnic women so much, especially Asians. They are different than the norm. Not that I don’t find plenty of white women attractive, but if you showed me an average white woman and an average Asian woman, I would likely rate the white one a 4 and the Asian one a 7 out of 10. Good looks only get your attention, however, and what really seals the deal for my interest in ethnic women has to do with culture and personality. With the culture and language differences, they are so much more exciting, and personality-wise I find non-American women to be much friendlier and caring. Thinking back to my days before high school, I realize that 75% of my love interests were not white… a half-Filipino, an Ethiopian, several Puerto Ricans, though at the time their race never even entered my mind. They were just the prettiest and sweetest girls in school. It wasn’t until college that I suddenly realized I had this ethnic preference.

  Today I am 2 years married to a lovely woman from Thailand. She came to the USA as a student, and stayed as a wife! I didn’t marry her because she is Asian, I married her because I love her. Her Asianess certainly helped, no doubt, for the reasons I mentioned above. She has a lot of the qualities I was always looking for, such as being fun, caring, smart, beautiful, sexy, outgoing, etc. The Asian part is just a great bonus! My life has become a zillion times more interesting with her… eating food I never heard of, watching movies I can’t even understand, traveling to Thailand for 3 weeks, meeting the family I can barely communicate with, learning to speak Thai… I love every second of it!

• 79 Kanyarose // Jun 13, 2008 at 7:47 pm

  Hi… this is Nan, wife of Brian comment #78. I don’t really care whom I’m dating, White or Asian. When I’m dating a guy, I’m looking forward to date a man who like who I am and care about me. I like white guys, but at first I dated a couple of white guys who were kind of asshole. They just treat a woman like crap and don’t really care and pay attention about me. That almost change my mind about them. I think not all of White guys like Asian women.

  Some of the white guys do like Asian girl for the wrong reason. I’ve over heard a conversation with 2 White guys talking about Asian women and I was so mad. One guy was telling his friend that he should find an Asian wife because they will treat you like a king and they will do anything for you and the way it came out of his mouth makes me think that he likes Asian women coz they’ll do all the house work for you and all that. Also something else that that guy say to his friend and I think it’s just the wrong idea that he had about Asian women. I wish he never ever get to have an Asian wife likes he dreaming for lol

  Personally, I kind of like White guys more than Asian guys. Especially now that I met Brian. He’s the nicest white guy ever. I know some Asian guys are nice too but I had experience dating both and I think White guys are more honest, caring, love family, and don’t lie. I think I’m good staying with the White one and of course the baby is going to be cute. Even though I’m an average kind of girl but the half baby always so cute no matter what nationality they mix in and I can’t wait to have one lol ^_____^

• 80 anonymous // Jun 13, 2008 at 9:44 pm

  LOL If the post above was a joke, it was hilarious!
  If not, then I shed a tear for you

  its true that western society has a powerful impact on the global perception of happiness… but I guess we just gotta DEAL WIT IT. If you really want to fight it just do ur own thing.

• 81 Tom // Jun 18, 2008 at 4:27 pm

  I am a white guy.

  I have had loads of Asian women. I like them because they are generally very simple-minded and like sex. They like white guys like me because we are intelligent, good-looking, and able to give them sexual pleasure.

  It is THAT simple.

• 82 Tom // Jun 18, 2008 at 4:30 pm

  And I forgot to add: it is time that Asian guys learned to deal with it.

  There is nothing less charming - or less sexually attractive - than a resentful Asian guy.

• 83 Tom // Jun 18, 2008 at 4:37 pm

  Having said all that, and depsite the fact that I am happy to have sex with Asian girls, I will almost certainly *marry* a white woman.

• 84 5/88 // Jun 19, 2008 at 1:47 pm

  im a white male but i dont have any sort of fetish about asian girls the only race i would’nt date is black though

• 85 lol // Jun 19, 2008 at 4:11 pm

  freeearth, what’s funny is you go around bragging about everything when in reality your wife is fugly, and basically cheated on her bf. You say in some other post that asian guys are staring at you guys and her? They’re probably staring and thinking “another creepy white guy hooking up with an ugly asian girl”. lol…it’s funny how you interpret her family as liking you when it’s really clear that they only do that after so many years because it’s more convenient for them.

• 86 Rodo // Jun 20, 2008 at 2:33 pm

  The author of this blog must not get much love from Asian males. From what I’ve noticed, the girls who get lots of love don’t really go for white guys.

  As for “yellow fever”, ever notice how white guys will go after ANY Asian chick as long as she’s Asian? It’s like a trophy conquest.

  Usually, the girls who get love are the ones who have fun personalities and are pretty cute. These girls usually either have no preference or viciously prefer Asian.

  I don’t think it’s really a question of PDA or affection or anything. Every Asian male I know properly gives those in large doses to the person they want to. The real question is, do they want to give it to you?

  What does that say about the author?

  It’s difficult to argue statistics on this one because the whole topic is so subjective. I’m sure people notice what I notice though.

  Putting forth some rudimentary statistics then outlining it from a biased standpoint doesn’t really account for a sound argument. So those who say I’m just being biased should really take a closer look at what Skunkgal wrote in the first place.

  Muah!

• 87 Asas // Jun 22, 2008 at 9:37 pm

  Asian people don’t like white guys. Hell this is blasphemy. Asian girls and Gays Asian might. I guess Asian guys are non-existant. Oh well…

• 88 gay mix // Jun 22, 2008 at 11:24 pm

  I’m a afro asian mix guy and my boyfreind is from japan we love each other and he’s my soul mate but his sister had a great asian boyfreind and she dumped him for a white guy she said love is over rated image is everything and she get more respect being with a white boy she feels he makes her better sad but this is what she said

• 89 King David // Jun 24, 2008 at 6:24 pm

  OK this is utter BS with most of the comments first all lets just call it like we see it people in this world still follow that old 19 century eugenics bull crap. class, stereotypes, features, etc that was made to to justify crazy Europeans (the specific ones in power not there common people they just follow the leader) reason to colonize the so called of they considered savage world
  Asians, Africans, Arabs, Persians, (native)Indians etc…. and since we as a group of people of this earth since we all the same basically and there no lizard or alien people from mars running around. We Just use from of eugenics now with dating and reproducing its like a retarded version of survival of the fittest(who can make the most pretties baby to rule the earth (no offense to any one gay but the only thing that would effect the human race is if ever one was gay) that would leave no offspring if we only focused on the pleasure side of reproducing . But back to the point the reasoning is stupid we base or hypothesis on stuff we see on tv and what media tells us whats pretty. being exotic(by the means of so called mixing) is very pretty specially leaving in America on TV at first you had to look white to basically be considered beautiful since now pop culture even though still hooked to the roots of how America use to be back then “race mixing(sounds dumb lol the word race mixing) elfs and dwarfs would be is a legit claim to be considered race mixing (not to sound like a sci fi fantasy geek)instead of blackM/F and white M/F or LatinM/F and Asian M/F…etc

  funny we talk about are respectful group like how they get all attention or there so godlike ,or hit another group like man!!! I would never date them or maybe there family is a link to al qaidia or a large group of violent gangsters so i steer away from her/him and we even do this to in soceity o my o my I don’t wont my kids to come out looking like osama since i married an Arab lady and he would be looked down upon in school because other kids would think his parents or Muslims. and then we wonder why this world specialy America as a huge rate of divorce because we marring and having families with out having an ounce of true love for our spouse but just married them because of of high up I want to seem like in society (insert nation here) and overlook that true soul mate because to you afraid to look or have a not a avg looking family(yet exotic beautiful family) that’s not seen on the mighty telly.

  I’m mix mostly Black, one of the ohio (native american tribes either miami or iroqouis)not quite sure but granny was born in ohio and she was half white just like my grandad and on my dad side majortiy of black ancestry but also grandfather is mix.my family on my mon side looks like you in brazil that’s how mix we are but we considered ourselves black. trust being part of an exoitc looking family is great get stares when you walk in the mall when people can’t make it out if you look Arab, light skin black guy or puerto rican. but also kinda like a game lguess what i am…..anyway I’m not going say I was a victim of someone instresed in you but afraid of what dad going to think when i was about highschool this chinese girl had a crush on me for like a long time but she never gave any real hints that she liked me but only thing she would do lol was give me answers to test but she did work in a family Chinese restaurant that my sisters and dad went there often and she would ask about me all the time but like I said she would never talk to me unless she was helping me in school work in class(yes i was underachiever getting c’s when i could get As didn’t care at the time though its high school) but guess what ( thanks agian setortypes!!!) but the reason she never gave me any bait to really know make a move she knew here father would not approve even though I was like the cool stand on the wall never say anything but still respectfull get all the attention from the with out even talking to them girls type.(not to tut my own horn but i been asked out by more girls then I asked girls out at that time I was afraid of rejection thats another tell) But the point is that if we follow what soceity says about people regardless of what race that are with out checking the actually idvidual you miss out on something. never know now her and I could of been a good couple
  the moral of this rant is
  Its all about individual character and goals of what type of person your looking for and we should all know beauty only skin deep or should i say race deep. look past race and even looks sometimes and get to know the inside person might be your soul mate that will be with you for thick and thin wrong or right.

  peace

• 90 King David // Jun 24, 2008 at 6:28 pm

  dang, lol I should of typed that rant in word first alot of erros heck its freaking chop’d and screwed any way excuse me who ever reads it I’m sorry dont crucify me

• 91 Dave // Jul 3, 2008 at 5:30 pm

  lots of misconceptions here….at least from my experience. As a white guy, I would say about half of white guys are attracted to asian girls and the other half not. For most of the ones who are, its not because of some hollywood image that they expect asian girls to be “subservient”, because they are “losers” who can’t get a date with white chicks, or any other BS reasons thrown out there. Its because they find them……GASP! 1) physically attractive 2) if you were raised in a fairly traditional and conservative household like I was, the high value placed on education by most asian cultures-and thus the often high levels of academic achievement by many asian girls fits perfectly with the values I was raised with and like to see in a girl. 3)some think it would be a huge advantage for any kids to grow up speaking two or more languages and understanding two or more cultures 4)yes, halfie babies do tend to be very cute (at least to my eyes) 5) they are fascinated with many of the Asian cultures and would love to learn more 6)like exotic/different thing (Of course, a lot of people other than just white guys or asian girls feel that way too).

  Does any of this totally explain why I like my girlfriend who happens to be Chinese? No. I like her because she’s sweet, smart, pretty and a lot of fun to be with. If that bothers someone else…..get a life.

• 92 anna // Jul 5, 2008 at 6:44 am

  I’m a white chick, and I’ll tell you *exactly* why white boys like Asian girls {and this is NOT on the Asian girls}. I know because I know white guys who’ve dated Asian girls, inc. exclusively Asian girls. Asian girls are small. They are either represented as nerdy or super/trashy/sexy. The small, sexy, supposedly submissive Asian girls make the white guy feel big and powerful, both physically and mentally. Now, I’m not saying that real love can’t blossom between the two–I’m saying for the most part, white guys who date Asians don’t care who the Asian is. They’re dating the type, not the person. Asian girls watch out!

• 93 jen // Jul 5, 2008 at 10:54 am

  I have to admit. The babies from Asian and Caucasian parents are very very cute.

• 94 gian // Jul 6, 2008 at 7:27 pm

  The baby thing is all a crapshoot imo. There are very ugly halfies that I’ve seen and there are also the very good looking ones. Race doesn’t change genetics and its pairing, so who cares. I’d rather have a good and happy family than one that looks great superficially. Nowadays it’s all fair game because it’s become more common. It’s not WM/AF anymore, it’s xM/xF now.

• 95 Don't Mess Wit Me // Jul 6, 2008 at 7:39 pm

  Hi I’m an Asian girl and the generalisations here are so ****

  First of all, we come from a myraid of backgrounds, so you can’t just say that Asian women and White men hook up because ____. By hook up, I mean long-term.

  In America, for an Asian woman to find her Asian counterpart, she’d have to go back to her country. We fall in love with people who have similar personalities and values. We have very few Asian men compared to white men in America. Look at the size of Asia! What’re the chances that a potential Asian suitor is from the same hometown as she, who also happened to sail to America with her, and lived with her?

  Therefore, there’s a wider chance for a girl to fall for a white guy, who shared her beliefs. We’re mutable people, but our blueprint is the same.

  The most important thing is to stay true to yourself. I’m Chinese and I get along with people of all races. I also tend to clash with people of all races. I get along with more European men than American men also. It’s not a “white” issue. It’s more of a personality and cultural one.

• 96 cteagirl // Jul 6, 2008 at 11:44 pm

  why do we asian girls like white guys?

  -we all have daddy issues (controlling, too-strict, too conservative, too sheltering, lack of humor, too f*cking uptight, male chauvinist, etc) that automatically singes that terrifying imprint upon the possibility of marrying an asian guy.

  -hot, good-looking white guys are willing to give us a chance even if we’re not a size 0 or 2. Hot asian guys would not. which makes asian male hotties way too discriminatory and superficial. So please, watch the double standard.

  -majority of asian guys we know are “nice guys.” (see other thread, speaks for itself), and too shy and hesitant to ask us out. White guys have more confidence and ask us out first. That is hella more attractive, no matter what race you are.

  -white guys are willing to acknowledge our talents , intelligence, and other non-looks-related characteristics as highly significant.
  Asian guys in general, want a pretty petite sweet girl… and that’s it. she can be relatively empty up there so long as she’s obedient.

  -the “dorky white guys” who seem to score with asian chicks? they’re usually not dorks b/c they have some confidence. confidence is attractive.

  -white guys are taller. sorry, but it counts.

  -it’s a tough competition out there, asian guys. you can’t let the white guy beat you each time. so you have to make up for it in confidence, and looks. Meaning you have to step it up. it’s not enough to look like a gap commercial. that’s just not stylish. make a move and assert yourself. stop being the nice guy and get some new clothes, haircut, makeover. learn how to groom. Doing so will give you the edge.

• 97 The Real American // Jul 7, 2008 at 11:47 am

  I’m an Asian American Guy and here is my 2 cents:

  The only people in here are:

  1.) Liberals
  2.) Western-Centric Utopian Thinkers
  3.) White Washed Asian guys who are bitter, but don’t realize that their bitterness is only a product of their whitewash-ness.

  You people are delusional. Get your news and opinions from more sources than your TV, your government run schools, or your liberal college professors.

  America is starting to be disliked in the world because it has abandoned its love of Liberty and replaced it with Utopian thinking. You people seem to think that you’re the policeman of the world. That humanity should be united and shaped under YOUR vision. You claim it for the common good.

  Government stepping out of it’s Constitutional boundaries, by propagating it’s own vision of race mixing, using taxpayer money and the censured media has created the bias against Asian Men that is in the media today. Even when you see this “diversity” displayed on billboards, posters, and college pamphlets, you will rarely see Asian men displayed favorably, if at all. Is it any wonder that Asian men feel like second class citizens? Don’t you think this is why Asian guys and the women loyal to them, tend to isolate themselves from Mainstream America?

  Let’s not forget that whatever government touches it corrupts.

  Asian Women have the right to date/marry anyone they want but Asian Men also have the right to dislike, disown, and push away anyone they don’t want. Don’t call us racist, because we didn’t start this, we are just protecting ourselves from the aggression of YOUR Government.

  I respect the rights of all people so long as they don’t violate the life, liberty, and property of others. I don’t like the direction that this country has chosen: Force Political Correctness and Forced Equality under YOUR vision of how humanity should look like.

  Freedom and small government is not only the American way, it is the most practical and humanitarian way.

• 98 YELLOWHAMMER // Jul 7, 2008 at 9:05 pm

  To Asian guys who feel they are losing dates to White Guys:
  I’m an Asian woman and it never worked out for me when I dated people from the same background. Either I wasn’t pretty enough, or thin enough, or socially prominent enough, or proper enough to introduce to their moms, or I was too old! I was told these things by exes who didn’t seem to realize they were “all that” either.
  It’s just soooo hard to live up to Asian guys’ and their families’ expectations. There was always something I wasn’t doing right.
  Meanwhile my European fiance moved halfway around the world to be with me, introduced me to his family right away, who threw a massive party to introduce me to all the relatives, asked me if I wanted to go to either Rome or Paris for my birthday…I know, I can hardly believe it myself.
  But the most important thing is that after being told so often that I wasn’t “the kind of girl who would be good wife or mommy material” (why - because I care about my career?) there’s this gorgeous blonde man who tells me everyday that he wouldn’t change a thing about me.

• 99 The Real American // Jul 8, 2008 at 9:45 am

  YELLOWHAMMER,

  I understand your situation because most Asian girls who go for Non-Asian guys for that very reason. If they aren’t the ideal Asian Girl(cute and petite), or once they screw up (Date inter-racially or sleep around) they tend to get a bad reputation and Asian guys reject them.

  Yea, it’s a sad reality but to be completely honest I am actually very proud that we Asian men hold women to such a high standard. It’s probably the reason why Asian Women evolved to be as attractive as they are now.

  I’m certainly not jealous of your life choice. Most of the Asian girls that do date inter-racially aren’t really the right stuff for Asian Guys anyways.

  In the end everyone is happy except those dumb Whitewashed Asian guys who still think that White guys are stealing their women. These guys just need to get out more, socialize more with Asians, and understand the hidden rules of Asian Society.

• 100 YELLOWHAMMER // Jul 8, 2008 at 4:14 pm

  Thanks for the response Real American. I just wanted to say that it’s okay to have high standards - but I just wish that it wasn’t a DOUBLE STANDARD. Case in point: I was 118lbs and called ‘fat and unhealthy’ by an ex who was overweight and smoked like a chimney. I was very forgiving of my Asian exes’ shortcomings, but why couldn’t they take a good long look at themselves and see that they weren’t up to their own standards?

  There is so much pressure placed on women in the looks/attractiveness/demureness department that everything else gets pushed to the sidelines. There are lots of beautiful women in my country to be sure, so I can understand why the standards are higher but this is just a tyranny of type! Doesn’t being a good, loving person count? I have lovely, amazing friends who would - without a moment’s hesitation - nurse a perfect stranger after an accident and not leave until the medical staff arrive and then later include said stranger in their prayers. And what happens to a lovely girl like that? They get jerked around! And what happens when they don’t get married - well, people just pity and patronize them as old maids!

  I don’t expect anyone to be ‘jealous’ of my life choice because I did not make a deliberate effort to date white guys. In fact, when I moved West I had basically resigned myself to spinsterhood (at 27). I just fell in love with a friend who just happened to be European. And whose mother doesn’t view me as a rival for her son’s affections (thank God for that!)

  I’m not saying we should all go White or that it’s ‘not’ a challenge to overcome our cultural differences (or the harassment we get when we go out together). But I think the guys back home (who - I might add - LOVE caucasian girls - which I have no problem with) can do with a little bit more openness, acceptance and equality. But since I place such a high emphasis on those values, you’re probably right - I’m not the right stuff for the boys back home as you say.

• 101 The Real American // Jul 8, 2008 at 11:11 pm

  YELLOWHAMMER,

  Let me remind you that many Asian men are themselves victims of America’s double standard: the preferential treatment of Asian Women over Asian Men.

  The world isn’t fair and it probably never will be. We Asian guys aren’t affected by America’s double standard. And you (the rejected ones) married Non-Asians, so you should be fine. We each were attacked by different systems and we came up with different solutions.

  But again, everyone is happy.

  Life isn’t fair and it never will be.

• 102 HITHEREGUYS // Jul 10, 2008 at 5:40 pm

  Hi,

  I’m white and I feel like I’m f*cking elite, that I’m blessed by the creator! I’m the embodiment of perfection! Seriously, there’s nothing about my body that’s wrong lol! Yeah I worked my f*cking *ss off to get a ripped body but hey! perfection is only achievable by moing your butt off the couch!

  I dated like 6 white girls; they were all the same: slutty, golddigging gossip-whores who didn’t give a sh*t about me except for my bankaccount. I dated 2 asian girls and they were both the most sweet, caring and passionate girls I’ve ever seen.. they weren’t submissive at all(except for sex, they rly like to take it up their *ss) and now I’m married to one of them we have great sex and the best relationship you can wish! yeah W/A-relationships are f*cking leetsauce.. face it!

  Btw: Asian guys, here’s a tip: stop trying to be that sensitive, quiet anime-like skinny-*ss guy… girls don’t like that (except for fat ugly weeaboo(white whore who’s obsessed with gay J-pop and Anime) attention whores)

  Hope that will help all of you realize how much your lives suck compared to mine!

  Bye!

• 103 HapAvenger // Jul 12, 2008 at 1:16 pm

  Whatever happened to judging a person based on personality, values and morality. I guess that doesn’t matter, because having beautiful hapa babies is all that matters in the end. People who date each other because of superficial reasons such as this makes me sick.

• 104 guy asian // Jul 13, 2008 at 3:39 pm

  i was hanging out with some white guys and one said,” i love asian girls.” i said that i agree. another white said,” no, i don’t find asian girls to be that hot, besides, they look like littele 12-year olds.” then the first white guy (jokingly) says,” exactly!” LoL! omg, i never laughed soo hard.
  in my opinion, it’s kinda like that, this “fetish” is plain juvenile.
  as an asian i use to have an asian fetish, but now in my twenties, it’s better to like a girl based on her personalities, you know, if you click with someone, then you click! race doesn’t matter.
  ex: if you are white guy who is earning a descent incone, his girlfriend would probably be in that same bracket, regardless of her race, EVEN THOUGH IT SEEMS LIKE IT’S MOSTLY ASIAN GIRLS.
  p.s.
  black ladies, you should date asians and non-black guys more often, cause then the black men will be like,” damn, black chicks are in high demand, i gots to git me some of that!” then they’ll stop going for non-black. i.e. white and asian and latin girls.
  i know it’s racist and misoginistic for me to talk this way, but i think the message will get through.

  girls of all races should not be scared to date asian guys, most of us (asian americans) are pretty cool. come, play Xbox with us, meet our parents. -you never know, you just might like it.

• 105 guy asian // Jul 13, 2008 at 3:52 pm

  no, seriously, ladies, it’s not your fault, asians should have the balls to ask out more chicks.
  that being said, if most asian guys are shy (due to the rascism in the media and environment) then it’s up to you to break this vicious cycle and be the agressive ones. NOT all female/male dating rules have to be base on the architype of the man being the pursuer. that’s just sexist.

  in response to HITHEREGUYS, hey, you’re funny. i’m not a hater so i’m not “butthurt” from your comment. if you are happy with your chick, then good for you.
  however, if someone does not hire or promote me because of the color of my skin, then go F urself, and F ur mom, cause she shoulda raised you better than that.

• 106 WA // Jul 18, 2008 at 2:41 pm

  Lol this makes no sense to me at all.
  I’m an Asian guy.
  What I see as the result of this is for example:
  Korean people running around acting blacker than black people. xD
  Even saying they’re black, lol.
  And then well Most Asian people just think white people are stupid for some unknown reason.
  In Washington state, near Seattle, I don’t see that many Asian/White couples, I mostly see Asian, Asian, in fact my gf used to like white people, skaters to be exact, but now she thinks white guys are stupid, as well s black people, and only loves Asians, due to the fact I know what to say to convince people to see things my way.
  People say they are afraid that they might like an Asian that might be related to them. Uh, if the world mixes like this, everyone will probably look the same by then. And people say Asian guy act weird? Hmm.. I dunno most of the ones I know act kinda weird, one mixes the fact he likes manga and anime with the fact he’s a breakdancer, and all the girls at my school love him. I myself am pretty rebellious to my parents and stuff. but I dunno I’m not trying to defend myself xd I just know that in my state, this is not a fact. In fact in my state or area, Asian girls who like white and black guys are usually considered sluts and actually look like them lol.

• 107 Nguyen // Jul 19, 2008 at 12:05 pm

  What the hell to the racist posts. There isn’t any one race better than the other and it is just a preference that Asian females prefer one race more. It happened to be that Asians prefer the porcelain, light/white skin because it is a symbol of bluebloods. It’s ingrained in our mentality. And that’s all…

  If you haven’t noticed, we are in the USA. White people are everywhere and it is bound to happen that we mix.

  I’ll date all kinds of people as along as they respect and treat me well.

• 108 Kevin // Jul 19, 2008 at 6:44 pm

  I have lived there and found Asian women to be like a breath of fresh air. I noticed they like being treated like a lady…. Us white guys are taught this at an early age. They also take care of there husbands and put the family first. The last thing is I spent many years there and they are the nicest ladies. My kids are half Asian and are going quite well in life.

• 109 guy asian // Jul 21, 2008 at 10:58 pm

  boy, Kevin, that was just stupid! “They also take care of there husbands and put the family first”
  you are stereotyping. STOP IT! most women
  ( of all ethnicities ) want to take care of their men and children. jesus-allah-buddah..
  i live in the United States, a middle-eastern man is just as caring as any other man.
  so women should not stereotype asian or non-white men as losers who don’t take care of their family.
  p.s. a reason why (some) asian men cheat on their wives is because when they were younger
  ( and piss broke ) they weren’t able to sow their wild oats.
  so if women ( especially asian women ) had been giving it up like you did to white or non-asian guys, then this situation wouldn’t arise.
  It’s all about free love, man. Non-discriminatory love.
  if Arab men get loads of that “nasty-nasty,” then they probably wouldn’t be blowing themselves up.

• 110 you know what, Kevin? // Jul 21, 2008 at 10:59 pm

  you are not stupid, just *** ignorant. sucks to be you. read a *** book.

• 111 White Guy // Jul 22, 2008 at 7:42 pm

  I’m a white guy married to a chinese woman. We have 2 boys, who are very cute, very smart, very athletic, and (surprisingly) very white looking (of course, i’m not biased). I always dated only white women until i got into my 30s, then started exploring other races (asian, middle eastern, black). Of all, i preferred asian the most, because of appearance, intelligence, and generally more easy-going personalities. However, after a decade of marriage, i’m discovering that chinese women are not always so easy going. Perhaps because they hold up half the sky. Interesting site and comments.

• 112 HapAvenger // Jul 23, 2008 at 3:09 pm

  White Guy, is your wife Chinese or Chinese American? There is a difference between the two, just as there is a difference between being European and European American. It’s dangerous to overgeneralize and say that “Chinese women are not always so easy going.” Chinese women are not one homogenous group. There is variety within any one racial, religious or gender based group of people. Frankly I’m shocked and disappointed that someone who is married to a Chinese or Chinese American woman would overgeneralize in this way.

• 113 nala // Jul 24, 2008 at 9:05 pm

  you guys are loosers.

• 114 Wake up people // Jul 25, 2008 at 4:47 am

  I am fairly disgusted by many of the opinions of what I “think” are the Asian/Asian American/Asian-some-other-hyphenated nationality posters in this guestbook. For those of you who say “it’s understandable that Asians love whites” or “it’s just a matter of preference - and I just happen to be one of those kinds of people…” - man you all gotta wake up. Are you really that socialized to the point that you would think this way? Do you realize what you are saying? You are basically saying that there is another race that is categorically better than your own.

  Have some pride in your own people, people ! Have some pride in yourself!

  There are 2 very ridiculous arguments that these kinds of people often give (most of the time given by and Asian female) to explain their so-called preference for whites:

  “…oh, it’s a matter of preference…” and “…oh, I don’t date Asians, because it feels like I’m dating my brother (father, sister, any other relative, etc.)…”

  First, about “oh, it’s a matter of preference.” This excuse is given so many times to “explain” things, that it is obvious there is something much larger than “preference” working here. The real underlying reality is that you are socialized by the American (or whatever western country you live in) media and society to think that whites are better than Asians (and obviously, you have agreed to bend over and accept it). You hear this said by white loving Asians almost as a defense. I mean, if it was really simply a matter of preference, you would feel more comfortable about it and not so defensive.

  Secondly, about the “…oh, I don’t date Asians, because it feels like I’m dating my brother (father, sister, any other relative, etc.)…” excuse/defense/explanation. If this were a valid and logical explanation, then why does no other racial group in America say this about the other people in there racial group? Maybe you’ve heard in the past for example, some white women who exclusively date out of their race say things like “oh, I do so because white men don’t respect white women.” Whether this claim is true or not - I don’t know. But, the interesting thing is, that at least this claim complains about some flaw in character about white men. Thus, if say, this white woman met a white man who did in fact make a conscious effort to treat her right, she - based on the logic of her statement - would most likely consider him as a potential mate.

  With that in mind, let’s look again at the “…oh, I don’t date Asians, because it feels like I’m dating my brother (father, sister, any other relative, etc.)…” excuse/defense/explanation given by Asians who exclusively date out of their race (or at least disproportionately date out of their race). In this statement, the speaker is not complaining about any character flaw in the other person. In reality, all they are complaining about is that the other person is Asian. So, in effect, they are complaining about Asians, and thus complaining about themselves. Put more simply, they are making the assertation, that we Asian people (including the speaker who dares to spout this kind of crap) are just not “good”/”worthy” enough to date - just because we are Asian. How messed up of a view is that to have about yourself and your people? You better start doing some thinking. If you find that this is the only way you have “known” things - then move somewhere else for a while - some place with lots of Asians and less western media - and get a new perspective on things. You might not realize how weird you sound saying such things because you have been socialized so much for so long. But, that is still no reason not to do something about it now and to enlighten yourself - or at the very least be honest with your thoughts and opinions. That is, instead of the above 2 canned explanations/defenses/excuses - why can’t you just be honest and instead say “I date exclusively non-Asian because I hate being Asian and thus don’t want a mate who is Asian because that person then would constantly remind me that I am, in fact, Asian”?

• 115 Happily Married... // Jul 26, 2008 at 5:07 pm

  To most of the asian guys crying in their “sake” or alcoholic beverage of their choice. The reason we don’t get dates is not because we’re nerdy, or because we don’t have huge wangs or whatever friggin’ excuse is the latest and greatest reason why Asian guys are reviled as date prospects. It’s because we don’t have any confidence in ourselves. We wander around bemoaning the fact that everyone ELSE is getting the girl and we don’t have anyone.

  Spent 6 years wondering why I was single…until one day I hit on it. I’m not confident in myself. Until you’re confident that you’re a “person” worthwhile, you’re never going to be “attractive” to anyone else. No one’s willing to take on a “sympathy case”.

  I don’t particularly care what racial nationality you are…it doesn’t matter any more in this racially mixed world. The only ones who think about racial purity are thoe backward-buck-teethed hillbilly types of any nationality that say “We must protect our own kind”. That mentality went out with the Stone Age.

  Who am I married to? Well, my wife is WF, but it would have just as easily been AF, BF, or HF. And the reason why we’re married is not because I have a fetish to skin color, not because I had to have a white-girl to make myself seem better than everybody else. It was because she was fun to be with, her personality was what attracted me, my friends and former school mates think she’s HOT (but that’s not the reason I married her, I’m just relating their reaction), and her family was accepting of me. My family on the other hand has been nothing but contemptuous of the relationship. So who is racist in that regards?

  To AF, just because your father was an overbearing jerk, doesn’t mean the AM you date will be. More than likely he’ll have been in the same situation as you (raised in a predominately white society) and have American values.

  To AM, don’t whine about losing AF to WM. Just get out there and be confident in YOURSELF. It doesn’t matter if you don’t get the reception you expected. Everybody gets rejected. Heck the first few relationships that I was in prior to meeting my wife, I got ditched. It comes with the dating territory. Get over it and move on.

  The more you date, the more likely it is that you’ll met who you’re really meant to be with.

• 116 Vikram // Jul 26, 2008 at 6:19 pm

  There is no such thing as yellow fever. There is white fever only. It is very rare to see an Oriental woman date anyone except other Orientals or Whites. I use the term Oriental instead of Asian because Asian includes Indians and Oriental does not. Anyway, you can see white men with women of all races, but you will rarely see an Oriental woman with any race other than Oriental or white. So it’s ridiculous to make White men feel bad because of yellow fever - the problem is with the Oriental women with the white fever. Why don’t they go for Indian guys? Indians are Asians and Caucasians at the same time. Culturally Asian and they have the Caucasian features of straight nose and all that. No, the Oriental woman is not racially neutral. If she indeed was then why is the only race she dates outside of her own race is the White man. Indians being the most educated and wealthiest of all ethnic groups in America are dissed every day by Oriental women, who don’t even give them the time of the day. By the way, do us a favor and stop using the word “Asian” when you don’t mean Indians .. use the proper word “Oriental”.

• 117 Vikram // Jul 26, 2008 at 6:23 pm

  Oh one more thing .. the Oriental women who say that the reason they don’t date other Oriental guys is because they are not confident enough to ask them out, that’s a bunch of baloney and garbage, because I have seen many Oriental women either make the first move or make it very easy for the white guy to make the first move. Besides, this is the 21st century, you talk about Oriental women being oppressed by Oriental men, then why don’t you break that stereotype and ask them out yourself - if they can handle the fact that you asked them out first then you know that he doesn’t believe in oppressing woman. The reality is stop making excuses - you just love white skin. Otherwise, I am sure there are lot of fine individuals you could date that are neither Oriental nor White.

• 118 MinJi // Jul 27, 2008 at 7:03 pm

  I’m an fob asian girl (international college student from south korea). I’ve been living in the U.S since last summer. Since i am not attracted to the men of other races other than mine, i have seen countless asian-white couples since i arrived here in washington state. But i have to say … does white men have any decent taste when it comes to asian girls? Don’t get me wrong, but i hardly see a hot asian girl with a hot white guy … hardly ever. It also seems to me that successful whitemen aren’t really into interracial relationships. I’m not trying to say all interracial couples are losers, but especially the white men who purposly seeks asian females seem to be in the lower social/economical bracket.

• 119 MinJi // Jul 27, 2008 at 7:14 pm

  “Plus, they don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc. Most Asian guys want a more traditional bride, stay at hoome mom even though their women may have graduate degree physics, chemistry, etc.”

  So in other words, you never went to college, probably living in a shithole apartment with your proud white guy who works at 7-11, right?

  I guess what the say in asian community is right … “WE take the best, they take the rest”

• 120 Annoymous // Jul 28, 2008 at 4:58 am

  Well, this is actually half true. I’m from HK, we do know what’s up with the male anatomy, but we don’t have sex-ed classes. When asian ppl date each other, the guys generally don’t inform their parents. Asian guys never ask us out.

• 121 kim // Jul 29, 2008 at 8:21 am

  actually, alot of Japanese and Koreans hate white people.

• 122 kim // Jul 29, 2008 at 8:23 am

  I’m asian, and I would never date a guy other than my own race

• 123 Agitated // Jul 30, 2008 at 9:13 am

  I really resent the stereotypes that are presented to justify East Asian girls rejecting respective guys.

  Living in China for the past year plus, I see so many Chinese girls latching onto Caucasians that it makes me sick. I understand some of them are in it for the money, and more power to them. However, I’ve seen women with good incomes and looks go gooey and sleep with some douchebaggy frat boy or supernerd just off the plane.

  As a taller, well built Chinese-American guy, I’m 5′11″ 175, brother’s 6′2″ 200, I’ve never had any problems with my appearance. I’m not the best looking guy, but sure as hell better than average. I’ve been turned down for dates more times than I can remember by East Asian girls, and I’ve never been able to understand it. These replies still don’t help, honestly.

  I got turned down by white girls too, but that was a racism thing in the small town I grew up in. I’d expect better from the girls in the city I went to college in, and sure enough, white, hispanic, black, and south asian girls were all much more likely, with hispanic for some reason being the most eager. To Vikram… indian girls were the least likely to date me, even fewer than “oriental” girls. I don’t use the term because I don’t like the connotations behind it.

  I don’t harbor any ill will or anything towards the girls, I’m dating a great chinese-american girl now, but I’d say the odds over the years were disturbing.

• 124 Rebecca // Jul 30, 2008 at 1:32 pm

  Eh, been there. Done that.

  NEVER again.

  I prefer my men now with much less ego, and a lot more skills. =)

• 125 perfecctlynice // Jul 30, 2008 at 8:42 pm

  minji-your observation is based on one year of living in a rather confined area of Seattle as a Korean. Some Koreans are the most prejudiced people I have the dubious of privelege of knowing though I won’t generalize that all are. I’ve lived in the east coast, west coast including WA for lot more yrs. than you. BTW my experience in yrs. is probably more than your total age.

  Oh, you can fantisize about my living condition all you want, but if I’m making an annual income that’s more than 99% of US population make, I can afford to own something more than a “trailer”. And I do. And about that husband of mine, suffice it to say that he is a professional, just like me. And yea, he’s muscular, lean, fit and 6′2″ and was thought by girls in his class at post graduate school to be the hottest looking guy. And his IQ will outdo your unless it happens to be greater than 138.

• 126 McGeorge // Jul 31, 2008 at 9:04 pm

  As a 29 year old white man engaged to a stunning Taiwanese women, I’m compelled to say that the few responses above where white guys are gloating or Asian guys are bashing come off as equally unpleasant and passively racist.

  When my fianca!© points out what she finds attractive about me, her answer is: I make her laugh”¦ often, I’m close with my immediate family, I treat her family and friends with the utmost respect, I have a naturally fun disposition and enjoy outdoor activities, I’m open minded, I eat what she cooks whether I like it or not, I love animals, I have a Masters degree and a career I’m proud of, I’m not afraid of PDA and indulge her in long cuddling sessions. Reading that list, I don’t see one thing that only a white guy could provide.

  Guys, be yourselves and your best qualities will inevitably emerge. The right women for you (be she, asian, black, white, latina, etc) will always respond to a man with confidence in himself.

• 127 filipino me // Aug 1, 2008 at 10:21 am

  I married a white man. I was born in the Phillipines, but I was raised in the US. My father who adopted me was white, even though my mom is Asain. So, I grew up on the barracks and in a prodominently white neighborhood. I would’ve love to date an asain, but I only ran into one guy and he was at least 5 years younger. I’ve dated other races, but the one I found that I love and vice-versa happens to be white. Whether it be preference or not; love is unmistakeably love. End of story.

• 128 HapAvenger // Aug 1, 2008 at 3:10 pm

  McGeorge, I would like to believe that your wife loves you for who you are as a person, and that ethnicity has nothing to do with that. My question is, if your wife was not Taiwanese, but another race (Black, Latina), would you still love her just has much? Likewise, do you think if you were another ethnicity that she would love you just as much? Do you believe physical attraction is not a factor when it comes to relationships?

• 129 areyouserious // Aug 1, 2008 at 4:31 pm

  Posted by perfecctlynice:
  “white guys are lot more aggressive in pursuing a girl they want compared to most Asian guys I know. Plus, they don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc. Most Asian guys want a more traditional bride, stay at hoome mom even though their women may have graduate degree physics, chemistry, etc.”

  you gotta be kidding me haha. white washed asians like you are hilarious

  seriously though, i dont have a problem if an asian girl prefers white guys. what i cant stand is when people like you try to pin the reasons for your shallow fetishes on asian males by generalizing ALL asian males based on ignorant, out of date stereotypes. I dont know where youre from, but NONE of the asian guys i know would ever want what you described in any woman they date.

  so stop spewing out racist shit (yea, if youre a twinkie, you can be asian but still be racist towards asians), grow up, and take responsibility for your own shallowness

• 130 McGeorge // Aug 2, 2008 at 3:59 pm

  Fair question HapAvenger. I just got back from Taiwan and I noticed a few things relevant to this topic. First, I noticed most Taiwanese women prefer to keep their skin as white as possible. I watched a TV show where ten 18-25 something Taiwanese female models were trotted on stage with the whitest skin you’ve ever seen. The crowd oh’ed and ah’ed with approval over these girls solely because of their white complexions. So it makes perfect since many women that grow up with this kind of cultural stamp of approval would prefer men with lighter skin complextions while shunning the idea of dating/mating with a darker race. I can point to countless examples of people native to Japan, Taiwan and China that clearly place a high emphasis on the beauty of Asian girls with white skin. Also, the Asian men clearly prefer their Asian women to have white skin so this light skin preference is as much their fault as Asian womens’. White women having pasty white skin is not a beauty trait in any part of America I’m aware of. These are just my observations, you may rationalize things differently. I personally wish my fianca!© got more sun since her skin should be naturally tan.

  Secondly, my fianca!© dated Taiwanese men before she met me and her only common theme among boyfriends was that we were tall (over 6′) and not toothpick skinny. If you counted the number of women that say they prefer tall men to women that prefer shorter guys, it would probably be 10+ to 1. The northern European races tend to produce taller people which may explain why you see a noticeable number of tall white guys with women (all races) that would otherwise be out of their league based on other beauty characteristics. When I visited Taiwan, China and Japan, it was pretty obvious that I was considerably taller than most natives, which is something the men pointed out far more often than the women. Again, just an observation.

  In the end though, when I first started dating my Taiwanese fianca!©, I was stupid enough to think she wanted me because I’m a tall, blue-eyed gringo. But I was dead wrong. She liked me for what I brought to the table in spite of my wrongfully over-inflated ego. In the beginning, it was my ego that got in the way of our relationship progressing and once I saw (and got past) my stupid beliefs, our relationship flourished. I’m not saying physical attraction is insignificant to a male/female relationships, but the vast majority of women will not become intimate with a guy that bores them. If all a guy brings to the table are his good looks, he’ll go on a lot of first dates and very few second ones.

• 131 HapAvenger // Aug 3, 2008 at 10:04 am

  Good point McGeorge. I think that physical attraction can be what initially draws two people to each other, but personality and character are what make a relationship last. As far as Taiwanese and other Asian women desiring fairer complexions, I would say that it is pretty evident how much influence the media has in promoting what features are desirable and which are not. I watched a documentary about Asian women getting eye surgery to get the double eyelid, which is considered an attractive trait. It was really sad to watch just how far they would go to be more attractive to others. There’s something really wrong about that.

• 132 McGeorge // Aug 3, 2008 at 2:09 pm

  HapAvenger ““ Reading many of the posts by angry Asian guys gives me the impression they are blaming Asian women for their desire to look white. In my opinion, Asian men are just as responsible, if not more so, for this phenomenon as Asian women. The vast majority of Asian men (those living in Asia) clearly prefer light skinned large eyed Asian women and most Asian women do what it is we are describing in order to appeal to Asian men. White guys don’t fawn over the pasty skin look and we think all Asian girls have exotic looking eyes be they the double eyelid variety or any other shape associated with the Far East.

  Also, if the media are responsible for the Asian women’s desire to look white, you have to admit this is pushed most vigorously by Asian media outlets. And the 1+1 here is that if Asian media is the primary culprit, one has to acknowledge that Asian media (just like American media) is dominated by men and a masculine influence.

  I am compelled to point out some highly hypocritical posts from Asian men in this thread because I see them as the guys most responsible for Asian womens’ desire to appear white.

  Finally, I could make a persuasive argument that White and Latina women do as crazy if not crazier things to maintain their beauty standards versus their Asian counterparts

• 133 Asian Guy // Aug 3, 2008 at 9:59 pm

  Asian guys just need to be smarter and start dating outside their race. Asian guys should forget about their twinky sisters and instead go for white girls. I don’t understand why most still must marry an asian girl. White girls have longer, leaner, prettier, fuller bodies.. whereas most asian girls have flat tops and bottoms. Get with it asian guys.. go for the good stuff!!

• 134 HapAvenger // Aug 4, 2008 at 1:25 pm

  I agree McGeorge, the media in general has a huge impact on what people perceive as attractive, whether in America or Asia. From my experience, Asian American men are open to dating Asian American women, regardless of their skin tone. You state that “White guys…think all Asian girls have exotic looking eyes.” The exoticizing of Asian women implies that Asian women are sexual objects of desire, rather than human beings. Asian American women may often be exoticized due to their features, despite the fact that they are just as American as any other European or African American. The fact that Asian and Asian American women wish to get double eyelid surgery has to do with the fact that they wish to look more American.

• 135 CambodianGirl // Aug 4, 2008 at 9:55 pm

  I’m a Cambodian-American girl but I constantly feel intimidated by white girls, mostly blondes. Whenever I like a white boy, I always know; deep down, that He would choose her over me. It’s hard to live in America as an Asian, The teasing never ends. I’m in highschool and I still get teased about it. Right now, I’m practically in love with a boy that has light brown-blonde hair with blue eyes. My point of this post is to say that I’m an Asian girl but to make him like me, I’d do anything. Which includes being envious of any white girl…

• 136 JBinCali // Aug 5, 2008 at 11:36 am

  CambodiaGirl: I know it’s easy to be intimidated by almost anything when you’re young - been there, done that - but relax. Blondes have nothing on you, really. You may deep-down feel that some guy you like may choose a blonde over you, but you don’t *know* it. My advice: if you like somebody (no matter what his racial/ethnic group), just be confident in yourself and date him. Don’t be envious of anyone. You have too much going for yourself to bother with that. Be confident in yourself, and who you are. And remember that not everyone even thinks blondes are so hot. I don’t. Lots of other guys don’t, either. As for the ones who are all about blondes, forget them. They’re the ones who aren’t good enough for you, not the other way around.

  Come to think of it, that’s advice I would give to a great many of the obviously very envious people who are posting here.

  To continue, for all those people who are so worked because somebody with eyes like yours/skin like yours/hair like yours/whatever is dating somebody whose eyes/skin/hair/whatever aren’t like yours: get a grip, get a clue, get a life, get your head out of your butt.

  Complaining about the race of a person someone else is dating is racist. Period. You can choose to only date people of one particular race if you want. That’s fine. It’s called personal preference. It may be narrow-minded, it may be self-limiting, it may be racist (either regular or reverse), but hey, it’s personal preference. Nobody’s business but yours. However, the kind of people someone else chooses to date is nobody’s business but theirs. It sure ain’t yours.

  Not only is who they date not your business, why they do it is not your business either. Maybe $NON_ASIAN_GUY thinks Asian girls look really hot and that’s what first gets him into dating them. Maybe he just likes their culture, or thinks he does, looking in from the outside, and that gets him into dating them. Later, if he’s not a complete idiot, he’ll find out (if he doesn’t already know), that there’s a lot more to a woman - or a culture - than that. Having found that out, he may keep dating them, or may decide that Asian culture isn’t quite his cup of tea.

  Whatever anyone’s motivation for dating who they try to date, I keep it in mind every day that their motivation - or what I perceive to be their motivation, since only they really know and everyone else is just making assumptions - is none of my business.

  If people have a thing for whites, so what? If people have a thing for Asians, so what? My company posted me to Tokyo for a couple years a few years ago and I observed that it was fashionable at the time for (some) young Japanese women to have black boyfriends. Sure, for most of them it was totally superficial. But so what? Ain’t my business. For the guys, maybe it was, maybe it wasn’t. Anyway, there aren’t very many non-Japanese women in Japan, so who else were they supposed to date?

  Later, I was posted to Viet Nam, and while there, I met a charming, intelligent, sophisticated business owner. She had previously been engaged to one of the wealthiest men in the country (I’ve met him; he’s a nice enough guy, and now has a beauty-contest winning trophy wife ) but broke it off with him.

  We began dating and were married about a year and a half later. This is somebody who could have anyone she wants, and that’s just what she got: who she wanted. Her family has money - mostly hers, she’s a self-made woman - to the point where she had a higher standard of living in Viet Nam than we do in California, despite my six-figure income.

  I think her family is great and they think I am, too. My parents love her and she loves them; they’re like a second family to her, especially since her closest relatives in America are cousins and don’t live near us.

  If either of us had foolish ideas like only dating people from our own race, we wouldn’t have dated, wouldn’t have married, wouldn’t have the wonderful life and three great kids we have now. If not being a racist is no motivator for many of those posting here (and it’s probably not; they seem to think racism is fine as long as they are the ones being racist), then they might want to consider this: by limited yourself to dating only within your own racial/ethnic group, you might be making yourself miss out on some really great people and cutting your own chances for a good marriage. Think about that.

  To throw in a car analogy, it’s like a person who will only drive a Toyota. When they buy a new car, they just head for the Toyota dealer. They don’t consider Mazda, Nissan, Ford, GM, BMW, Mercedes, anybody. Just Toyota. Sure, Toyotas are great cars and they may get a perfectly good car that meets their needs fairly well, but they’ll never know if there might have been a better car out there, one that would meet their needs better, or be the same but at a better price, or something.

  But, if you only want to drive Toyota, that’s your business. What anyone else drives, or why, is not.

• 137 david // Aug 6, 2008 at 2:04 pm

  i like white guys, too. they’re hot. asian girls aren’t that pretty anyway. i’m asian. =]

• 138 Chonky // Aug 7, 2008 at 4:39 am

  I’ve read some of the comments above and agree with some and disagree with others. Especially the Asian guys that are all pissed that a lot of their Asian women are attracted to white guys and vice versa.

  I have a couple of questions for anybody that has left comments above, weather the comments are good and bad.

  Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe, just maybe, that a White man and Asian woman could just like each other and want to be together for the things they have in common and the connection they’ve made?

  Did it ever occur to anyone of the country we live in? A country that is mixed with many different races left and right. Even in a white suburb there are bound to be some Asians, Blacks, Middle Easterns,etc. So wouldn’t it make some sense that a few things are bound to happen with chemistry and personal interactions between two individuals?

  Here’s a good one. White guy meets White girl, ….Black guy meets black girl,… Asian guy meets Asian girl, ……..in each case per race the typical things happen when boy meets girl, …..the good chemistry, physical attraction, things of common interest, etc. In other words, it’s nothing but a repeat that’s been happening since the beginning of time. So what’s so wrong if the same thing happens amongst whatever race?

  AND FOR ALL YOU ASIAN GUYS THAT HATE YOUR ASIAN WOMEN DATING WHITE GUYS. Look at it like this. Say you met a beautiful woman from Brazil. She’s average height, nice chest, baby smooth light tanned skin, round bubble butt, big almond eyes, ……and she’s intelligent with many things in common with you, also interested in getting to know you with dating intentions. Would you “Mr. Asian man” avoid her? Answer, “Hell no”
  Well guess what, the same thing goes when it comes to your beautiful little Asian sister who’s checking out the White guy next door. If you have the same right to follow your heart regardless of race, then so do Asian woman.

  If dogs are anything emotionally like humans, I’m sure glad they can’t talk with all the inner-breeding they do, lol.

  Oooo, even better. I’m really gonna laugh the day I hear the Gay Asian community start bitching about how all the gay White men are taking all their Gay Asians, lol.

  Anyway, …my point behind all this is to basically not care about the whole White/Asian issue. I could care less about this so-called White/Asian fabricated issue. What I care about is why the issue has even been brought up. People are going to be people regardless of race, so get over it! Besides, were all gonna be the same color in about 500 years anyway, ……assuming mankind can get over stupid race issues and focus on more important things.

  Sincerely,

  The all American born and raised White boy & his all American born and raised Asian girlfriend.

  P.S. She pursued me, lol!

• 139 Azngal // Aug 7, 2008 at 11:54 am

  I’m all for equality of race when it comes to dating, but American media tends to never portray Asian guy Asian gal couples. It’s usually a White guy with Asian gal so is it any wonder why Asian gals end up with White guys. Also, Asian guys never get leading parts in American movies. They’re always asexual martial arts guys or computer geeks or evil warlords. My bf complains about this all the time and I tend to agree.

• 140 K/C // Aug 9, 2008 at 3:00 am

  I always find it interesting that people brush off assessments of racial undertonas as rubbish. The Asian girl White guy fetish thing is real - just look at the statistics. So it can’t be about love and pure attraction. If that is the case, why are white women not rushing to Asian men then? This is all about one thing: white men are seen as the prize. Asian women are seen as non-threatening so white guys go for them. I have noticed sadly too that Asians are incredibly racist towards black people/ Just downright racist and offensive to blacks/ Yet they will not treat white people the same way, You can come up with many reasons why this happens but the reality is: racism is wrong! And there is an incredible fascination on the Asian girl’s part to aspire to look like white people - fixing eyelids, etc. Yes, people should love each other for who they are but the reality is : most white guy/asian girl couples won’t admit this but these high number only indicate that they are playing into some really sick stereotypes and it sucks! And this idea that any one race is more attractive than another is bogus. It is all perception and what you are taught.

• 141 K/C // Aug 9, 2008 at 3:19 am

  ^^^ First of all, how could anyone generalize that ALL Asian girls are polite and nice? Are you kidding me? And second the reason they are nice to white people is because they are white people - they are not that nice to other races. I know. I am Asian. And I rebelled cause too much racism in Asian culture - but no racist toward white people though - Asians love white people and white people will never know this cause they won’t admit it to you. But they want to be YOU white people. It’s sick. I am letting you in on a dirty little Asian secret.

• 142 Linda Chen // Aug 11, 2008 at 4:08 am

  K/C, listen to me! Grow up! Sexual attraction has nothing to do with Rasiciam! We all went through rasiciam. They went through discrimination. Asian people hate it, white people hate it, black people hate it, latino people hate it!
  But I have to say when it comes to sex, only white male for me, white boys ROCK! white boys ROCK MY HEART!

• 143 McGeorge // Aug 11, 2008 at 6:21 pm

  I’m a white man in my late 20ies engaged to a beautiful Taiwanese girl a little younger than I. We were recently on a flight to Denver when I noticed the couple sitting directly in front of us was a gorgeous 20something blue-eyed blonde chick with an American born Asian guy (probably ABC) with shoulder length hair. He was also in his 20ies, fit and tan, but about the same height as her (maybe 5′8).

  When getting on the flight, this guy and I both caught each other checking out the other one’s girl. The four of us ended up talking during the flight and I learned these two were ski instructors in the winter and water rafting guides in the spring and summer. My fianca!© and I agreed they were a very cool couple. At no point was I upset that an Asian guy was with a sexy, blonde surfer girl and he didn’t seem the slightest bit annoyed I was with a light-skinned, petite, doll-faced Asian girl.

  Get over your stupid hang-ups people.

• 144 HapAvenger // Aug 12, 2008 at 1:07 am

  I’m glad that you’re happy for other types of interracial relationships McGeorge, and are in no way jealous. I think the main issue many people comment on is how often they see Caucasian male/Asian female couples, as opposed to the other way around, and why that is.

• 145 Ben // Aug 15, 2008 at 1:28 am

  You’re joking, right? I would NEVER want an asian women. In fact, I think asian women are the ugliest i’ve ever seen. And as a guy who is 6′3 tall, I would ever want a short stubby shapeless girl. And that’s what asian women are. And don’t lie to everyone and tell yourself you are a “natural beauty”. You slit eyed women undergo eye opening surgery, breast implants, everything. And to do what? Look like white women.

  Yeah, those colored contacts and hair bleach are doing nothing for you, you’re still ugly.

• 146 Linda Chen // Aug 18, 2008 at 6:34 pm

  Reply to >>>>>>> Ben // Aug 15, 2008 at 1:28 am #145

  It sounds like you had paid too much attention to asian girl’s culture and life style, even though you are not into asian girl? LOL sounds so funny.
  Well, you must love asian enough to search/bisit this site and spend enough time to leave a comment in ‘asian girl love white guy” topic. Unreal lol
  Ok, guys. What are the chances for a white guy to leave such a negative comment in ‘asian girl love white guy” topic? We all love attention, its human nature.
  Secret of truth>>>>>>>>

  Ben, 90% of all chances you are not WHITE MALE. I don’t want to guess who you are, but I am sure you are not a nice person.

  By the way, are you gay?

• 147 whiteboy // Aug 18, 2008 at 7:40 pm

  I am so smitten with asian women that I have lived in asia for seven years teaching english. they think I’m gorgeous as I am relaxed, easy-going, handsome and 6′4.

• 148 whiteboy // Aug 18, 2008 at 7:40 pm

  I like asian women.

• 149 whiteboy // Aug 18, 2008 at 7:41 pm

  hi!!!

• 150 Jet // Aug 19, 2008 at 2:55 pm

  I am an african american male, who is engaged to a wonderful, slender,super attractive and untral intellegent AND grounded PHD holding college professor Vietnamese queen!
  I am most proud to say she is so intellegent to the point, that she doesnt see she superficial garbage that american society feeds on, and that poisons the minds of other ethnic people who come to pro-white USA.

  btw. in the great pro-white USA, according to the white american law, if your ANY part black, then you are totally black. THEY set that standard, not us……

  peace……………

• 151 Jet // Aug 19, 2008 at 2:57 pm

  please excuse my typo’s

• 152 Eric // Aug 19, 2008 at 4:11 pm

  agree with you on that Jet. Tiger Woods is always “black” in the US, but he’s “asian” in Asia. Actually, he’s 1/4 black, 1/4 Thai, 1/4 Chinese, 1/8 white, and 1/8 native Indian.

• 153 asian men lover // Aug 20, 2008 at 2:44 pm

  I AM A HOT ASIAN GIRL ,AND I LOVE MY OWN RACE ALL THE WHITE LOVERS ARE ECONOMICALLY DEPRIVED AND WANT A BREAK TO LIVE AN INDIVIDUAL LIFE ,WHEN U MARRY AN ASIAN GUY IT IS MERGING OF 2 FAMILIES ,WHILE IF U MARRY A WHITE GUY IT IS MERGING OF ONLY 2 INDIVIDUALS TILL THE LUST IS FINISHED .YOU SHOULD VISIT KOREA AND OTHER PLACES WHERE ASIAN ARE REALLY ,REALLY HOT AND PLEASE GIVE ME A BREAK .

• 154 Anonymous // Aug 20, 2008 at 7:39 pm

  get a life please.
  stop wasting so much time online and go do some good in the world.

• 155 Eric // Aug 20, 2008 at 7:52 pm

  F’n racist. I’m asian and I don’t care what race a girl is. Hot girls come in every race.

• 156 A white BLACK WOMEN lover // Aug 20, 2008 at 9:57 pm

  Dude, Jet… could you hook me up with your sister?

• 157 Axl Rose // Aug 20, 2008 at 10:01 pm

  All I have to contribute to this thread is the following: touring in Toyko doesn’t suck.

• 158 Axl Rose // Aug 20, 2008 at 10:06 pm

  Tokyo*. Sorry, I’m all f*cked up on qualudes, Nyquil and heroin right now.

• 159 Im r smartz // Aug 21, 2008 at 11:17 am

  LOL Asian girls are just dating the reject white guys that couldn’t get girls of there own race.

• 160 Robert // Aug 22, 2008 at 10:55 am

  All of you bastard are ignorant. IUm american of spanish descent and i like asian women and have a asian fiancee.

  She read this and couldnt believe what she is reading. White men are not shit. They think they rule the world and have all the power. WAKE up people unless u live in a little white surburb.

  The world is alot bigger then whtes!!!

  HA….

• 161 Gracie-Anne // Aug 23, 2008 at 3:49 pm

  Personally not all asian girls are submissive, short, and have no curves. I am very outspoken, smart, and sarcastic. I’m also 5′7, but I’ll admit I have no butt, but I have a large chest to make up for it. People have stop stereo typing people. Instead open up your eyes, and look all around there are beautiful and ugly people in every race. So why should any ethnicity be put down while another one is raised?

• 162 Crisero // Aug 23, 2008 at 7:01 pm

  It’s simple. We’re evolving. We’re all humans, and race is simply a result of isolated gene pools… now it’s all changing…and for the better. Accept it, and move on. Love.

• 163 diana // Aug 24, 2008 at 12:33 pm

  mmm…I am asian and I would rather prefer black guys.

• 164 ti na // Aug 25, 2008 at 7:29 am

  Black men so ugly.
  Look like monkey, no manner, very crude.
  Who would want?

  White men very cute
  also have the big penis to the smaller Chinese man version

  My sister in Jakarta say Malay man also have the big penis

• 165 Li Mien // Aug 25, 2008 at 7:41 am

  So many Chinese mens are jealous of the white men- the often insert the contact for their eye iris colour to change.

  In Shanghai- Chinese men so very jealous of the white- because we know the truth about the masculine organ of the white man is better than the masculine organ of Chinese.
  Also White man the romantic one better, also very kind, have a nice generous heart, not so cheap like a Chinese.
  Also keen to show love and like the intimate coitus and not finish quicker than the woman.
  Jew is popular because rich and not ask for intimate coitus often times- but we know is very cheap worse than even Chinese man.
  In the Chinese culture perspective vision, black man considered worse than human faeces latrine man.
  Very grotesque face, poor, stupid, not respect education and culture is ugliest number one in world. It is forbidden to pair with black- will make you drop rank.
  Social rank number one important.
  For Asian woman to pair with a black is to drop rank to verly lowest social rank- will be not spoken in community.

  Also Tiger Wood many race because mother is 2 Baht slut from Pattaya whore-beach his dad Navy sailor.
  You do math.

• 166 NYJG // Aug 25, 2008 at 8:13 pm

  “perfectlynice” said that white guys don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc.

  This is especially true of Jewish guys like me. To an educated Jewish guy, there is no such thing as a woman who is TOO educated or strong-willed, if she’s nice to people and attractive to him. That’s why the Sunday NYT carries so many pairings of Jewish lawyers with Chinese-American doctors, Jewish professors with Indian-American engineers, and so on. It’s a fine pairing of equals.

• 167 Soju // Aug 26, 2008 at 5:36 pm

  @Li Mien, I am sorry that your black ugly ass has been turned down by every Asian woman you have tried to approach. Even Asians who date only date outside their race have turned you down. We know people like you. It’s okay. We laugh about your behind your back. But your momma loves you at least. Oh, she doesn’t? Well, damn.

  Listen, your racist rant highlights more your pathetic existence. Instead of chasing after Asian women, try dating someone from your own race because no one is dating or marrying the black woman. Have you noticed? So F- OFF, you pathetic loser.

  –
  On the topic: East Asian men are really dropping the ball on this issue, which is why East Asian women are dating white men. Most Asian cultures treat daughter-in-laws and wives like total crap. Japanese men used to routinely have mistresses. Korean Confucian culture is hell for women. Hindu and Muslim cultures treat women as second class citizens. THAT IS why Asian women flock to white men because the white women’s movement let us have more choices, and white men are more open to equality.

  I do think that Asian women need to show more loyalty and respect to Asian men. Most AA women I know who date outside their race do it to get away from oppressive and controlling parents and family. I don’t blame them.

  When Asian cultures start treating women better, I think the women will start marrying back into the culture.

• 168 AsianKitty_ox // Aug 27, 2008 at 6:11 am

  This is so true. For me being a teenage chinese girl, all the asian boys are very quiet and shy, so it’s physically impossible to communicate with them. As well as this none of them seem to care about their looks. I’ve had a few boyfriends and yes its safe to say they’ve all mostly been white although, there have been a few who have been black and even one guy who was Spanish. These all reflect to the answers above!

• 169 Linda Chen // Aug 29, 2008 at 4:39 am

  Lately there are a few comments which are quite racist. Come on, guys. Let’s keep this clean and respectful. If I find anymore racist comment, I will report your azz.
  My mother always say: think it twice because you say something, because you cant no take it back. try to bring other people smile and shine.

• 170 dawg // Aug 30, 2008 at 9:31 am

  Asian girls that date boring whitebread dudes betray their culture. Straight white males (except for Jewish men) are dull and ugly. Along with Jewish people and white people who have become Muslims and Buddhists and other nonchristian religions, people of color are inherently smarter, more gifted, more talented, and better looking than privileged heterosexist boring straight white christian males. Inded, they have a monopoly on everything that is cool, while white people (except for Jewish people) are inherently inferior. Everyone knows this in their heart.

  This post speaks truth to power.

• 171 Ryan // Sep 1, 2008 at 7:31 pm

  yea im white. asian girls are so hot-everything about em. the best is that they let you be a man instead of constantly fighting you for the reigns like most white women. Actually your way better than white women shhh. white women(american) are WORLD RENOWN for their “easy-ness” and lol everyone knows about this except them.

• 172 Dave // Sep 2, 2008 at 8:43 pm

  I’m not going to sit here and argue with the author, because the above is their opinion and that’s that. However, let me clear something up: what you’ve written about Asian guys (hand holding, etc) is a rather lame stereotype and doesn’t really justify being racist (at least, dating wise) against your own race.

  Moreover, I know the Asian female/white male pairing is common, but in my own life, I know absolutely no Asian female/white male pairings. In fact, of all the interracial couples I know (which is four), they’re all pairings between an Asian male/white female. Most of them say, anyway, that’s it’s precisely because Asian males tend to be more considerate and sensitive that they’re with them.

• 173 Wakako // Sep 4, 2008 at 7:18 am

  To the above: It’s probably because you’re a male and it makes sense to have male friends…which is probably why you know more AM/WF couples. I’ve come to the same conclusion as the author awhile back in Junior High School. The Asian men that attempted asking me out back then barely made the first sentence let alone hold my hand. It became frustrating and I usually ended up having to make the first move. It became tiresome after awhile. Plus, every other Asian in my community was a family friend; barely anyone new and all people I grew up with. When I was in NYC a lot of the men I knew again, were still too timid and shy. Even my Asian female’s boyfriends were shy in shaking my hand. My brother is the same way unfortunately and is also extremely shy around women despite the fact that he’s an enormous body builder. Now this isn’t saying all Asian men are doomed to have women-induced panic attacks [my father for example was extremely loud and obnoxious] but it became so abundant with the Asian men that I knew that I eventually decided to stop going after them. Why chase when you have other people who are just as willing to make the first move as I am? Which led me to my to my current fiance. I didn’t have to try and beat an answer out of him or force him to hold my hand. Am I a somewhat stereoytypical Asian Japanese woman? Perhaps. I’m not the submissive person my mother was and I don’t have any qualms to speaking my mind and saying what is on my mind. The majority of white men that I know are ok with this and do not mind me making just as much income [if not more haha] than him. And it isn’t ingrained in his head that I must be mother-like or submissive.

• 174 kcir // Sep 8, 2008 at 8:39 pm

  OK, I didn’t read every entry, I saw one sort of close to what I’ll touch on but the majority of you are brainwashed, in a sense.

  First of all I want #38 and #40 to be consolidated. Asians like white people period. This is not the website, “Stuff Asian women like” or vice versa.

  Now, Asians like white people because of American Movies. Do I have to point it out? Come on man! Your perceptions of beauty are shaped by these external influences, there is nothing intrinsically beautiful about ‘White People’, which, additionally, is very much a misnomer most of the time. What is ‘White’ anyways? Asian?

  If Asia started pumping out big budget films like crazy for 50 years, what would happen? Films about the future with mostly Asians, for example, probably speaking Chinese. Flood the Asian market with Asian movies. Why not?

  Anyways, it doesn’t matter what race or culture you are; if you don’t get it, you don’t get it; and you become trapped in a sort of really lame and bland form of madness. But maybe I’m just making a big deal out of nothing.

  I want to keep up my rant but I have reality to attend to… Rats!

• 175 Tabitha // Sep 9, 2008 at 11:08 pm

  To Li Mien: At least black people can speak EngRish!

  And Soju, WTF?!?!?!?!?!

• 176 Girl // Sep 12, 2008 at 9:00 pm

  This is stupid, you type the wrong CAPTCHA and your whole comment is deleted. I was typing up this whole thing about Asian girls and about the video above and something happened to this webpage and it got deleted. I was typing this forever long “guideline” about how guys can get girls while chatting with my friend and one sentenced got in there as I hit “enter” and the whole comment was deleted. BS.

  Okay, here’s the summary of the “guideline” I was gonna give ya, I’m too lazy and pissed off to type the whole things again, plus I can’t remember exactly what I typed, of course.

  So, to get girls, here are the things you have to do: Eat the right diet, have the right weight, do exercise, join sport teams (tell ya, when guys wear varsity clothes they look extremely hot, 10 times as hot as they normally are), and especially lift weight. Wear proper, nice clothes, emo, shaggy clothes don’t do very well, although some people like it, but the majority don’t. Be confident about yourself, talk when appropriate, don’t be too quiet, be social. Show your sense of humor. Read more, learn more, read news more to have stories to tell the girls. Be successful in school. You can flirt but not too much. Just be nice and the girls will like you. Be supportive. Give them compliments whenever they deserve it. Check on the person you like to show her that you care. Be there for her when she needs you. Blah blah blah.

  Accomplishing all of those is really hard but the more you can achieve the better chance of you getting girls tailing you.

• 177 Desperate Girl // Sep 12, 2008 at 11:48 pm

  The thing is, I have a crush on this one guy and I’m too shy to tell him. Plus it’s not my personality of doing such thing. I don’t think he likes me though. By saying “like”, I mean “love-like” kind of thing. I mean, we never really talk or anything. But sometimes he says things I don’t even expect he would. We attended the same school since my freshman year, for more than half the year, I didn’t even notice him or even know he existed even though we had PE together (well I’m not sure if we even had PE together until the event that I’m going to tell you happened) until one day in PE, he encouraged me to do well in baseball, saying my name, “[my name], let’s go beat them!” with that oh so lady-killing gesture that I don’t know how to describe, it’s just so cool it crushed my heart. I still wonder why I never notice such a handsome guy while he actually knew my name. That was when my heart missed a beat. And the interesting thing is I actually did surprisingly good in baseball that day. That was when I finally noticed him. Then I found out about his name, and all of a sudden in PE he finally comes into my sight. But then when I finally have a crush on him, he seems to not care about me. And then I don’t know why but one day when he was playing basketball while I was jogging around the gym (as each of us had different choices on choice day, some play this, others play that, me I jogged, and had to go around the gym, which I had to go around many times), and his ball for some reason kept hitting my head (I dunno why, it’s weird, I don’t even know if it’s intentionally or it’s just coincidence). Actually the ball didn’t hurt but he came over and said, “Sorry! Are you okay? Sorry my ball kept hitting you!” Then he opened his arms and offered me a hug, but I rejected because I was too shy, so I said, “No, it’s okay, I didn’t get hurt. I don’t need a hug.”
  And the next day he stopped me while I was going to the library and asked “what’s up” and I responded “nothing” and hurried because I was too shy. I know I was too stupid to be true. Then I don’t know why but for a long time we kept walking by each other every morning before school. We actually never said anything ever since I said “nothing”. oh my.
  On some occasions we sat next to each other (not really because we wanted to talk but because we were in the computer lab, unintentionally by me, him? I don’t know) but we never actually said anything. I was afraid I was gonna spurt my feeling and was too shy to actually look at his eyes so I rarely sputtered a word.
  The next year, we were assigned to sit next to each other once. One day our table figured out that he was gonna have a football game that night, so I said “good luck” and he said “thank you”, sounding (to me) a little surprised. (Omg, did I look that cold to him?) I found out from another guy friend of mine in football team that his game lost by 1 point, and no doubt I was a little sad, but hey it was only ONE point, I don’t know whether my good luck created a good or bad impact on the game. Then the next day, a friend of mine asked him whether the game went well, I replied “They lost”, and he said “By 1 point only.” And I don’t know what I said after that. Then a few days later he eventually moved seat, I don’t know why omg I don’t know why and whether it was because of me or not. Then it turned out that in the next summer, he wasn’t in the football team, although he said “football is tight, I like it, just don’t play it.” I wonder if it had anything to do with what I said, maybe I seemed to let him down or something. Probably not because I wasn’t that special. But if it was then poor soul, I didn’t mean to!!!
  On another day, I was doing this presentation for my science class in my group, while he finished early so he came over to where I was because his guy friend sat next to me. Then he said something I can’t remember and I said “go away”. Man I was embrassed, and my tongues said the words my brain didn’t even want to make. I mean, my body always do something my heart doesn’t want to do to him. He replied, “Okay okay, sorry!”…
  I have found his myspace during the school year but never actually added him, afraid that he may figure out how I feel. Plus it might be weird adding him since we weren’t that close. So I created a fake myspace profile, I even added random people to make it look real, lol, and then added him just for the sake of it and see whether he’d add me, (he set his mood “sore” at the time, so I began the message with “sore, sore, sore”) asking whether he was the Joe from the school that we DON’T attend. So he said no he’s from … school, not… school. Then my desire went down so I gave up and I figured out it wouln’t do much pretending like this, so I sent a reply message saying, “Oh really? I’m sorry, I didn’t look close at your picture, sorry!”
  But then over the summer I was like, “what the heck, just add him, and see where it goes!” I sent him a message asking whether if he is [his name], and asked how he was doing, then he said, “yeah it’s me, yeah I’m doing fine summer was fun, how about you?” I replied back saying that I’m good and summer wasn’t very cool. Then I even added, “but btw, do you even know who I am?” But then I never got his reply.
  Then another school year approached, I had two classes with him. In one of the two, we played this litte game called “If you love me, smile” while the person who is spoken to must not smile or she/he will have to stand up and do the asking. My gal friend came and asked me, she stood before me, asking me the question, and after a while I couldn’t stand it so I laughed, which made me do the game. Or rather, somewhere inside of me, I wanted to play the game that’s why I laughed. I wanted to come to him but I didn’t because I was afraid he might know my feelings. So I ended up asking the guy that I was doing the Marriage project the year before (he was one of the guys that I can trust to do this, not because I liked him or anything, I don’t know if he even misunderstood me, hopefully not). But the indifference little mouth didn’t smile so I had to go to a different person. I looked around the room and I don’t know why but my feet led me to the guy next to the guy I had a crush on, so I said, “Hey, I know you will smile so I’m doing this to you. If you love me then please smile.” He was a little surprised, I mean, I could see he was kinda uneasy, did he even think that I liked him? OMG! So he said, “Sorry, I love you, but I can’t smile.” So once again, I had to depart. People told me to go to this certain guy, so I came to him, said simply, “If you love me please smile.” At first he didn’t smile but then at the same instant the whole class, including him and me broke out laughing, so I got to stop doing the asking. After a while the guy I had a crush on had to do the game too, but he never asked me, I don’t know whether the reason behind this was because he didn’t like me or because he didn’t think I would smile or that he didn’t want to make me play the game or if he didn’t want me to misunderstand him or whatever else you can think of. Then the girl who made me laugh at the beginning of the game tried me again, I said, “Sorry I can’t smile, but I love you!” trying not to smile this time. And the guy I had a crush on looked at me and said, “[my name] is coldblooded.” I looked at him and talked, or rather whispered, “I’m not coldblooded” while he said, “[my name] is a killer.” The teacher in the room also added, “oooh [my name] is sooo cold! (He did this some times with the other players too so I don’t really care.) But what made me wonder is the notion behind the coldblooded and the killer part. I mean, he could have said that I was coldblooded, but then saying that I was a killer was another thing. You only say someone is a killer when she actually murder someone, or she actually makes other people fall for her, such as in “lady-killer”.
  In another class that I have with him, on the first day of school, I came late because of schedule change, I opened the door and saw him right away, looking at me. Omg, I don’t know how I felt at the moment!!! Oooh…
  And then I came to class another day, seeing him and his group of friends sitting over there, it seemed like they got quieter (what happened?), then one of his friend said, “Hey, [my crush's name]” I don’t know whether they were looking at me and/or talking about me because I didn’t look at them, pretended to ignore them. Actually, I do talk to them (some I talk a lot to) but when his group are together I feel uncormfortable joining them.

  These days, I have been updating my Myspace with secret messages sending for him, but I don’t think he ever reads them though. And although he has my Myspace, he hasn’t sent any messages or comments ever since. I’ve read his myspace’s comments and found some really curious ones that could be toward me. Since I’ve been posting my feelings about him up (without revealing who he is or leaving any clue for anyone to figure out his identity but him himself), there was one person whom I didn’t know, thus didn’t have her in my friendlist, thus I can’t read her comments to figure out the other side of the conversation, which is the one that I really want to read, she/he said, “see that’s the wonder.
  is that really the secret message?”, then “you sure that’s what you were staring at? jkjkjk. you will never know the true meaning.”, then “go ahead and try.”, then “yeah thank god because there is no real message. you would waste your life if you tried.”
  And so life goes, we happened to sit facing each other, not directly because he was in another table group, but I can see him and he can see me. Sometimes I look at him secretly, sometimes our eyes meet. Sometimes he talks in class while looking at me (or maybe that was my imagination), four eyes looked at each other. Oh how can I explain this? He has eyes that burn like fire that melt my heart everytime we happened to set eyes on each other. I feel like he looks at me differently from others, or maybe he’s like that to everybody, or maybe it’s just because his eyes are like that, or maybe it was only my imagination. My eyes twinkle when I see him, but I don’t know if his eyes burn fire when he sees me. Everytime I see him, my heart skips a beat.
  I don’t know why I like him, maybe his burning eyes, maybe his nice body, maybe his handsome face, or maybe his humor and yet mysteriousness that he has. Or maybe it was an encouragement from a handsome guy at the right time that created this longing feeling. Or maybe it was because he is the only one that I have had a crush on that doesn’t seem to like me back. There are people who like me that I don’t like back. It’s human nature to desperately want something they can’t have. I mean, if he had dated me ever since I had a crush on him, would I still like him now, after probably 2 years? Probably not as much as I feel now. Or maybe it’s Cupid’s game of making me hearbroken after all the hearts that I broke.

  He’s not perfect, still I like him. He doesn’t really talk to me, still I like him. And each time he talks with me face-to-face, usually it’s weird, unexpected thing. He’s smart, yet he doesn’t get 4.0, yet I still like him. I heard that his dad seemed to have went to jail for some reason, yet I sill like him! Once in this certain place’s cafeteria I saw him leaving his emptied soda can on the table purposefully, not putting it in the recycle bin like his friend did, who actually came across the cafeteria and threw his can in the recycle bin. (This friend ends up having a really weird friend relationship with me that confuses me whether he likes me or hates me or something in the middle.) Still I like him. Well he seems very well-behaved and clean and organized though, maybe that time was just a joke, plus I don’t remember or don’t know what they did to the can though, I wasn’t there watching them all the time. He’s tall and I’m short, oh…
  Oh, or maybe because he sucks at football that he quit, I don’t know how good he can play though so I can’t judge!

  Oh but the thing is, I like him, I have a crush on him, I long for him, but I don’t feel like dating him right now though, I’m not ready yet!!! And there are too many obstacles on the way!!! And people would think it’s weird us too being together.

  Oh yeah and I’m shy to him only!!! The thing is, these days, I’m shy to the one that I like, and normal or outgoing to the ones that I’m just friends with.

  What do you think??? Does he like me? I’m too desperate and stupid right?
  Oh how I wish I can read his mind so if he doesn’t like me, then I’ll probably be able to stop liking him and get going on with my life. In classes that I have with him, sometimes my thoughts go away from the teachers’ talkings, especially when I’m in the 2 classes that I have with him. Oh but then he probably doesn’t like me because if he does, he would probably talks to his friends, then at least one of his friends would have talked to me about it to set things straight. Right? Maybe I should stop liking him??? But how can I stop my heart from something it wants??? One option is never see him again but that’s impossible because I have to have those two classes (plus it feels good looking at him hehehe). Another is to have a boyfriend which is totally not good because I would never go out with anyone I don’t even like. I’m not liking anyone besides him now. And probably it will happen for another 2 years before I actually graduate and go to college and get rid of seeing him. But if he attends the same college then BOOM, that’s just FATE, and that means SOMETHING. These days almost every song reminds me of him. Ohhhhh… Movie actors’ faces remind me of him. Seeing a guy on a street who happen to have the same stature reminds me of him. Even handsome actors’ faces aren’t that handsome to me anymore compared to him. When I watch movies, when I look at pictures, magazines, I see the handsome guys but really I’m seeing HIM. Oh oh how desperate am I. And I’m not even a guy to ask him. I’m a girl, and supposedly a girl like me will never ask a guy about his feelings towards her. Oh how can I be so normal around any other guy but him?

• 178 chuck // Sep 16, 2008 at 1:10 am

  Hmmm. I find the whole Chinese ethnocentrism amusing. You know the “stick with your own kind.” Especially when I hear it here in the US. (Imagine if the now barely majority group had maintained that view). A bit ironic too, since I use to associate myself with white nationalism until I met my girlfriend (Shanghaiese) — you know the whole, Oh, I like(d) the US being a European cultured country — or at least a country with a culture. Anyways, for those that commented about it — and those that don’t quite understand the comments, the positions are more or less reasonable. The truth that everyone knows and doesn’t like to admit — well inside the US — is that ethnic solidarity promotes group advantage. There is a laundry list of such groups but I think we can all point them out; and there is a good deal of research that supports this. So the motivation is not (need not be) ignorance, random hate, jealously — though sometimes they are factors involved — but practical common sense tit for tat: an unspoken agreement to help each other first. The downside is that such views always spill into racism and screwing other groups over — when things get bad..but in principle, if groups work anything like individuals, just because you love and take care of yourself doesn’t mean you have to be a prick to everyone else. Needless to say, I get a lot of stares when in China and in some China towns (the whole male:female imbalance doesn’t help — but I also act kinda funny to) and then I get shit from people ethnically minded white people. I suppose it would be easier If I could just dismiss it, but being ethnocentric makes sense — especially when other groups around you are or you want a quick method for making connections and alliances. (Including and excluding by appearance is a hell of a lot simpler than judging character.) Shoot, even the “I don’t want white guys to compete for Chinese girls because I know I can’t as easily get a white girl” –”stick with your own kind” makes sense too –
  Who isn’t territorial?
  Anyways, so for those of you ‘what the hell are you doing with a Chinese girl.’-ers out there — I think there are plenty of people that will be happy to maintain solidarity with you — so I wouldn’t feel to threatened by it. The girl thing, well — that will really only effect you if you live in the west and there I’m note sure how much of a guys choice it is anymore. You just have to work yourself in a better position and work against the media images. And if your over here and decently successful it should be fairly easy to go to greater China, travel for a bit and meet someone. (If your not it doesn’t matter what you are.) So unless you just having fun playing a Troll, I’d try not to get to obsessed about it.

• 179 chuck // Sep 16, 2008 at 2:22 am

  Follow up:

  Read through some more of the posts and guess I don’t get it. I mean I always considered Chinese as being pretty smart — but some of these guys come across worse than my red-neck friends. I can see if you want to make a case against cross dating and miscegenation on the basis of ethnic solidarity (though Chinese are not exactly a declining, threatened group) — at least this is philosophically understandable in a fascist/tribal/traditional sort of way. But this sounds like the jealous ’stick with your own kind’ I hear when out with some friend and pass a black guy and pretty white girl. And I’m always like ok — well maybe if you got a job or went to school and didn’t sit around drinking MGD complaining and blogging about them or them you would have a better shot. Again, the percent of whites in greater china (Taiwan, Singapore, Mainland, ect) is so small anyone complaining must be in the West. Even in Shangahi, there can’t be more that 20,000 white bachelors out of a population of 16-20 million locals (if you want to count migrants).
  And typically the girls they-we-I find attractive are not the same as the ones other Chinese guys do. So what’s the deal here? And if you are in the West, didn’t you read the fine print? The whole, we’ll be liberal and grant citizenship to anyone and everyone — just drop the ethnocentric crap, accept that its a free for all, and realize that here (as elsewhere) girls will be instinctively attracted to whoever they perceive to have more social status — even when this has little to no correlation to anything else (actual financial status) , and this is highly conditioned by pop TV.

  About white guy appearance.
  1. Not sure why this matters so much as women are more attracted to perceived status and less appearance. Variations granted.
  2. While I agree TV has a big influence I disagree as to the cause. TV inflates white status nor appearance. This corresponds to 1 and correlates to the following which argues that blond hair blue eye are just better looking

  http://psychologytoday.com/article/pto-20070622-000002.html
  — maybe maybe not, but it is at least as sound as matching IQ.
  3. Unfortunately this doesn’t help white guys since 1. It does help white girls, but is offset by
  what I think we all notice — in general white people tend to age bad. I always think of white girls as flowers that quickly bloom and wilt.
  Later

  Re: “white guys are less attractive”

• 180 M J // Sep 18, 2008 at 10:20 am

  can’t we just aw get along?

• 181 Vince // Sep 18, 2008 at 5:32 pm

  “White men indulge our deepest PDA-fantasies; they hold our hands, they aren’t terribly cerebral about their emotions, and they will””heaven forbid””tell their parents that we’re actually dating. Asian parents don’t do any of that gross hand-holding, making-out stuff.”

  Weird, I’m an Asian American guy and I informed my parents that I was dating my girlfriend. I love how the writer stereotypes that Asian guys absorb and learn everything their parents tell them, and such are losers who carry on the “strict Asian tradition” of so-called misogyny, chauvinism, and nerdiness, and all-the-while, Asian females are totally Americanized. Has it ever occurred to the author that Asian AMERICAN guys, like their female counterparts, are just as well-adjusted? Of course not. Why? Because the writer of this piece is a racist, plain and simple. It’s sad that so many Asian American women are so racist and biased against their own race. As an Asian American guy, half the racism I’ve experienced came from such vitriolic Asian American women with self-hatred/inferiority complexes. It’s pathetic that the author realizes that there is Asian fetishism and “yellow fever”, and is more than happy to play right into it.

  Like I said above, a lot of racism I’ve encountered has actually been from Asian females. If so many of you Asian American women want to pretend that you’re white and so supremely above Asian American men, fine. But don’t fucking ruin our chances with other races of women. Your ilk makes me fucking sick.

  And as for that cute half-Asian/half-white babies comment–it just reeks of eugenics; wanting to create a great-looking race. Hitler would’ve loved you, if you weren’t Asian, of course.

• 182 Chuck // Sep 19, 2008 at 1:54 am

  Why do morons always accuse people of the ‘racist’ in the most irrelevant fashion? I mean I could see if you were trying to intimidate and extort money from a stupid white liberal — but does anyone else take the charge seriously. Personally, I prefer girls to guys — does that make me a sexist? What about shorter girls to taller girls — a heightist? Educated to non Educated? What’s the difference?

  Well actually the answer is obvious. They read western media and watch western movies and pick up the race narrative — not understanding that it is something used (and abused) here to reduce social tension, because the country is some mixed. Purely idiomatic.

  Don’t worry most stupid American do the same thing. You see, with regards to the race issue the media brainwashing is almost as bad as some stuff you find in the Shanghai Daily, except people really take it seriously here.

  Anyways since ‘racist’ has virtually lost all of its meaning — and is now just a slur you toss out when you want something or don’t like another’s opinion — maybe we can use more meaningful language?

  How about …the girl is stereotyping which shows she hasn’t gotten out much…or she just want to climb up the ladder –
  1) which is stupid because a lot of white guys are shit
  2) but this makes her feel a little guilty for giving up her culture — so she has to make fun of chinese guys…

  Here is the truth though — White guys have higher status in china (in general), just by association — but its falling quickly…obviously people are catching on! Girls are status (= support me and my baby) seekers.

  If you want to convince a girl to open her eyes ..have her turn off the DVD player and show her
  the wallstreet journal — this should enlighten her to the economic situation..

• 183 You are awful // Sep 19, 2008 at 3:42 pm

  This article is awful and horribly biased. It is quite clear from your point of view that you associate positive and modern traits with Caucasians and negative old-world traits with Asians. Obviously the only Asian guys you knew were either jerks, or just your father. Asian-America men aren’t less aggressive or less affectionate than Caucasian men, Asian AMERICAN men appreciate hand-holding just as much as the next guy, except what the female sex of our “race” has going for her is the myth that Asian women have submissive personalities. And isn’t that exactly the kind anti-progressive culture Asian women are turned off by?

• 184 ZoeyI am // Sep 19, 2008 at 8:18 pm

  Is sad but truth.
  I had seen a lot of asian girls, most of them international students from china searching for a white boy or alredy dating one.
  And I had seen a lot of asians guys walking alone in the street.
  Is like girls prefer to be alone and search for a white guy than be with a asian guy.
  I think is cruel.
  Also, is cruel that white boys who likes asian girls say ugly stuff about white, latinas and black girls all the time.
  And is also cruel that they say asians are so pretty and thin like all other women were fat cows. Is just cruel an not true.
  Just say you love asian girls, you don’t have to explain it and asian girls do the same.
  I mean, those white guy who marry an african amercan women explan himself? No
  A white dude who marry a latina explain himself? No
  You don´t have to say nasty things about other girls to justify your love.
  The same goes for asian women.
  Say you are prettier than others, just make you a bitch.
  There are pretty girls in all races.
  Just say: I like white guys and I going to get one, why? Because I want to and I will fight for it.
  If you give reasons is like you think what you do is wrong. and is not.
  Also, you don’t have to be racist for justify your relationship with a white guy.
  I was in Seattle in a Book store and this asian chick (not pretty at all) and her white boy friend begin to say nasty stuff about latinos like both were superior.
  I turn to look at them and they just go.
  But that wasn’t the first time an asian girl make fun of another race for feel she belongs with a white guy.
  I see this asian girl making fun of Indian students in Boston College and when I go to eat to a fancy restaurant in Vancouver this asian girl and his white boyfriend look at us like saying “you shouldn’t be here latinos”.
  I say asians females should not be racist or nasty.
  Be nice and fight for the men you want.

• 185 HapAvenger // Sep 19, 2008 at 8:57 pm

  To all the Asian women out there who want to associate with being Caucasian, do us a favor and dye your hair blonde, bleach your skin, put in the colored contacts and stop saying you are Asian. You have no self respect and are a disgrace to other Asians and Asian Americans who are proud of their heritage.

• 186 LiNhi001 // Sep 20, 2008 at 7:26 pm

  I like Asian boys. But it just so happens that the Asian boys I know are all my relatives. xDD

  &as fun as incest is…it’s just not appealing. lol.

• 187 Anonymous // Sep 21, 2008 at 9:32 pm

  I’m half korean, one-fourth german, and one-fourth cherokee descent. and I just wanted to clarify to one of the comment leavers, that my mom is the asian and my father is the mutt, and I’m beautiful. The appearance of the child doesn’t hang upon the sex of the parent that is asian or white or black or eskimo.., since the chromosomes are shared.

• 188 On Race, Markedness, and Stuff White People Like « The Thugout // Sep 25, 2008 at 1:41 am

  [...] proof, not only are Asian girls listed as item #11 on Stuff White People Like, white guys are item #38 on Stuff Asian People Like.) Imagine someone “acting Asian” (Asian-American, not Asian tourist); now imagine a [...]

• 189 Azn logic // Sep 26, 2008 at 9:38 am

  They call you ching chong and make casual ethic jokes about your parents behind your back and you still date them. If that isn’t selling out then what is?
  And don’t use the “they’re all not like that” excuse, so it’s fine to generalize them positively but when it comes to the negatives you play the diplomat?

  At first I thought you Azn girls where naive(stupid) but now your just below scum.

  With the way things are going I don’t know wither I should be proud or embarrassed standing next to an Azn American girl.

  “A man’s pride is equivalent to a woman’s vanity”
  NO SHIT! HUH?

• 190 Dakkun // Sep 27, 2008 at 4:37 pm

  Frankly, I don’t believe in any of the excuses people put out that goes along the lines of ‘Asian guys are shy’. Just don’t say that just from your own narrow experience with Asian guys, you’re not doing yourself any favour.

  Anyway, I personally think that the reason why you’d see more White guys with Asian girls is because of the negative media portrayal of Asian guys. Frankly, an Vietnamese American female friend of mine interviewed a couple of white girls, who all had the same answer, “Asian guys are too tall, skinny, have slanted eyes.” blah blah blah. I’m sure of the fact that Asian guys in American movies depicted as single-minded hardcore martial artists, or glasses wearing nerd doesn’t do anyone a favour. But that’s just America! The media effects alot of people’s opinions, just like the news. But just because we’re Asian doesn’t mean we’re going to get treated just like the White people. We’re still somewhat classified as a minority group. Minorities around the world get treated differently to the native people (not saying White Americans are native at all); white people in Japan are called Gaijin frequently, so as the Koreans and Chinese in Japan. Also, black people in Japan (this is from watching Japanese comedy) are frequently viewed by the Japanese comedy world as something to be laughed at, just because they’re foreign.

  Frankly, I don’t care much for Asian girls dating White guys. As long as they’re happy, so be it, I shouldn’t really care in the first place. Though, there’s still the problem with all the angry Asian guys (not me BTW) blatantly calling Asian girls a disgrace…

  Sick freaks…

• 191 Dave // Sep 30, 2008 at 8:03 am

  The typical white guy is poorly socialized in this age of high divorce rates and broken families. They guys don’t how to treat with women with respect and they’re pretty unstable.

  The modern cool dude like myself (I’m Vietnamese) and my Indian friends are taking over the new alpha male landscape. We’re good-looking, have professional degrees, and we treat women with respect.

  Everytime I walk into a restuarant and come across a white guy with his asian girlfriend, they both get visibly uncomfortable; especially the white dude. The foregoing is de rigeur or commonplace nowadays but not much is mentioned about it.

  White guys think they have a default institutional power in social settings, but their traditional power base is eroding. I find the mainstream media’s attempt to emasculate Asian dudes as a logical way to try and retain their status. Back in the real world, these white guys are often shocked and intimidated by good-looking and successful ethnic dudes.

  A lot of these white dudes have a screws loose in the first place, that’s why they date asian girls. They think the perceived institutional will make-up for being poorly socialized and the asian girl will put up with it. Now that’s fucked.

  Personally, I tend to go for Persian girls and Brown girls because they’re beautiful and strong women.

• 192 Canadian Asian Girl // Oct 6, 2008 at 12:59 pm

  Some of the comments above are absolutely disgusting. I’m thoroughly disappointed to see that people continue to be close-minded, stereotypical, ignorant and just downright assholes. I hope a lot of the ones above, especially HITHEREGUYS, are just really bad jokes… because it makes me lose a little faith in humanity.

  I am an Asian female dating a white male for awhile now. Even though I was born and raised in Toronto, Canada (a very multicultural place. where interracial couples are actually quite common, by the way), I have kept a lot of my Chinese culture and am in no way ‘white washed’ or ‘have the desire to be white’.

  I find both white and asian men attractive. I do not prefer one over the other; if theyre respectful, intelligent, caring, and physically attractive…then it floats my boat. It doesn’t matter what nationality they are.

  However, there are some generalizations, ‘quirks’ and perks that come with dating a white guy.
  1) He’s not afraid to show you to his family. I find that a lot of asian guys don’t tell their parents about their girlfriend right away. Or invite their girlfriends to family functions.
  2) They are taller. This is important because girls like guys who cant protect them. Short, tiny, scrawny, feminine, breakable guys are not only incapable of providing us with that protection, they need it.
  3) They appreciate us for being a little different. This may not be the reason why white guys date asian girls, but it certainly is a bonus. There’s more to learn, see and experience. It allows for an open-minded, cultured and knowledgable way of life. There are some things white people will not be able to know, unless theyve dated an asian.
  4) They dont spoil their girlfriends like most Asian guys do. In the long run, that’s a good thing. It teaches girls that a man can’t give them everything, and they shouldn’t have to. Women have to work too.

  Another thing. Not all asian chicks who date white guys are sex-craving sluts. Not all white guys date asian girls because they’re girly, or petite, or submissive (because I am definately not any of those traits). So if you have been so unfortunate to meet one of those people, just understand that not everyone is like that, or have secret intentions. If you are unfortunately one of those people, then I hope you grow up a bit and figure out what you really want in life. Because surely, if you think sex, submissiveness, or social status is the most important thing to work towards… something must’ve gone wrong.

• 193 American Asian Guy // Oct 6, 2008 at 8:39 pm

  Hi Canadian Asian girl, I am an Asian American guy and I have been dating a Caucasian girl for some time:

  1. I’m not afraid to introduce her to my family.
  2. I am as tall as other Caucasian guys.
  3. She sees me for who I am. The reason she is attracted to me is not for any exotic reason. Likewise I see her for who she is, and do not simply see her as a Caucasian girl.
  4. I do not spoil my girlfriend, but I do show her how much I love her.

  It’s dangerous to generalize about any group of people, Asian men, Asian women, whoever. There is variation within any group of people. Not all Asian guys are short, spoil their girlfriends and are afraid to introduce their girlfriends to their families. Do not demystify a stereotype about Asian women being petite and submissive by reaffirming negative stereotypes about Asian men.

• 194 jen // Oct 8, 2008 at 11:38 am

  Many white guy love asian gril
  http://www.mythailove.com

• 195 Canadian Asian Girl // Oct 8, 2008 at 7:54 pm

  Hi American Asian Guy, yes you are right. No generalizations should ever be made about any particular group of people. I am 100% aware that there is variation, and I shouldn’t've placed words like ‘most asians’, ‘a lot of’, etc. The points that I made in my previous comment were events and situations that I myself have actually experienced, which certainly may not apply to others. Yes, not all asian guys are afraid to show their girlfriend to his family, are short, or spoil their girlfriends. Hell, I bet many are great boyfriends… I was merely trying to say that being in a relationship with a white guy, the things I listed was what set the dating process different from my relationships with some asian guys, or from the relationships my asian girlfriends have been in. However, you can not deny that the points above do in fact speak some truth. It does happen, just not to everyone, and it certainly happened to me.

• 196 Asian Guy Gets The Girl // Oct 9, 2008 at 7:10 pm

  Asians prefer their own kind still regardless of Hollywood propaganda

• 197 Vic // Oct 9, 2008 at 10:56 pm

  Asian people = asian girl? Well I guess it is a match made in colonialist heaven - white male/asian female. Typical White Jewish Hollywood propaganda.

• 198 Vic // Oct 9, 2008 at 11:24 pm

  Also…please change the title to “Stuff that Asian girl like”

  Asian guys don’t want to be drag into this. It almost seems like this post is a slap in the face of all Asian guys out there.

  Beside my lovely mom and all my cool aunts, Asian girls and women in America are a disgrace. They have no social perception. They would sell-out a nation if that means they’ll be able to live the lives they see on TV. They have no moral compass and intellectual understanding of what it means to be an Asian in America.

  There a billions of Asian in America and they say they are afraid of dating you because you might be related. A Chinese and a Korean are no related. To all-self hating Asian women out there, Asians are actually more than one race.

  They rehash all these tired old stereotypes that has been thrown at their fathers and mothers as a reason they don’t like Asians.

  It is sad really. White colonial mentality have affect Asian culture deeply. I’ll bet you white husbands are laughing at your father and mothers.

• 199 Vic // Oct 9, 2008 at 11:29 pm

  Billions of Asian in the world, not America. I am stupid tonight.

• 200 Mr. D // Oct 10, 2008 at 11:01 am

  I’m a Asian dude and love white women. I’ve dated nothing but white woman my entire life. I grew up in a small town where my family was the only Asians on the block and everyone else was white. If you people think Asian guys have small penises then you wouldn’t mind bending over and letting me show you how small my penis really is. I think the Asians from the east just have a poor diet but here in America we all eat the same. I’m 6′2″ about 210 lbs and I’m as tall as any of my white friends. They ain’t packing anything I’m not, plus I get to date their sisters lol

• 201 American Asian Guy // Oct 10, 2008 at 7:50 pm

  Canadian Asian girl, I understand that based on your dating experiences you have come to some conclusions. However, I think it is dangerous to generalize about any group of people. You would not like to be stereotyped as a subservient, sex craving Asian girl, just as any Asian guy does not want to be stereotyped as short, scrawny and feminine.

• 202 CD // Oct 17, 2008 at 1:29 am

  “And as for that cute half-Asian/half-white babies comment”“it just reeks of eugenics; wanting to create a great-looking race. Hitler would’ve loved you, if you weren’t Asian, of course.”

  Yeah, that comment in the article about wanting Hapa babies really struck me as creepy in an Aryan sorta way.

  I think some Asian Americans–men and especially women–really need to be honest about what they stand for and stop hiding behind the Politically Correct propaganda that “love is colorblind.”

  Just say that you believe Whiteness is superior, and be done with it.

  Just don’t forget to Seig Heil as you say it. LOL

• 203 Joy // Oct 18, 2008 at 8:04 pm

  HA, I agree with Steve, who doesn’t love some nasal mojo.

  And CD, your right too. I think this whole eurocentric fad promoting white people for the past century or two has taken a toll on other races. But when we’re talking about asian girls being attracted to white guys, I think most of that is happening in predominantly white countries, asia not included. I don’t think any of my cousins in asia would prefer a white guy to an asian guy.
  You guys are also assuming that there’s only 2 choices, white or asian. Maybe in the midwest… yea. I’m an asian girl and I was raised in the midwest, but I’m in NYC now. So I can agree, being surrounded by white people my whole life, and being the only asian out of maybe 5 in the whole state I developed an attraction to white guys, mainly because there’s not really much more to choose from.
  But I’m older now, and in an international city, and being the open minded gal I am, have tried out a little bit of everything
  If a guy’s very attractive, it really doesn’t matter what his race or ethnicity is. White guys really do end up as a bland default in bigger cities full of diverse and prime men. I can vouch a really hot asian guy can be a lot more attractive than any white guy. Maybe I’m getting yellow fever too? lol. But so far my main fetish are middle eastern men. All terrorist jokes aside, they’re gorgeous, masculine, able, and just more pumped with testosterone. Yum.
  Anyway, I forgot what my point was. haha.
  But for all the asian girls out there, I suggest trying some different dishes besides white meat, you might like it better

• 204 Joy // Oct 18, 2008 at 8:25 pm

  Oh hey Vic, it’s not all about a lack of pride in one’s ethnicity or feeling a victim to white propaganda. You’re making stereotypes too now. It’s a natural phoenomena when asian girls are living in an area with 90% white population and maybe 10 asian guys to choose from. You’re not ensured top of the line guys with so little choice. Asian people of both genders often raised in suburban white neighborhoods can be overprotected and raised with more traditional ideals. So it could appear sort of prudish and subservient. Different cultures have different influences on their children. And some asian girls do like a more aggressive type of men. Not saying all asian men can’t be aggressive. I grew up having zero asian friends and was always in fights with my parents, so in a way I had a strange upraising from my friends and myself. I can understand where my parents are coming from too, but different strokes for different folks.
  I’m sure if these hypothetical asian women grew up in brazil or egypt or someplace with a completely different populace they would have different tastes in men as well. It’s not always about how the white men are oppressing or degrading our cultures. I can agree with Canadian asian girl because I was raised in similar conditions. Any asian guys I knew were few and far in between and they did always act like pansy shrimps that felt they only wanted to blend into the rest of the crowd. The black guys in those white suburban neighborhoods were the same, except they hid behind poser attitudes. So hell yea I dated white guys, I was going for the guys that were attractive and confident. That’s what’s sexy to anyone. That aggressive attitude is very primal and a factor to potency as a mate. So I prefer Israelis or Turks or hispanics to white guys now because white guys look like pansies next to them, what does that make me? It’s not because I think they’re superior to me.

• 205 CD // Oct 19, 2008 at 4:38 am

  Joy, too bad Neanderthals are extinct. They sound like your type. LOL.

  And some of these women here are trying a little too hard to convince everybody that they ain’t aren’t just the standard Whoreiental running from their race.

  Every sister sure as hell ain’t a sister.

• 206 Joy // Oct 19, 2008 at 9:02 am

  what’s that suppose to even mean?
  who’s whose sister?

  love maybe colorblind, but what is love besides hormonal attractions to another person you’re used to hanging around with for too long. Relationships are just a security blanket for people who are afraid of being alone.

  CD get your head out of your self-righteous ass for 1 second. Throwing stereotypes at me won’t do you ay good either. People on here are just explaining their experience on the topic. You’re here making accusations and telling people that they are part of the undeniable stereotype that you can’t see out of. I embrace all cultures, my family’s, my country’s, and all others.
  You have no right to even speak on behalf of any asian girls because you obviously can’t put yourself in our shoes.
  It’s an obvious fact that women choose men who are the most capable of being men, it’s survival of the fittest, and we choose mates that aren’t complete pansies.
  The one liners and big talk your trying preach really does show how pathetic and close minded you really are in person. Call me a whore if you like, I don’t charge, haha, it doesn’t bother me.
  It does sound like you feel a superiority complex to others from the way you’re throwing your judgement. Sadly if you can’t get the time of day from any girls, or even us “whorientals”, then you can at least live your life bitter and alone denouncing the world to your heart’s content.

  AIN’T that something to look forward to as an aspiring redneck?

• 207 CD // Oct 21, 2008 at 8:30 am

  Joy, your rant would be a hella more convincing if you actually had an argument.

  You spout a lot of empty catchphrases about stereotypes that I doubt you even understand the meaning of.

  If anything, it’s you that are not only an aspring redneck’s wife, but a Neandethal’s at that. Have fun, as your “man” drags ya by the hair and pimp slaps you down when you misbehave. Though, you’d prolly enjoy that, wouldn’t you?

  And I doubt you understand what being a man or woman is about–except as fed to you by the media or by Cosmo Magazine and their hilarious stereoypes about traditional manhood and womanhood that you follow.

  And please, stop with the tired accusations about Asian men being bitter. This is a cliched response that defensive Oriental women always spout when they have their asses called out.

  And if you don’t understand the “every sista ain’t a sista” comment, go listen to some P.E. and educate yourself.

• 208 Joy // Oct 21, 2008 at 9:56 am

  ha I don’t why I’m still writing on this post, but this little argument is beginning to be enjoyable.

  First of all, don’t feel threatened because I’m saying you’re close minded and judgmental.

  I never once said “asian men are bitter”, although you’re starting to sound like one. If you had read anything past beyond my interpretation of the your brain’s capabilities then you’d seen I’ve given the benefit of the doubt to any exceptions to what I’ve experienced from my point of view.

  I really don’t have time to make cliff notes for you, but I’d appreciate you trying to reflect my own points back at me with no backup to your point besides more insults. Reiterating “neanderthal” and “materialistic orientals” are about the only material you can come up with.

  As far as clichés go, everything that vomits out of your mind onto this blog is a cliché. I can’t help close-minded people who can’t see past there own stubbornness, but I was actually hoping to see some sort of intelligent perspective besides unoriginal insults.

• 209 Anonymous // Oct 22, 2008 at 1:20 pm

  Asian American Female, 17

  I admit that I do like white guys, but how could I not? I live in a small town, where there are very few Asians, and even less Asian guys my age. In my high school of about 1700, there are perhaps 7 Asians. 2 of which are guys. 1 my age. I take classes at a local college, and there are exactly 0 Asians there. Let me ask you, what are the chances of being romantically interested when you have a choice of either him, or him?
  I don’t only like white guys– I am sure that if the guy was any other race at all, if there was “something” there, some kind of “spark,” well yes, I would be interested in him. I’ve liked guys of other races, or had slight crushes on them; it never occurred to me that their race was important. If they had showed that they were interested in me, I wouldn’t have been disagreeable.
  And by the way, white guys are not stealing “your” asian females. Why? Because no one owns me. That’s why. The reverse is true too.
  No one is stealing anyone from anyone else. It’s all a matter of personal preference.

  And don’t call me “Oriental” either.

• 210 CD // Oct 22, 2008 at 11:32 pm

  Since reading comprehension skills are lacking among certain defensive people here, let me restate the arguments more explicitly.

  1. Yes, of course whom you date is your own “personal preference” and no one owns your body, etc.

  However, it would be a good idea to stop repeating (explicitly or implicitly) White racist bullshit about Asian males being “pansy shrimps,” effeminate, or that Asian guys are somehow inferior to your Great White Hype based upon a laundry list of ludicrous generalizations like “Asian guys won’t introduce me to his parents.”

  Just remember, you don’t have to be White to promote White Supremacist bullshit.

  2. In fact, if there are people here that truly believe these stereotypes (and you know whom you are), at least have the guts to openly admit this fact. State that you are a believer in White Supremacy.

  Don’t dance around this issue. Don’t offer disingenuous alibis like “I’m not whitewashed!” Openly admit your “personal preference.”

  Many of these Oriental White Supremacists are playing a double game. On the one hand, they tacitly promote (or insinuate) White racist dogma about Asian males, yet on the other hand, they deny and dismiss any criticism of their racism.

  Note, for example, how many people have avoided calling out or challenging the White trolls in this thread who were spewing their racist vitriol. Their silence on this issue speaks (and reveals) much more about them than any of their denials or alibis.

  Embrace your Inner White Supremacist. That would be more honest.

  3. And in terms of interracial dating in general, don’t peddle this nonsense that “love is
  colorblind” or that racism has no impact on dating/intermarriage in the West. That is straight up White bullshit. The disparity in interracial marriages between Asian men and women is the clearest evidence that love ain’t colorbind–no matter what Hollywood and Disneyland tell you.

  People pushing this argument are trying to avoid the hard truth of what it means to an Asian minority–and probably attempting to alleviate their own guilty consciences as well.

  4. Finally, since I do not want this thread to contribute to the destructive and corrosive gender division between Asian men and women any more than already exists, let me state clearly:

  My criticisms are not directed to all Asian women. They are directed only against Oriental women or their allies. What’s the difference? The difference between Asian and Oriental is analogous to the difference between Black and Negro back in the 1960s.

  In both cases, the first category of person possesses a political and racial consciousness in OPPOSITION to (White) Mainstream society–while the latter type of person is sadly lacking in this understanding.

  Every sister ain’t a sister.

  And every brother ain’t a brother.

  But for those people who are down with their race and people, keep fighting the good fight.

• 211 C More // Oct 27, 2008 at 2:09 pm

  The thing is, the whole ‘I “just happen to be surrounded by white people” and that’s what I become attracted to’ excuse doesn’t hold water when the race is reversed.

  Take an average caucasian women and send her to Asia, say China in particular. She is now surrounded by Chinese people. Will she begin to date or be attracted to Chinese men? HIGHLY unlikely.

  Let’s take it a step further and say a caucasian expatriate girl is born and raised in China by her white parents, but she attends school surrounded by Chinese boys and girls. This girl will grow up and still instinctively seek a Caucasian man.

  The reverse is not true for asian women surrounded by caucasian people. Asian women appear to be the ONLY women who have no innate “loyalty” to their background or family and are the only women of any race to use excuses like “I can’t date him, he’s asian like my father, brother, etc.” You never hear other races use that flimsy excuse.

• 212 lester // Nov 3, 2008 at 4:52 am

  Even in Japan there is increasing number of mixed marriages. Its gotta happen as more foreigners immigrate to Japan
  http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/japan-becoming-a-more-mixed-society/

• 213 Let them eat cake // Nov 3, 2008 at 6:34 pm

  if asian women want to date and marry white men then so be it.
  who are they hurting? seriously?
  who cares if it’s based on love or racism?
  i’m an asian man. just don’t throw me in a concentration camp and i’ll be happy.
  i’m going to school and working hard.
  when i finally have a good career and money, great money, just you watch, i’m gonna date lots of hot asian women, blacks, latinas, whites, escimos, brazillians, itallians, mongolians, etc…
  if you are pro white men, then you are a racist.
  if you are for asian men, then you are a racist.
  if you are for love, then you are human.
  don’t hate. make money. get laid!

• 214 Asian guy // Nov 8, 2008 at 11:23 pm

  grew up in the west and i seem only attracted to white girls… their different colored hair and eyes are quite cool. though, i suspect that there isn’t enough hawt asian chicks around.

• 215 agaisn asian hunter // Nov 11, 2008 at 3:04 am

  I saw many white men who learn asian languages become rice chasers on campus. Not all of them but many of them deceive asian girls just for outlet for his sexual desire. The guy I know is deceiving many asian girls to make pay everything what he wants to buy. Sometimes, he asked her to pay his travel expense. He gets what he wants and he satisfies his sexual desire, too. I feel sorry for his victims in the past. This guy still be at ASU. This guy studies Chinese.
  I feel sorry for a girl at USC who is taiwanese and now she is his target. I think most of cocasion girls are not interested in him at all. So, he turned to be an asian hunter and deceive many asian girls. To me, these asian girls should have distinguished this guy is not a good guy. But they can not tell who is bad or good. I really feel sorry for them. After this guy graduates, he plans to go to either China, Taiwan or Korea.
  Watch out girls in these countries.

• 216 sophia // Nov 13, 2008 at 9:29 pm

  yeah! asian girls like white guys… if they’re fat and ugly, have no personality or shred of intelligence, and can’t be bothered to try and improve themselves because they think they’re ‘fabulous’ by virtue of being asian girls. the only guys who drool over you are losery white guys who can’t get laid. if white guys who think of you as submissive temporary sex dolls is your thing, then whatever floats your boat, honey. no white chick would touch that kind of trash with a 50 foot pole, so go ahead and eat our leftovers, bitch. just don’t be hating on the rest of us.

• 217 anonymous // Nov 14, 2008 at 1:47 am

  how about just falling in love?you’re all talking like you going shopping in an IKEA store,why is the white man+asian girl or other race…how about the attraction between two people,the chemistry no?

• 218 kalle // Nov 22, 2008 at 3:51 am

  You are generalizing too much. I think we have to take into account social strata within the “asian” or “white” or whatever populations and check who pairs with whom.

  I think the heavy skews towards AF-WM and BM-WF can to a large degree be explained by differences in (un)willingness to move up or down in social status: Most white females I see with black males (most, not all!) are from the lower social strata within white population, while the black guys dating them seem to have relatively higher social status within black population (money, fame, education,…). Similarly, most female asians interdating seem to come from relatively lower social status groups within asian population, while again the white guys dating them seem to come from relatively higher social status groups.

  I’m talking only circumstantial evidence here, based on my own observations, I’m not aware of a scientific study of this unfortunately.

  So the question I ask myself is more like why are asian males seemingly not willing to date or marry “down”? Because you will have to agree, it’s almost always the case that if you can’t find a partner, it’s not because there is absolutely nobody else in the world who would take you but because your standards or expectations are not met by those who would and those who meet them do not want you. So why do asian guys not want to date white or black females from relatively lower social strata (relative to their own status within their own population)? Something to do with their upbringing? Why do richer or higher-status black males actively seek white females? And why are black females not willing to date or marry “down” (relative to their status within their own population)?

  I think if you can find an answer to that, you will have a better answer than simply “white guys are this” or “black females are that”.

• 219 kalle // Nov 22, 2008 at 4:05 am

  oh, and one more observation: _when_ you see WF-AM bondings, esp. serious ones, it’s mostly the case that WF are from relatively higher social strata. This also accounts for relatively more incidences of WF-AM as you move up the educational ladder, from high- to grad school.

• 220 uru // Nov 22, 2008 at 5:08 am

  what irks me is that totally unattractive asian females who come over or meet a westerner will experience immediate push up on the attractiveness scale and act like they are a ten or nine when in fact, within their own group, they are maybe only a three or four at best. somehow, the white guys are not able to differentiate well enough to see what is attractive and what not. to them, it’s all the same. but asian guys, they are much more familiar with how white women look than white guys are about asian females, so they differentiate. end result: not so picky white guys picking up all the asian dregs, while picky asian guys refuse to date down. small wonder the numbers are so heavily skewed towards wm-af!!

• 221 Hapa Surfer in Long Beach // Nov 26, 2008 at 1:11 am

  Bob Marley was born to an English father and Jamaican mother. He was spit on and ridiculed throughout his childhood and called “half caste” by all the other people in his neighborhood. Because of his mixed race, he had no friends growing up.

  “I don’t have prejudice against meself. My father was a white and my mother was black. Them call me half-caste or whatever. Me don’t dip on nobody’s side. Me don’t dip on the black man’s side nor the white man’s side. Me dip on God’s side, the one who create me and cause me to come from black and white.”

  -Bob Marley

  Asian women need to stop hating Asian guys and vice versa. Self racism is still racism. Peace.

• 222 Justin // Dec 6, 2008 at 12:05 am

  I’m a white guy dating a Korean girl. I’m 26, she’s 23. I can honestly say I feel like the luckiest guy alive. She graduated from UCI last year and I’ve basically just started back up with college. She has a double major in Political Science and Psychology. I’m currently pursuing a Physician’s Assistant degree.

  I would easily say she is more intelligent than I am, but we are relatively close. We get along in an amazing fashion. We’ve only been dating for 3 months and she refuses to tell her parents about me. I hate that, but I can understand. She said about the only time a Korean girl will mention a boyfriend to her parents is if it becomes serious, something along the lines of engagement.

  Everyone should like whomever they are going to like and let others like whom they will like. No one should bash another in any fashion for their preference in the opposite sex.

• 223 ftyjurtj // Dec 8, 2008 at 10:33 am

  yes they are sexy ok (the hot ones)

  it makes u think about having … with them whereas others races dont give u that feeling

  lmao

• 224 Anonymous // Dec 10, 2008 at 9:34 am

  I typed bitch wrong Cracker bitches

• 225 Lan-Viet // Dec 14, 2008 at 3:20 am

  I’ll chime in; white guys are hot and asian guys are not. I would consider myself attractive and by no means ugly; however, I just find white men better looking and down to earth. My man looks damn hot in his dress blues, thank god for the United States Marines!!

• 226 Richard // Dec 18, 2008 at 5:20 pm

  Has anyone else noticed the two most viewed posts on this website are white guys and white girls which I think says something.

• 227 Ken // Dec 24, 2008 at 12:11 pm

  F*uck Crackers.

• 228 Adam // Dec 24, 2008 at 5:49 pm

  haha, some of this stuff is pretty true.
  my girlfriend is thai, she likes hellokitty, korean soap operas, some anime, she throws up the peace sign, pronounces words wrong, knows a couple languages, and is going out with me, a white guy, etc etc. there are even a bunch of hmong and japanese guys in our dorm who talk crap about us behind our back for going out with each other, even got a few chinese friends who dont like me now. so true sometimes…

• 229 Anonymous // Dec 30, 2008 at 10:36 am

  Lol, stuff asian people like huh? I don’t think this poster can speak on behalf of the millions of Asians out there. Your opinion is respected though.

  I’m N8tive/Black. Yes I do see a lot of Asian women with white guys. As well I see alot asian women with Black/Latin/N8tive Americans as well.In some cases asian women with a wide range of women too.

  I think that it’s safe to say that many of the Asian women that you see dating white guys may have grew up in a white area watching dawsons creek ect. Just like SOME Asian women that date Blacks/Latino/N8tives have a deep interest in Black/Latin/N8tive culture, others are interested moreso in the personality of the person they’re dating.

  I’ve dated three Asians up to this point in my life. All of whom are Japanese. Neither one of them looked at me as being a N8tive/Black man, but they looked at me as being a fair human being with good morals.

  I had a Navajo buddy that dated an Asian woman, but he didn’t like her all that much. He didn’t find Asians very attractive. He just dated her because his White buddies made them seem like it was a must have. Eventually he dumped her and returned to his beautiful Navajo gf. I’ve seen instances where Whites screw Asian women and throw them to the curb. Some of them deserved it. Dating somebody just because they’re White? Ugh…. . Who said they were intel.? Try again lil buddy!

  This summer I’ll be flying with my gf to her hometown of Osaka, Japan to spend time with her family and talk about our marriage arrangements. I think that if one looks at the race of a person trying to decide that persons worth, you’re crazy. Mostly because it shows your shallowness, ignorance, and close-mindedness. Hopefully you people in the east will someday understand. Until then, til’ our paths cross, have a good 1!

• 230 G // Jan 2, 2009 at 9:20 am

  Asian women are down to earth, that is why white men love them, they dont judge their men on how good they dance or what car they drive.like most other races do. They are respectfull and dont get impressed by some fool playing a loud radio or dressing like a THUG.Asian people in general are great people they are never looking for trouble and always have a low crime rate where they live I always feel safe in an asian area. Im italian american and most Little italys in the U.S. were boadered with chinatowns & they got along just fine. Hail Asia

• 231 Anonymous // Jan 2, 2009 at 12:03 pm

  Nah, all Asian women are not like that. Some of them are good and some are airheads. Everyone is their own person. Can’t just place all of them in the same boat.

• 232 this is true // Jan 4, 2009 at 2:33 pm

  I think the reason why most white guys are more successful than asian guys is cause they look more masculine, they have those features that make women go horny such as, height, good build, some body hair, engage in sports, confident and just that extra bit more stylish…..asian guys tend to be short, nerdy looking (a lot of them do), a bit feminine, have weird interests, antisocial, insecure and lack confidence to meet non asian women.

• 233 E // Jan 6, 2009 at 6:18 pm

  Im an asian guy here. And I have to say it can be a miserable fucking existence. The way the dating schematic is going, id say the whole asian race will be over in a couple of hundred years. Im in an asian country right now and some people consider me a “handsome guy”, calling me “suai guh, suai guh”. And I can get asian girls in asian countries. But I know thats BS because once I go back to the states I know Im fucked. They think we’re fucking ugly. And that whole status thing doesnt help either, even if you arent ugly, the whole low status in American society doesnt help out at all… I dont know about anyone else but if I cant date I dont see life worth living. Or Id just like to see the world just collapse.
  Im not going down the traditional self hate / frustration path, at least I hope Im not, that some Asian posters post. But I know whats coming… some people of asian descent will denounce this post, denounce me, deny the validity of this. Well fuck you. Part of the problem is we cant speak out fucking minds in the first place, its all about repression. Well, fuck repression. Maybe someone smarter than I will come up with a better way to deal.

  That Columbia University / Harvard report about interracial dating really got to me. And they say, social Darwinism says that a man who cant date is genetically dead, and will do anything he can, even put his own life at risk through violence to obtain it. I just want to see the world burn.

• 234 Raj from Singapore // Jan 7, 2009 at 10:15 pm

  Take an average caucasian women and send her to Asia, say China in particular. She is now surrounded by Chinese people. Will she begin to date or be attracted to Chinese men? HIGHLY unlikely.

  “Let’s take it a step further and say a caucasian expatriate girl is born and raised in China by her white parents, but she attends school surrounded by Chinese boys and girls. This girl will grow up and still instinctively seek a Caucasian man. ”

  That is because white girls are inherently racist and whiteness has its privileges.

• 235 G // Jan 8, 2009 at 7:10 pm

  You people are racist, love is between two people, I kissed an asian girl once and she said she felt like she was having an outer body experience. Asian women are juicy and sweet just like dear old MOM. The nerve of some of you men to talk about white males We know more about asia than most of you I been studying GODZILLA since I was 5yrs old and no one knows more about him than me.

• 236 中国人 // Jan 9, 2009 at 1:29 am

  哈哈章子怡很难看

• 237 lao // Jan 11, 2009 at 12:57 pm

  im a aisan girl,i prefer black and latino boys waaay over white men

• 238 lao // Jan 11, 2009 at 1:05 pm

  though there nothin wrong with asian or white boys at all to me…..G iz right luv is between 2 ppl.

• 239 Guy // Jan 14, 2009 at 3:17 am

  For all those people who believe in the stereotype of Asian men having small penises as the major reason for Asian women dating white men check out Hung Lo who is Chinese the first Asian male porn star in America at shelovesasiancock.com. He is endowed and does deliver with the white women he has sex with. I believe for many white people in America the thought of an Asian man having sex with a white women is so taboo, so unacceptable and so abnormal.

  Asian men have been neutered by the white media for so many years with the stereotype of being sexless, duds, having small dicks, unromantic, not good looking and can never be jocks. As the Asian population increases and more Asian men are involved in the entertainment field like actor John Cho, director Justin Lin and professional sports like Yao Ming in the NBA and Hung Lo in the porn industry more white women will date Asian men and the myth of a small penis is not related to a race but to an individual. Small penises can occur in White, Black, Hispanic, Native American, Asian and Middle Eastern men. Hung Lo has shown that you can’t judge a man’s size by his race…

• 240 anson // Jan 14, 2009 at 12:55 pm

  I think I have a serious problem. I’m a chinese american living in nyc and feel depressed,angry, and frustrated everytime I see an asian girl with a nonasian(mostly whites). Sure I’ve read all the reasons understand the sociological aspects and phenomens related to this pairing but lately I find it harder and harder not to resist breaking out into violent maybe even malicious actions. I don’t fall under any of the stereotypes associated with asian males I.e. strict upbringing with pressure on doing good, geeky, quiet, shy. Yet these times I have to fight off strong urges to grab the girl in the next asian girl/white guy couple by her hair and slit her throat with a boxcutter. I may not carry out the deed, but knowing that this deed will bring me satisfaction deeply disturbs me. Some while ago I deduce that there must be a guilty party and have convinced myself that it was the asian women who date white men to be blamed.

  It sounds depraved and pathetic but very serious as I don’t know how to figure myself or deprogram myself out of this.

  I also have assumed most of these women will end up in terrible relationships and if they don’t suffer, their children will, from the racism & bigotry in this world.

  This is like an extended postsecret entry. I don’t know what to do anymore.

• 241 anson // Jan 14, 2009 at 4:25 pm

  the guy above who mentioned that if i cant date I’ll die, said it best. its not about confidence and all this other bullshit and excuses. god knows how many personality changes & improvement I’ve done and learn; i even tried to be content(wtf?). where has this taken me, nowhere.

  fuck if it wasnt for those 2 recent asian guys that went serial in vtech and montreal. i wouldve carried out something on a similar scale on these asian american bitches. those guys showed me how stupid it is. i dont have anything worth living for anywy and im not stupid to just go and kill myself. i find that pathetic. i’d rather take my tormenters with me if i have to. the white guys’ll just be in the way

• 242 Kim // Jan 15, 2009 at 2:55 pm

  Guy the fact you even had to post a website about girls loving asian cock (for money)
  shows how desperate for white women you are, I find porn gross in itself. That website would have started cause of creeps like you who have some weird fetish for white women but can’t get any. From what I read in that columbia study it showed that asian men prefer white women over asian its just that they were not being accepted by them. You are a perfect example of one of those losers who hate seeing white men with asian women but want to see it the other way around.

• 243 1000101 // Jan 15, 2009 at 4:53 pm

  Oriental chicks like white guys because white guys tend to be TALL.

  The chinamen are always short little nerds, and NO woman, regardless of race, wants that.

• 244 Larp // Jan 15, 2009 at 5:02 pm

  I’m a white guy, and I exclusively date/fuck “asian” girls. Chinese, Korean, Thai, Filipina, Jap, whatever.

  Why?

  Because they’re easy. Especially the girls in college. It’s like these girls get to college and have a wild streak where they just have to be with a white guy and a black guy and a mexican guy just to try it out because they’re bored with the typical chinese nerd.

  Why my fraternity threw parties, ALL the girls from Alpha Phi Gamma (asian girl sorority) used to show up and get wild and hook up. It was awesome.

  Even after college, I like to be that guy that she has fun with before she moves on to a nerdy chinese guy to have a family. The best are the ones who DON’T want to introduce me to their parents.

• 245 Jinsic // Jan 15, 2009 at 10:05 pm

  Good for u whitey. Just stating the obvious as if we didn’t know that already. Weren’t u surprise they didn’t show up with chopsticks and rice and started massaging your back with some tiger balm? Lmao

  Abcs or similar will be like the same as all partying college students. Its the american dream. As for marrying some schmuck chinese guy. That’s not very likely. More than enough to go around. More likely if ever to marry a nonasian. Because they will ultimately consider asian males inferior by then. None of them will get that desperate and that’s the good ppart of it for us.

  To each his own I say.

• 246 中国人 // Jan 16, 2009 at 2:22 am

  i think here is all american people

  lol strange things i read

• 247 Josh // Jan 16, 2009 at 2:11 pm

  I am a white guy and I was married to a Japanese girl for 8 years. Human beings are human beings so that’s what happened to our marriage. But, I prefer asian girls over white girls because of the sophistication, loyalty,nurturing, the spunky personalities, I could go on. White girls in the U.S. have become lazy, self-absorbed, ignorant, and can’t cook for sh*&. Also it seems that white girls want to act like their lives are what they see on dumbass shows like the hills, and bad girls club, they want their lives to filled with rediculous drama. Whereas, asian girls live rich full lives. So, asian dudes, take my advice you want a white chick, go to europe, south america, australia, canada, or new zealand. American white girls suck!!!!!

• 248 joy // Jan 16, 2009 at 7:12 pm

  Remember God loves all of us. No matter who a person dates at the end God. Keep your eyes on God and these issues will sieze to exist.

• 249 Random White Guy // Jan 18, 2009 at 8:49 pm

  Yeah, I see a lot of white guys with Asian girls. But you know what I’ve noticed? It’s usually white guys who can’t get dates with white girls. Usually the guys are very geeky, the types that never get the time of day from white women. I don’t know if it’s that Asian girls are more accepting of geekiness, or easier to get along with than white girls (yes I said it), but whatever the case, it is what it is. I don’t usually see a lot of Asian guys with white girls, but I have seen it. You know what else I see a lot of? White girls with black guys. Occasionally I see a black girl with a white guy, but just like the disproportion of Asians / white men vs. women, there are usually a lot more couples where the guy is black and the girl is white. Is this a “penis size” issue? Maybe, if you automatically assume that all black guys are better endowed than white guys (and all white guys better than Asian guys). But I think it’s more than just that — for some women, sure, it might just be about perceived penis sizes — but for others, it’s about culture and acceptance. Black guys typically will date white women that white guys do not want. Asian women will typically date white guys that white girls do not want. Black guys may find white women to be easier to get along with than black women (not being racist here, these are actual things I have heard from black men). Just as white men generally find Asian women easier to get along with than white women (black guys think black girls are obnoxious and demanding, white guys think white girls are obnoxious and demanding). As for me, I am a white guy with a white girl, but I am not opposed to dating from any other ethnicity. I can see why so many white men are attracted to Asian women. I wouldn’t call it a “fetish” or anything like that, but I will say that Asian women tend to be petite, well-mannered, and very “cute”. There are many men like myself who prefer petite women (perhaps another reason why black men like white women better than black women, white women tend to be smaller than black women, and Asian women tend to be smaller than white women). But in the end, people like whatever people like. If Asian girls want to be with white guys, more power to them. If black guys want to be with white girls, more power to them. I don’t care. I don’t get angry when I see a white girl with a black guy, I just think, “good for them, I hope they’re happy together”. I like to think that we’ve moved on from all the prejudices and bigotry against interracial relationships and all of that. Sure, there will always be stereotypes and the occasional idiot who has some offensive comment or gets upset when they see two people from different ethnicities together. But really, if you think about it, we all came from the same part of the world in the beginning. Humanity has since spread apart and taken on different attributes depending on what part of the world they lived in, whether it was hot or cold, flat or mountainous, wet or dry, etc. And now, in the new global culture, and especially in the melting pot that is America, humanity is coming back together again. Hundreds of years from now, you probably will not even be able to tell one race from another, our species will be so intermixed that we will all be one race — the human race. I don’t think there is anything wrong with the mixing or with people preferring to be with people of a different race or culture. Our biologies, not our societies, should tell us who we should end up with and raise a family with. It’s just evolution.

• 250 Jinsic // Jan 23, 2009 at 7:18 am

  Really Darwin, if it were only as simple as that. It kind of pisses me off when certain types try to break it down into such simple matters as its because of one individual, its because of one cause when in reality its really much more.

  Why do you think african american keep asking for reparations?

• 251 White dude // Jan 23, 2009 at 10:48 am

  Could it just be that 70% of guys in America are white?

• 252 ken // Jan 27, 2009 at 7:35 pm

  White ppl are the devil! Go to National Stormfront.org or any white nationalist website and see how they view non-whites. They consider non-whites having no soul, dark-eyed and tainting their genetic pool. And all you Asian whores out there spitting out half-breds kids, go to hell.

• 253 to HAHA // Jan 30, 2009 at 2:56 am

  ‘And not to sound like a white power douche, but you just can’t beat the blue eyes.’

  It is too bad you don’t have enough self respect and respect for other whites to pass your blue eyes on to your children. Your children will be forever envious of you. And you are no longer white in the eyes of most whites because you don’t care to respect your own people.

  ‘All I can say is I walk around with my wife and people barley take notice.’

  Not true. White women and Asian men hate it. More and more whites are tired of their race being annihilated by race traitors like you.

• 254 Without_Me // Jan 30, 2009 at 3:51 am

  Wow, so much hate in this topic. I blame the writer because she didn’t really explain it thoroughly enough, but was still straight to the point. Now this stereo-type of Asian guys that don’t hold hand and make out is going to make it even harder, but it will come as a huge surprise as I like doing those along with wooing her with sweet nothings and with telling her “I love you” in a new way each day.

  Plus, why are some of you guys hating on each other, you see how women can easily manipulate us to become aggressive toward one another? haha just kidding. But really, when these kinds of discussions happen, Asian males and Caucasian females get angry, understand that these are not race preferences, but personal preferences and just because you are seeing it happen that it does not mean otherwise. Also, it makes us turn on each other. Blah blah that and blah blah this.

  I agree with random white guy, most of those white dudes are geeks and nerdy that can’t really get with a hot rocker/emo chick (my preference, most happen to be white chicks, so booya, kekeke).

  Plus, whoever your dream girl is, go after her with all your heart, don’t freak her out and become a stalker, learn what she likes and how you can improve to be with her.

  The best thing about this world we live in today is that we can tell somebody that we love them and not have the same feelings be returned, but you know what, that’s life, try again. Your dream girl (or guy) is still out there, even if the first one you wanted is taken, there is another one somewhere there. Don’t care about what others think, since others don’t do it that often.

  Without_Me - An Asian guy

• 255 Sasha // Feb 3, 2009 at 5:29 pm

  I don’t know why people here are trying to make this issue so complex, take an average white boy and an average asian boy and the white boy is way hotter so he has a better chance with asian girls than an asian boy has with white girls.

• 256 Yeefong // Feb 4, 2009 at 6:48 am

  pfft..white girls are too easy mate, even my rotweiler can pick one up. White chix are good fuck buddy but when it comes down to marriage I prefer asian. I am asian btw..and those asian chix who brag abt dating white guys blalala good for u sista..hahaha until he gives u aids and stds and half cast kids aren’t always cute. My cuzin had one and it looks weird…like from farken mars or somefin

• 257 Yeefongt // Feb 4, 2009 at 6:52 am

  oh btw, most of da azn chix who date white guys are often oversea students who are here on “student visa” and wana get a ozzie citizenship lolz well I live in aust..duno about the trash hole of the world aka America. Maybe the asians americans are soo eff up in da head..they think its cool to date someone white becaause…of their skin colour and not because of other more important aspects ex: personality, capability blalala peace out yo goodluck finding ur perfect partner (not the one the TV tell u so).

• 258 jen! // Feb 4, 2009 at 6:12 pm

  ^

  ahahah yeah australia has better looking people than usa (both asian and white) but us asians really hang around with one another more, but both races have great looking people.

  to me good looking people should date good looking people haha ^_^

• 259 Ash--white grl in an asian girls body // Feb 9, 2009 at 5:14 pm

  As an asian girl, i’ve tried to date white guys and they just aren’t my cup of tea. GREAT to oogle though!!!

  Perhaps it was the few i chose, but lemme tell ya not much going on up there. And while Asian guys won’t tell their parents until you’re practically living together, white guys don’t really give me that intellectual banter i love so much.

  P.S. i had no clue i was Asian until about 7th grade AWESOME!!

• 260 To sophia // Feb 12, 2009 at 6:50 pm

  I’m an asian guy and I prefer white women. One thing I noticed is that unlike asian women who date white (they have lower standards as long as theyre white), white women who date asian guys have higher standards (generally speaking).

  I think white women are the hottest race of women, but other women (asian, black, latina) are okay too.

• 261 WhiteGuywithanAsianFetish // Feb 12, 2009 at 8:02 pm

  I agree with most of this. I find this Article Very Interesting. I’ve had an Asian Fetish since 8th Grade. Now Im dating a Beautiful Hmong Girl this Year. I’ve noticed by hanging out with their friends that they are Very Quiet. I must admit I am getting used to Interracial dating. I have noticed their high voices .

  Lmao I have told me Parents but she Is waiting to tell hers, I totally understand. I know that we won’t be going on any dates or to any dances though. But that doesn’t matter to me. Right now I am just trying to get to know her.

• 262 WhiteGuywithanAsianFetish // Feb 12, 2009 at 8:07 pm

  Also, to Sophia, I am having a hard time on what you mean by standards. Just because a Person is White or Black or Latino, or because they Male or Female does not explain anything about how they are. So how could you say anything about Standards. I’ll admit I’ve seen Asian who I wouldn’t date, because they didn’t meet my “Standards”. Then there are White Females I wouldn’t date because they Didn’t Meet my “Standards”.

  Race should not determine your standards. You should Mature before you get into any of that.

• 263 To sophia // Feb 13, 2009 at 7:32 am

  To WhiteGuywithanAsianFetish:

  1. If race shouldn’t matter or determine your standards, why do you have such an Asian fetish and obsession of that particular race? Why not black? Latino? White? So obviously race does determine YOUR standards. Don’t tell me to mature when you’re one an the asian fetish. LOL, no Asian girl wants a guy with an asian fetish. It’s really creepy. They in general, want to be treated the same way as white women when it comes to dating. Tip for ya, don’t ever come up to an asian girl and say: “I love asian women.”
  2. Doesn’t change the fact that you see a lot of ugly white old guys with Asian girls. It seems that asian girls are too busy throwing themselves at any white guy that they actually DON’T have standards. Don’t get me wrong though, there are quite a few good looking couples, but most of the time, the asian girl is just happy the guy is white. And mostly vice versa, a lot of asian fetish white guys go for asian girls even if she looked like a 12 year old boy. White women actually don’t have an asian fetish, or at least, not as high as white guys, therefore, their standards for asian men are the same as any other guy, because race isn’t a factor like fetishists are, who give +100 points just for being asian or white.
  3. I think it’s good for both races. White guys love asian girls, and asian guys love white girls. Asian Americans are just as tall, assertive, and muscular as white guys (look it up, nutrition made Asians much taller than their parents), and we can get white girls. The rate is actually 33% of Asian American guys get married to white women, 41% of AA women are marriedto white men. I’m actually currently dating a white woman right now, and I couldn’t be happier.
  4. Race shouldn’t matter, but if you speak about preference and fetishism, then maybe you shouldn’t be the one to talk.

• 264 To Kim #242 // Feb 14, 2009 at 8:33 pm

  ****Guys, the fact you even had to post a website about girls loving asian cock (for money)****

  You do know that male porn actors get paid too, right? Now put that in your pipe and smoke it!

  The only reason most asian guys stick with asian women is because of pride and loyalty. After seeing Asian women denounce them and act as cum-dumpsters for white guys, they’re really starting to reconsider. Asian Americans are now bigger, taller, and more confident. They can easily get white women, and the 6 figure income and their master’s degrees don’t hurt either.

  Now Eat that! Asian guys, when you date your white woman, treat her like a princess, they deserve it. Just don’t spoil them, sometimes they need a little discipline

• 265 Anonymous // Feb 14, 2009 at 9:49 pm

  Guy who wrote the last comment it will never be close to even in interracial dating azn guys will ALWAYS be bottom of the table. There is so much data proving azn boys are least attractive but I suppose you will continue living in your deluded world where azn boys are “movin up”. just today when I was out I saw about 20 interracial couples with white guys who are boning their little azn princess, yet all the azn boys i saw were by themselves. Face the facts white guys will always be bigger taller more confident and always get the chicks both asian and white. Sorry but someone had to tell you the truth.

• 266 ^^To Anonymous // Feb 14, 2009 at 11:27 pm

  Awww, how cute, a white guy (or asian girl) trying to delude his/her mind by denying the obvious. It’s okay though, you don’t have to be jealous of us asian guys. Hahaha, just take a look at all the proof:

  1. Asian people are getting bigger and taller due to nutrition and higher standards of living. Guess what? The tallest man in the world is Asian - Bao Xishun. And the tallest man in the NBA, and all of sports - Yao Ming.

  Eat it.

  2. The penis size issue? Haha, you guys were wrong about our height, what makes you so sure you’re right about this one? Prepubescent boys you banged touring through Southeast Asia aren’t representative of the whole Asian demographic.

  3. White women are increasingly being interested in us Asian guys. We’re taller, bigger, confident, more Americanized, exotic, rich. You name it, we’ve got it. And dear god, I hope you don’t watch the Gosselin family, where the blonde wife even prefers her kids to look more Asian (LMAO)

  Oh, and just do a google search of these Asian stars:

  Lee Dong Wook
  Go Soo
  Joe Cheng
  Takeshi Kenishiro
  Kwon Sang Woo

  4. “Bottom of the table” of dating you say? LMAO… Sure, sure. Miss Universe 2005, Natalie Glebova (DAMN!! She is the hottest white woman I’ve ever seen!!) is married to an Asian guy. Yes, Miss Universe, one of the hottest women in the world, married to an Asian guy. Not to mention Al Gore’s Daughter and Jessica Rudd (Kevin Rudd’s Daughter) both married Asian guys.

  So “bottom of the table”? When all these quality and high-status women are marrying us? Don’t make me laugh my ass off!!! Hahaha

  And good luck with banging those self loathing Asian girl cum-dumpster sluts.

  ***Whatever you call it, there’s plenty of literature out there telling white men that we slant-eyed princesses are the exotic, submissive, and hypersexualized women of their dreams.****

  The author even says this, LMAO!!! So she’s admitting to being a cumdumpster of white men. And who respects that? Absolutely no one. So really, it’s Asian women who are at the bottom of “the table” and there’s really nothing to brag about.

  So really, be happen with your self loathing Asian cum dumpster, while we go get quality white women like Natalie Glebova who enjoy our sexy bodies, exotic looks, intelligence, and six figure incomes. Good luck!

• 267 Depp // Feb 15, 2009 at 1:30 pm

  Due to all the fakers online especially the kind this site draws in we need a hall of shame like they have on asiafinest. To the guys on here yes there are some white girls who do like asian guys but I want to post something by jareth chong about the subject. In this instance someone on asiafinest posed as a white girl by stealing some girls myspace pictures.

  “Let me try to explain AS CLEARLY AS POSSIBLE:

  The girl you see in the pictures–her name is NOT Renae. The REAL name of the girl in those picture is JESSICA. The pictures belong to JESSICA (i.e., refer to the first post in this thread.) Now, JESSICA (whose pictures were stolen and being used in here and at MySpace) is a COMPLETE stranger to this place. Most likely, JESSICA does NOT care for or about Asian men or anything Asian. Someone stole JESSICA’s pictures, use those pictures as his/her own, and then call herself/himself “Renae”–in here and at MySpace.

  In here, we have “PureXtasy” who stole Jessica’s pictures and call herself “Renae” (i.e., her banner used to identify herself as “Renae”.) At MySpace, we coincidentally have another Renae, who also stole Jessica’s pictures. Both Renae’s (in here and at MySpace) happen to be into Asian men; both Renae’s happen to have stolen JESSICA’s pictures. Now, use some common sense, and you should realize that BOTH Renae’s (in here and at MySpace) are the SAME person–the SAME person who stole Jessica’s picture, the SAME person who have pretended to be a white chick who is into Asian men. PureXtasy (in here) and Renae (at MySpace) are the same FAKER.

  QUOTE(Tami @ Jun 28 2005, 08:42 AM)
  …a myspace group for white women who like Asian men ( http://groups.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseac…=20050628074029 )

  There are all sorts of online groups out there. Do you know there are online groups for people who have a fetish to roleplay as household furniture? Those weirdos just like to stay still at one spot and do not move for a few hours at a time to pretend that they are household furniture (like coffee table or sofa couch.) They think that is a turn-on. There are all sorts of niche online groups: there are groups for people who want to marry their pets; there are groups for people who talk to their plants; there are groups for people who think they are reincarnations of historical figures.

  As you can imagine, there are not that many people who are into those weird $hits. However, there are enough of them to get together and form a presence and start a group online. I am not saying that a group like “White Women who are into Asian Men” is a niche group like “People who get turned on roleplaying as furnuture” or “People who want to marry their pets.” However, let face the fact: “White women who are into Asian men” is not something that is even remotely mainstream (like “Asian women who are into White men”, “White women who are into Black Men”, or “White women who are into Latin men”.) So, when you see a hot white chick coming in an Asian forum and flirting and teasing Asian guys, you should keep a clear head and be VERY suspicious of her.

  I personally don’t have too much faith in those “White women who are into Asian guys” groups or whatever. Let me tell you a couple true stories: A few years ago, in another Asian forum, a bunch of frustrated Asian dudes started some online group. Those dudes were talking about doing it for some time, and then they finally did it. To me, it was obvious that they were hoping to use that group as a front to hook up with White girls, something they were not able to do in real life, which was fine: people do what people’ve gotta do. So I headed over to that new group they started to check it out. I saw that the group founders were “white women”! Those darn Asian dudes pretended to be white women and started a group for “White women who are into Asian men” to try to get other white women to join!! What is THAT about?!?

  The second true story: there was another (porn) site of a now-quite-well-known Asian man having sex with white women and taking a lot of pictures of it. A lot of Asian guys in here probably know about that guy and his website. Anyway, on his website, he would brag about how he, as an Asian guy, was being a stud, picking up white chics left and right, taking them home and baging them. He would take pictures of the sex and post them online. Well, I knew those chicks. Those chicks were PROFESSIONALS who worked in the PORN business. I recognized those chicks because I knew people who actually worked in the porn business. That Asian dude PAID those chicks to have sex with him. He is definitely NOT a stud. (Sorry to pop your bubble if you wanted to believe he was a real stud.)

  So, I have a realistic attitude about all those websites and groups that proclaim the “sexiness” of Asian men or how Asian men are in demand. I know better. There is A LOT of smokescreens and deceptions going on in those places, and the ego and pride (AND denial) of Asian men play a huge factor in it.

  Sorry for being so despicably honest.”

• 268 ^^^To bitterwhitemale // Feb 15, 2009 at 4:35 pm

  And your point in all of this? Nothing! Still doesn’t change the fact that 33% of American born Asian males marry Caucasian women, compared to 41% of Asian females (US census 2006). Still doesn’t change the fact that we ARE hooking up with hot, high status white women such as Miss Universe Natalie Glebova, Andrea Lowell (Playboy model), Julia Stegner (Victoria’s Secret model), et cetera et cetera.

  It’s okay, you can quit deluding yourself otherwise by saying that Asian guys are faking to be white women and joining a couple groups on the internet. Just know that somewhere out there, 33% of Asian American guys are banging their white wives, while right now, an Asian guy is banging Ms. Universe 2005 and a playboy model. It’s okay, don’t let that huge vein in your forehead burst.

  You can make excuses to say that Asian guys are faking to be white women on the net all you’d like, but if you look in these groups themselves (facebook, myspace, etc,) the pics don’t lie, with lots of really intimate pictures between an Asian guy and a white woman

  1. The tallest men in the world are Asian guys (Wouldn’t be surprised if the biggest p*nis belonged to an Asian guy either)

  2. On average, Asian men make the most money and are very picky with their women (social status and security) explaining the reason why we see Asian guys with the hottest and high status women.

  3. Face it, it’s okay, you want to be an Asian guy, I understand. We’re gonna rule the world in the next 50 years as China, the sleeping Giant, is waking up. JFK predicted this and it’ll happen.

  Now put that in your pipe and SMOKE it!

• 269 Mason // Feb 16, 2009 at 3:45 pm

  I know they say the thing about Asian men’s privates, and it might be true for some, as it is for White and Hispanic men, but it is only because the Asian vagina is shaped like this — sideways, and it just works better. White men have the same average size as Asian men, so it works out. I’m a White man who has had too many Asian women to count, and everytime, they ask me to do it sideways, and you just get tired of it. Give me a good ole white gal any day.
  And yes, it is true also: they think they are gonna turn white when I cum in them. I’ve never met any person who were more ashamed to walk outside without a white person. When you yell chink or gook at them, they are pretty much saying–yes, I hate me too.

• 270 maplestory ftw // Feb 18, 2009 at 9:55 am

  maplestory ftw

  im addicted now

• 271 Jinsic // Feb 19, 2009 at 10:26 am

  this is funny. now its hard to tell which post is real, and which are fake. too much like the Chinese BBS

• 272 Tony // Feb 27, 2009 at 5:48 pm

  I have only known one “White-washed” Asian girl who dates White exclusively. She was good looking but that was pretty much it. She didn’t want kids, was kind of laid back, and lazy. I’d call her to go hang out at 11:45am and she’d still be sleeping. If she was impressive both academically and physically, I would’ve pursued her with all my time and resources but she just wasn’t the type of girl I’d bring home to mom and sisters. Maybe she just didn’t want to hook up with an Asian guy because she wouldn’t want to be judged by an Asian guy’s parents and his financially successful sisters whereas if she hooked up with a White guy, she might not be judged as much.

  I think she might even be a golddigger looking for a easy way out. She didn’t like the fact that I addressed her as “babe” one time. She said, “I’m nobody’s baby”. She has an independent attitude but says that she “wanted a guy that knows what he’s doing with his life”. So she doesn’t want kids, wants to travel the world, expects a guy to take care of her, and calls herself an independent woman? That just bothers me. I can’t help but wonder if most Asian women who date White have this kind of attributes.

• 273 The Accomplice // Mar 5, 2009 at 1:52 pm

  Lol Man, these posts here are pure entertainment. The majority of you are very superficial, closed-minded and selfish.

  You guys crack me up!

• 274 Will // Mar 9, 2009 at 1:14 am

  Here’s why Asian girls go with White guys. It’s because Asian guys are extremely picky and they stay single for a long time. A tall good looking Asian guy with good income will definitely be picky. He’s aware of his own self-worth and he might as well be a player. A tall good looking Asian guy that has NO money is gonna be picky. A short ugly Asian guy but does HAVE money is gonna be picky.

  High maintenanced Asian girls are picky as well. I’ve seen Chinese/Taiwanese girls ride through their 20s until they find a guy regardless of race who has the income that can support their lifestyle. They’ll spend their 20s shopping around until they hit the jackpot and if they don’t by their 30s, no Asian guy would want her anymore because now she’s old and she might even have been used and dumped by non-Asian guys who played her to get into her pants. The circle of life.

• 275 Max // Mar 11, 2009 at 2:21 pm

  After reading through these posts, I can see that most of those posting got completely off subject. However, the way people really feel did seem to come out. The real issue here isn’t Asian / White relations. It is Man /Woman relations. Do you notice how many woman that have posted in this forum have made comments that a man needs to be some certain minimum height? Such as a man must need to be at least 5′ 8″ tall. Yet those same women use unsavory words to describe the man who only wants to date a woman of a certain minimum smallness. Such as she must be a size 2 or smaller. There lies the true double standard amongst the people in this blog. Women feel it is OK for them to define the characteristics that a man must have, but if a man defines the characteristics that a woman must have, that makes us shallow, and we “need to get a life” or we “need to grow up”.

• 276 Chinese Girl // Mar 11, 2009 at 6:06 pm

  Name says it all, chinese girl, living in Canada. I prefer white guys and have only really considered white guys because they’re usually funny, outgoing, and more aggressive in general. They stick up for you and defend you more often and their legs aren’t thinner than mine. They’re also more willing to pay for things and less stingy. They show a lot more interest in your culture/background and show more affection.

• 277 Asians are Marrying More Asians // Mar 11, 2009 at 11:09 pm

  Quote from the article:

  “Although interracial marriages overall have increased, the rate of Hispanics and Asians marrying partners of other races declined in the past two decades. ”

  and

  “The number of native- and foreign-born people marrying outside their race fell from 27 to 20 percent for Hispanics and 42 to 33 percent for Asians from 1990 to 2000″

  http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/03/07/AR2009030701841.html

  Comments?

• 278 Anonymous // Mar 13, 2009 at 4:13 am

  Haha yea im so sick of all these wgwag
  (white guys with asian girls)

• 279 Dude // Mar 15, 2009 at 12:56 am

  LOL Chinese girl, what a dumb little bimbo you are. As for aggressiveness, that isn’t a racial trait. Anyone can be aggressive. Also, as for being interested in Asian culture, white guys are more into Asian culture than Asian dudes are? Gimme a break little bimbo, you’re just a whitewashed girl

• 280 binni3 // Mar 15, 2009 at 5:08 am

  i imagine chinese girl to look like margaret cho, ive noticed that its always the big moon headed, stumpy round bitches that are the first to white worship and put down the asian man because she was rejected by other asians, she absolutely doesnt fit the asian standard of beauty thats displayed in asian media and that makes her ANGRY…

• 281 That Dude! // Mar 17, 2009 at 9:31 pm

  Asian women need to read “White Mans Burden” by Rudyard Kipling. Its about how colonial minded white people view non-Whites, specifically S.E. Asians, as racially inferior and how its white peoples right to rape and pillage Asians and their land. They call Asians “Half-Devils.” It was written in the 1800’s. Please read it.

  Also watch the movie “Rabbit Proof Fence.” Its a true story about how “white” government tried to get rid of non-white by “breeding them out of existence,” meaning: white people had a right to rape non-white women.

• 282 GOD // Mar 17, 2009 at 9:37 pm

  When the war between Asians and Whites begin, which side will you choose?

• 283 Billy 'Redneck" Bob // Mar 17, 2009 at 11:28 pm

  Is that really you GOD??? This is probably the one and only intelligent comment on this topic… bar mine, Peace be With You LoL

• 284 JESUS // Mar 18, 2009 at 11:16 pm

  Dear God,

  I will choose the Asians

  Regards.

• 285 Jodi // Mar 19, 2009 at 2:26 am

  I lost track of all the arguments made bhy previous posters. I am as white a chick as you’ll ever find: born and raised in Georgia with unbroken bloodlines back through England and (unfortunately) France. I’ve ALWAYS been attracted to Asian men, as has my best friend, another whiter than white girl.
  My husband is Filipino, his children are mixed and absolutely beautiful. His stepson is also mixed (white and Vietnamese) and about the handsomest guy around. Not as handsome as my husband, though.
  I know plenty of white women who find Asian men desirable, sexy and attractive. We just never thought we’d have a chance to find one who’d give us the time of day. I find specimens in all colors of men attractive, but am especially drawn to Asian men. I even play the Onimusha games just because Takeshi Kineshiro is HOTTT! We watch a lot of Asian movies and my husband always gives me a “Hot Asian Guy” alert whenever any Asian men are on the television or in a movie. So don’t think there aren’t white girls who are into Asian men. We’re all around. You just have to let us know you wouldn’t mind us approaching you.

• 286 Jinsic // Mar 19, 2009 at 5:45 am

  I’m pretty sure some of these posts are made to rile ppl up; very likely by the so-called asian females/white male.

  Most recently the ‘chinese girl’ in 276 is probably fake. That living in a cave-like mentality should’ve gotten her a darwin award already. Or she’s a divorced single asian mother who hasnt woken up to face reality.

  And to the dude above who say all denominators of asian guys are picky. Speak for yourself I’m fking desperate.

  I think more asian guys should get into David Deangelo stuff & the like to improve their appeal toward all women. White guys invented that stuff, use it on asianamerican women and, surprise!!! it works on them. Especially the ‘independant’ asian american women whose mentality doesn’t stretch too far from the typical white women.

• 287 To Jinsic // Mar 20, 2009 at 8:57 pm

  Im pretty sure most of the posts on here are fake especially those claiming to be women e.g jodi, chinese girl etc, if you think it through most normal women dont go on these websites (granted their are some weidos about), its usually the domain of bitter asian guys and white guys trying to get a rise out of it.

  I do have a question for people who post all the stats, some guy above wrote 33% of American born Asian males marry Caucasian women, compared to 41% of Asian females. Where the hell are all those asian guys with white girls? If it was 33% to 41% this whole white guy with asian girl thing would not even be a big deal. Its only 8% difference. I could swear when I go out sometimes i see around 50 white guys with asian girls and almost never the other way. But according to those stats it shouldn’t be uncommon to see the opposite, can anyone explain this?

• 288 Jun-Chan // Mar 20, 2009 at 9:14 pm

  Many modern East-Asian cultures favours androgynous looking guys (I.e. guys with soft and rather feminine looking pretty faces), and there are lots of them there perhaps due to sexual-selection by the women. They also seem to age at a much slower rate relative to other people. Search up popular artists such as Flumpool, Miyavi, Fahrenheit, Jae Joon, Lee Joon Ki, etc..on google or youtube…and yes they are all men and East-Asian girls go crazy for them.

  Some examples are:
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aj_lF5ZT8gU

  And they have super-hot hairstyles.

  In contrast, the more westernised East Asians born in non modern East-Asian cultures however tend to go for those big bulky macho hairy hyper-masculine men, like those white guys in Hollywood or Bollywood.

• 289 Malley // Mar 21, 2009 at 12:57 am

  The issue at hand is self esteem. Most oriental women the exception being Japaneese have low self esteem and they feel that in order to become beautiful is to become white. The only whites that have a tendency to mix with asians are anglo-saxon whites. All other whites are disgusted and have racist attitudes towards asians. Where I live in Canada it’s not uncommon to see asian women with white men but in french canada it is not going to happen and asian women have been known to complain about this because white men in french canada have a tendency to date black women if not one of their own. So this shows to prove you that asian women have low self esteem.

• 290 Anonymous // Mar 22, 2009 at 12:34 am

  To Jinsic:

  You want to know why there seems to be such a disparity? Take a look at the banner above this post that says “Find Your Thai Beauty Today!”

  Then, do a quick google search for “Asian internet brides” and “Thai Brides” and see what comes up. Literally, MILLIONS of hits like this one:

  http://1000asiabrides.com/

  It’s not only on the internet. You go to SE Asia, and you will see the brick and mortar “dating services” that cater to mostly white guys from Europe and the U.S. that go there to find the women in person. And these business are THRIVING.

  Go ahead, and do a little bit of research. We are talking about women in the hundreds of thousands who have been brought to the U.S. just in the last few years alone.

  Or, you can conduct a little research on your own. Next time you see an af/wm couple, or an Asian woman with happa babies, I guarantee you, that a significant number of times, the woman will have a pretty thick accent.

  Remove these women from the equation, and I think you’ll see that the disparity won’t be that great.

  Again, seriously, do some research and you’ll see what I’m talking about.

• 291 C // Mar 22, 2009 at 8:45 am

  Dont worry. one day i will set up agencies in eastern europe that caters to rich asian men. Romanian brides, czech brides, russian brides. Muahahahas. And dont forget the asians on white girls bdsm plan i have in mind. Asia is becoming richer and more powerful and i see it possible. btw When it comes to bdsm nobody does it better than the japanese. What u dare do upon us we dare do upon u.

• 292 c // Mar 23, 2009 at 12:24 am

  Wad a douche delete my comments… fear me???hahas
  Russell Peters: your mother is so fat that when she jump for joy she got stuck
  Me: white boys, my penis is so small that when it sneaks into your wifes *hole* you dont even know what hit u
  LOL

• 293 c // Mar 23, 2009 at 12:30 am

  One day when i have power i will enslave all your white girls, tie them up and circumsize them. The day will come when even my small penis will make them bleed and scream in pain. Ever heard of labia reduction surgery??? like they say what u dont have naturally u can make it up with technology. muahahahas

• 294 c // Mar 23, 2009 at 12:32 am

  That day will come when we dont even need a hung lo to satisfy u. U reduce ur *hole* for us. Dont do it? we will force u. hahas

• 295 Heat Moon // Mar 24, 2009 at 4:09 pm

  ‘c’ has enough bitterness in him to feed a fascist army. i was enjoying all the posts up until now. presently, i’ll go take a warm shower and try to forget that nasty bit about enslaving white girls and circumsizing them

• 296 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 25, 2009 at 10:28 pm

  I’m white, I’m male, I’m straight and I like Asian chicks no ifs, buts or maybes. Why???
  Well it’s not rocket science. It’s not because I can’t get white chicks. It’s not because I have some deluded stereotype mindset. It’s not because I have a fetish. It’s EXACTLY the same reason I prefer being heterosexual than homosexual, yet no-one in this politically correct world interrogates me about THIS choice. It’s SIMPLY because I DO. I’ll even DUMB IT DOWN for those that cannot quite grasp this simple fact. It’s an extension of my sexuality… I choose to have sexual relations with women, NOT men… I just prefer asian chicks over white chicks! It’s amusing if not a tad boring that people seem fascinated discussing this simple choice to the nth degree! We don’t go on and on about why some guys choose to be homos, while others choose to be straight. Did ANYONE ever consider that it MAY NOT be a CHOICE????

• 297 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 25, 2009 at 10:32 pm

  And, by the way, Asian chicks are generally far hotter than white chicks!!! GOD, thankyou making Asian chicks!!!

• 298 HAHAHA..! // Mar 25, 2009 at 10:59 pm

  I’m sorry.., but most of the kids I seen that are asian/white are ugly as hell… Their families even make fun of them… I hope mine doesn’t turn out that way…

• 299 HAHAHA..! // Mar 25, 2009 at 11:04 pm

  Oh… and good luck with the Asian girls… (asian girls are a bunch of psycho..! ) rather have white girl… they’re more freaky in bed…

• 300 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 26, 2009 at 1:53 am

  Well Mr HAHAHA, I hope that I don’t make any of those horrible ugly little EURASION rug rat critters then!!! Love the comment on white chicks being more freaky in bed… I WOULD NOT know!!! Maybe I’m just attracted to psychos LOL

• 301 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 26, 2009 at 2:02 am

  Oh… just an afterthought… are there any educated asian chicks out there that have an opinion on Mr HAHA’s comment about YOU ALL being psycho??? Or… less freaky regards the mattress mambo???

• 302 HapAvenger // Mar 26, 2009 at 11:37 am

  How many people who commented would openly state publicly what you said on this site? The disconcerting thing is that if you met the people who made these comments, you would never know it. If you hold such strong convictions about race relations concerning the Asian community, go ahead and publicly voice your opinion. If you hesitate, perhaps it is due to the fact that your opinion has faults. The reason why stereotypes continue is because in some way they reinforce what is politically correct.

• 303 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 26, 2009 at 4:01 pm

  I can’t speak for everyone on this site, but I generally make a point of challenging anyone publicly if I am ever confronted with what I consider ill informed, ignorant or racist comments regarding the asian community. Anyone in the US of A ever hear of the political candidate ‘Pauline Hanson?’ Well, there are a lot of Australians in SE Queensland that have racist views about the asian community based on ’stereotypes’. So, though stereotypes my have certain positive aspects, they certainly fuel rascist attitudes and discriminatory behaviour, primarily based on IGNORANCE! Really, what’s the big deal with white guys dating/marrying asian chicks and vice versa? All that really matters is that we treat others as we would like to be treated ourselves… with RESPECT, irrespective of who likes what…zzzzzzzzzzzz

• 304 HAHAHA..! // Mar 27, 2009 at 2:26 am

  Well said…ZzzzzZ…

• 305 artsy asian camcorder // Mar 27, 2009 at 8:15 pm

  i’m asian… i asked an asian girl out once… she said she only dated white guys because they have confidence in asking a girl out, unlike the asians… yeah… she said that to an asian guy who just asked her out

  i think a lot of people on here are fake… like post 244 which actually got my attention… and made me a bit upset.. think he is living in a sexual fantasy or something

• 306 Anonymous // Mar 28, 2009 at 9:36 pm

  305) yeah, the guy sounds totally fake. it’s probably a white guy and his fantasy like you say. Or someone who’s trying to make white guys look bad. Both pretty pathetic.

  Most guys/girls who join Asian frats/sororities do so cuz they want to support Asian/Asian American culture, history, awareness, etc. And they like hanging out with and dating other Asians.

  The Asian girls who are into white guys join white sororities.

• 307 jinsic // Mar 31, 2009 at 2:22 pm

  To Hapavenger

  You know what? I would. I would openly, publicly take on any idiot with a baseless argument against why this disparity exists.

  And Linda Chen, I have looked in the eyes of women who walk around with non-asians and they do look away, majority of them. They pretend that they are in their own world, they are.

  Though theres a small percentage of asian women who date non-asians that fall out of this loop, majority who do it are:

  -pompous, and look down on asian males
  -racially self-loathing
  -adopted
  -had some bad relationships prior with asian men and assume thus
  -undersexed and believe that whites have higher libidos and can meet their needs
  -mentality believe that sleeping around with whites is their guilty pleasure(no gossip, no one knows etc)

  (read those again, and stop lying to yourself, if you 100% that not even a little of those bit are the reasons subconscious or not, then congratulations, you fall in the small group of decent people)

  but why disturbed their otherwise ‘perfect’ world. Let them figure it out for themselves if they ever will. We all have our good and bad experiences. If you ****up in life for the wrong reasons.. live with it. Dont wave your self-righteous flag for the wrong reasons, trying to get back at an ex, pissing other ppl off. assuming you’re superior to the opposite sex of your own race.

  I already mentioned I’ve seen plenty of mix-relationships gone wrong.

  And ugly mixed kids dont get mention much, but they do exist.

  Good riddance to you who blindly believe that being with white males is great and end up with a ****ed up life later on single and old and only as a sex object.

  Good luck to those who succeed in a beautiful reltionship thus.

  btw, this is from my experience in nyc.

  dont know how valid it is for the rest of the world.

• 308 Heat moon sucks // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:22 am

  I suck. I havent bathed for a year. Now Im gonna take a shower cos my vagina stinks.

• 309 Heat moon // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:25 am

  To c: I wanna feed ur facist army with my juice… May I?

• 310 c // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:26 am

  No!!! ur cunt stinks… Go to hell!

• 311 c // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:36 am

  I love white girls and I love my asian mummies even more. But not u heat moon. ur cunt stinks. Go to hell. AND Fuck all that white trash with the pale soft dick as well!! Obama will hunt u DOWN, With the African Invasion.

• 312 maplestory ftw // Apr 8, 2009 at 2:54 am

  “When the war between Asians and Whites begin, which side will you choose?”

  haha

  asians for sure

  it’s like your parents, even if you had a very bad fight with them..in the end still ur parents

  even if some people hate their race (for wateva reason) they can’t change their blood unless they commit suicide so they dont have to be their race

  just a loyal issue and personality thing

• 313 maplestory ftw // Apr 8, 2009 at 2:56 am

  imo when ppl start to grasp the above concepts that’s when they are truly mature

• 314 stereomanic // Apr 8, 2009 at 7:25 pm

  i’m all for the white girls for the asian men..i think chinese would rule the world, one race at a time…soon we all will have squinty eyes and love anime…E

• 315 Quiet Asian Man // Apr 8, 2009 at 10:52 pm

  There are definitely a lot of trolls here.

  This discussion is done to death, and it looks like so many in here are still toiling in bitterness.

  Please get rid of your ‘bitter asian man’ syndrome you fools.

  The propensity for out-marriage for Asian men (i.e. Asian male/white female pairings) varies from one part of the world to another. Even within the same country, it varies from city to city. I just wanted to point that out.

• 316 wow. // Apr 12, 2009 at 12:39 am

  I have an issue with happa babies being considered the greatest thing next to sliced bread because white bread is their father.
  1. First, I’m sorry, but happa babies are not the cutest things in the world… maybe to their parents because they have to love them, but not in general. I live in an area where you see a lot of Asian/white pairing… my university is 40% Asian (mostly Asian women to white men) and out of all the happa babies I see less than 10% are super cute. Honestly, some kids are pretty weird looking… we always point them out… not Asian but not white either with a really weird combination of features. So yeah, I guess you can make that a justification for a relationship but most people won’t buy it.

  2. Second, the emphasis on “cute” happa babies as a bright note in an Asian/White paring super bothers me because its SO implied that non mixed Asian babies aren’t as cute, and that the reason for their genetic progress is due to the mixture with white blood. MESSED UP. This emphasized by the very Asian women whose people it undermines. HAVE SOME SELF-WORTH. Maybe there are reasons to due the strict patriarchal tendencies in your culture that you date white me, but there is NO REASON for such obvious and detestable self-hate being expressed through the categorization of happa babes.

  Lastly, Asian and white parents sometimes gloat over their kids as some exotic achievements… but from what I’ve seen sometimes it’s really hard for these kids to be accepted… white people think they’re Asian and Asian don’t think they’re really Asian … so they’re somewhere in the middle.

  I just think the whole happa kids are AWESOME justification is absurd and people who make it shouldn’t assume everyone is as dellusional as them.

• 317 Zaca // Apr 20, 2009 at 11:30 pm

  Besides being super-nice and smart(generally speaking), Asian women also age extremely well. It’s great to feel like you’re always going to find your partner sexy. Asian women are incredibly attractive for plenty of reasons but many older Asian women have the bodies of teenagers!

• 318 Zero // Apr 26, 2009 at 5:39 pm

  I prefer asian girls because their proportions are more petite. I’m under the 5′5 mark, so asian girls are in my range of height. Girls of different ethnicity are fine too. I don’t mind a tall glass of sparkling water though. That’s the problem with stereotypes. Date or marry whoever you want. The heart is what matters. Besides, this world is filled with billions of people to choose from. Buffet style, first course, Japanese

• 319 August // May 7, 2009 at 10:11 pm

  Where to begin…

  1) Pointing out the many prejudices and stereotypes of interracial dating, among other things, is seemingly futile; pessimism put aside, there is simply no reasoning with closed-minded people.

  2) Freud and psycho-analysis also put aside, it feels like there is a strong sense of entitlement with people passing their opinions off as a matter of fact. Perhaps we should be loyal to our race, or to our county, or some other equally questionable assertion. But perhaps we should pay more attention to why such criticisms are even being spoken; is there an agenda behind the unsolicited value judgments?

  3) Irrespective of what I say, prejudice and unfounded opinions are abound and will persist. But if people could move past their impulse to interject on the private lives and choices made by others, it would be a beautiful world to wake up in and discover love and happiness are-or at least should be–more important than nitpicking over the dating habits of and between the races.

  4) Notwithstanding, I met the love of my life simply attempting to learn to speak a different language. Somewhere between sharing our time together and experiencing a mutual interest to learn more about the other’s culture, history, etc., we grew an appreciation of all that made us different; but more importantly, we grew a greater appreciation for all that made us not so different. Beyond the empirical tangibles that we often use as criteria to judge others by, sometimes the essence of what is lost is that deep down, we’re all human seeking to love, learn, grow, understand, etc. Those who emphasize the racial dynamic as somehow being essential or even a factor for who and why we date, it would appear race only matters because these very same people find it–or perhaps make it–difficult to see anything beyond the tangible.

• 320 Joey // May 8, 2009 at 12:01 pm

  I also am a Hapa, of a white dad and Japanese mom, and I rarely find myself attracted to Asian men. I have very little dating experience, but I just don’t find Asian men as attractive. There isn’t a feature that I can point out.

  My reasoning:
  Part of this is probably cultural…we rarely see Asian “studs” on TV.
  I grew up thinking Asians were white until the eighth grade.
  I grew up in white communities and had little interaction with ANY Asians.
  My mom was very bitter, and seemed to hate her Asianness, having refused to teach me Japanese, having had double-eyelid surgery, and not sharing any cultural information with me before she died.

  I think the latter is the most pertinent to me; I was taught that being Asian wasn’t something to be proud of and that I should assimilate to be white. I never had positive Asian role models and I feel disconnected to the culture often.

• 321 justin // May 13, 2009 at 3:30 pm

  Im a handsome tall cauasian male myself and happen to also date a beautiful Chinese American but what I dont understand is that why so many of my white guys are selling themselves kind of short by the dating the unattractive asians girls and making us white males look kind of cheap like we’ll take anything we can get

• 322 hgjgdjn // May 14, 2009 at 11:43 am

  justin u so funny

• 323 louis // May 14, 2009 at 4:04 pm

  I am a gay black man. I like white boys a lot. They could be like Justin Timberlake, Bradd Pitt, Adam Lambert, or Orlando Bloom. At first I thought that Asian boys were ugly, but now I have plenty of Asians boys in my class and they are very good looking. When I was in High School there was only two Asian guys in the whole school. One was ugly the other was very handsome. In my first class, I saw a Asian boy who was extremeley good looking. He was Asian in behavior but black in his behavior. I now see this Asian boy in my class who is cute. He is very quiet so I stare at him. I have 2 cute Asoan boys in the class I just came from. Asians men tend to be very smart.

  I see many white guys boasting about being white in this blog like it is all that. Don’t get me wrong I love blue-eyed long haired white guys but you guys are not all that. In fact black men get a lot more white women than white men get black men. White men will try to say that this is only because white men are not into black women but that is not true. For over a 100yrs white men have been raping or having sex with black women, white men like Thomas Jefferson.

  The racist media has tried to portray whites as the most attractive of races. But white who I admit have some advantages in hair and eye color, have disadvantages too. White men are 4 times more likely than black, asian, or hispanic women. When whites have pimples , you see it more because their skin turns pink. Whites age less gracefully then any other race. White men also have more excess fat than black men.

  Whites pretend they are perfect but in really their not. The truth is that while racists whites tried to portray blacks as ugly, they tan their skin to be more black. They try to portray the black lip as too big but liposuction is such a big business in their neighborhoods. They try to portray back assses as too big but as soon as a big ass appear on their women they call it beautiful. Black women still try to be like white women, but black men have long stopped trying to be white and still with our so called kinky hair we still get a lot of women.

  The truth is, despite what the racists media says, white people have alwats longed for sexual relations with people they call exotic. Their is big business in sex tourism by which white men and women go to have sex with blacks in the caribbean. If you don’t believe look up sex tourism on the internet.

  For all you white men boasting of sexual conquests over Asian men, there is a lot of sex tourism that is white people of both genders paying top dollars for Asians of both genders. Despite all the media’s attempts, black men still greatly rival white men in the dating poll. Because I am attracted to white men I am not in favor of this argument, but a person could make the argument that the reason why so many asians women go to white guys because of their status and power. By contrasts whites will never ever be able to explain why white women love black men.

  The problem here is that Asian males back down and let it happen They don’t point out the white sex tourism toward them in Thailand. They sit there and place whites on their cartoons and try to be like them.

  I am not trying to be racist. In fac t I drool over pretty white boys. But they are not more attractive than any other race of men. Asian men need to be more assertive and less nerdy. I already told you guys about this Asian boy in my class who acted black. He was able to charm girls of all races through his charisma and looks. Asian men lack that charisma.

• 324 Anonymous // May 15, 2009 at 12:36 am

  “whites will never ever be able to explain why white women love black men”

  Here’s one explanation, white women who go for black boys are usually the tuna that john west rejects. They have been rejected by white men so in turn go to black boys who don’t care how unnatractive these women are but only the fact that they are white. How often when u see those couples is it some ghetto looking black and some unnatractive overweight white woman who is desperate need of any human affection. Granted this is not the case all of the time but it is so common that it is a well known sterotype.

• 325 louis // May 15, 2009 at 1:20 pm

  To you Mr Anonymous, explain this; whypretty white women like Kim Kardashian who is not overweight or ugly go out with black guys like Ray J who is not ugly of ghetto-looking. Another example is mrs Katy Perry.

  The point I am trying to make is that white people do their best to try to portray other races as ugly. They can’t admit when they are attracted to other races; but want other races to be attracted to them. Why can’t you see that every race has it’s pretty and ugly people of both genders and stop trying to portray one race’s people as uglier than the other.

  For all you asian men out there; I read an article the other day about how their were black-women and asian male communities that were prominant during the 1900’s. So don’t listen to the racists in this blog who state that you cannot attract other women.

• 326 N. J. Nguyen // May 16, 2009 at 1:27 am

  Eh…my father is Vietnamese and my mother is Irish-Portuguese. A lot of people think I’m Spanish for some reason. The others think I’m all Asian. Culturally, I am completely American, with a known history of slight Lusophilia and Brasilophila [word?]. Anyway, for some reason I must admit a feeling of uneasyness over the whole phenomenon of white men and Asian women. I never actually ask an Asian girl out, assuming Pakistanis are not counted, and usually find myself the least attracted to Asian women, though there are many beautiful, yet there is something I feel is being taken. I won’t lie about it possibly having to do with a history of rejection, and seeing so little of my own combination compared to white men and Asian women repeatedly since childhood. I am not sure how things are elsewhere, but I am from working class Massachusetts and it was quite rare to see growing up. Personally, I’m just looking for a girl that is not going to lie [bad history], yet I still habour these odd feelings of this single mixture.

• 327 William // May 16, 2009 at 3:02 pm

  Asian whores and their merely average male counterparts need to be exported out of the US.

• 328 Mr Anonymous // May 16, 2009 at 7:01 pm

  Look Louis I’m not going to be harsh on you because either your a bit simple or had difficulty reading the entire 4 sentences I wrote. The examples you give are of celebrities which in any case Kim Kardashian is not white and Katy Perry is no longer together with Travis McCoy, I see what you were attempting to put forward but celebrities are not good examples as your sample size is so small. I could say that lots of white men date lots of black women based on celebrities and use Robert Deniro and David Bowie as examples but when it comes to what you see in everyday life its not the case.

  The sentence you conveniently missed; “Granted this is not the case all of the time but it is so common that it is a well known sterotype”

  I never said that the white women dating blacks are always unnatractive and overweight but from my observations of the couples I’ve seen this has been the case far more often than not.

• 329 mike // May 18, 2009 at 3:13 am

  i boned lots of asian sluts..haha they lay there like a dead fish…the are just good cum recepticles..white people are lame..and asians are weak and small…the girls are just dogs waiting to be walked..

• 330 Haha // May 18, 2009 at 4:31 pm

  Maybe they just layed there because…

  …you sucked? LOL!

• 331 louis // May 21, 2009 at 3:07 pm

  Mr Anouymus you are a dumbass. Don’t you ever call me a simpleton again.

• 332 louis // May 21, 2009 at 3:08 pm

  I missed Anonymous

• 333 Mr Anonymous // May 21, 2009 at 8:35 pm

  HAHAHA Louis I didn’t even have to do anything, you just proved what a moron you are and not only by spelling anonymous wrong.
  You didn’t respond with an opposing argument or even anything coherent, just insuslts. There is no doubt that you are not only a simpleton, something I’m sure you’ve been told many times before but your another reason why retards should not be allowed to use computers.

  You will most likely respond to this with more insults as you have nothing intelligent to reply with, but that won’t come as a suprise.

• 334 louis // May 22, 2009 at 3:44 pm

  Mr Anonymus you attack me for misspelling anonymus but you misspelled the word insults which you spelled as insuslts. I did prove your generalization to be rather dumb and stupid. First. Kim kardashian is white; Kardashian is of Armenian (father), Scottish and Dutch (mother) descent. Despite being white yourself, you are not smart enough to realize that there are light and dark-skinned variations in every race. As for your statement that blacks don’t care for looks is wrong. Most black men would not leave a beautiful, well shaped black woman for an ugly woman of any race. When they do go to white women; they go to attractive white women.

  You cite as an example the stereotype of fat white woman and black man but there are many other stereotypes that you racists have put out to scare whites from siding with blacks. For example ; President Eisenhower, when talking about Earl Warren’s ending of school segregation said to Earl Warren ”do you really want niggas near our white girls at school”

• 335 asdf // Jun 1, 2009 at 1:15 am

  I’m sorry but white girls turn me off more and more each year. Even the ugly hags act like they’re god’s gift to men and expect you to buy them a drink. Asian girls are like a petite version of a good white girl, which is like an urban myth.

  I’ve lived all around the Pacific Northwest of the US and I’m used to seeing BIG OLE white gals with so many rolls of fat tucked up in their clothes — I could only imagine it would be like an avalanche having sex with them. The only dudes who’ll sleep with them are unemployed black guys and they know it. All I can say is “you can keep em”.

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• 337 A Human Being // Jun 4, 2009 at 11:14 pm

  What is wrong with some of you people?
  You focus on stupid, shallow things like skin color or media-brainwashed perception of beauty.
  A lot of you cannot get it out of your simple minds that people are somehow confined to acting like they look.
  Many of you need to wake up and realize that every person is different and that this ridiculous primal need to group people into clans and defend them needs to stop.

  It’s 2009, not 1309!

  OPEN YOUR MINDS

• 338 Steve // Jun 16, 2009 at 8:51 am

  It is worthwile to note that the white people here who claim that they have asian girlfriends are 2 types. Complete assholes who boast about the number of asian easy chicks they “fucked over” and the silly good family dads who keep repeating the bullshit that ‘it is just love it has nothing to do with race’, ‘ we have a beaaatifull baby!’.

  As a white guy i am ashamed of your fucking stupidness and shallowness.

  And you Asian chicks making stupid generalizations, just claim honestly that you are in control of the white supremacy racism bullshit.

• 339 Steve // Jun 16, 2009 at 8:59 am

  And the asian chicks out there from the examples here you can be assured that your super smart, handsome, tall, aggresive etc. white male is possibly boasting in his vulgarity about how he fucked a lot of chicks like you on various conversations and online discussions.

  They are not as perfect as you see them through your amplified ubermensch white guy perception

• 340 Oliver // Jun 16, 2009 at 8:59 pm

  Estella’s comment on fear doesn’t ring so true to me (although only she knows). Scott’s synopsis seems right on. It’s cultural influence for sure.

  If Asian culture had been the most widespread by 2009 (which it almost could have in near 1500’s, before political pressure called great sailing galleys back), perhaps 1/2 the world would be speaking Chinese now, instead of English.

  Then, to get any advantage in the world, people would be clutching at any Chinese persons arm instead of Europeans.

  More than European features, or Asian features or African, people like power and advantage, and that can be afforded by the most widespread and influential culture now - European (and this will not last for too long).

  Look at styles over the decades. People adopt styles whenever the style holds a great “advantage” to us and society. And, we switch when it is no longer in favor, or will bring us shame instead of praise. Even killing brings a soldier praise when at war, but not when they come home. Different culture. Different time. Just another example how people go for what will bring them “good”.

  This influences if they see it as appealing or not. Culture influences this.

  I’m glad these cultural bloggo’s started!!

• 341 hoho // Jun 18, 2009 at 12:41 am

  I’m an east asian male. I ‘m probably attracted to 50% white femles, 5% black. 10%mulattos
  20% mestizos but only 1% my own race , why?

  hint: I mostly care about the face not the body.

  Ps : it’s taboo for my culture to like other races..

• 342 gauche // Jun 19, 2009 at 10:31 pm

  quote:”To be honest the cutest Asian-mixed kids I’ve seen were Asian-black and Asian-Middle Eastern. ”
  asian-black = slanted eyed negro…

  middle eastern? if you refer to those such as iranians , they are probably whiter than today’s europeans

  quote:“White women who are into Black Men”
  black males are no much better than the yellows.
  they too don’t admit they love white women..
  a few exceptions..
  http://www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=5071466

  well, east asian men steal white women around the world , but never have admitted anything

• 343 ACE99 // Jun 20, 2009 at 2:36 am

  The white guy - asian girl connection was a natural and normal one. Physically, petite women are attractive and taller men are attractive. Plus, whites and asians have similar values. Education, money, and family are requirements for us. Not so much with certain “other demographics.”

  Verdict: whites and asians rule, hispanics are ok after they assimilate, blacks are a pain in the ass no matter where they’re at. Even in other nations, they bring the same social ills to the equation. This *is* the culture that takes pride in rap music and having a criminal record.

• 344 Lisa // Jun 22, 2009 at 7:59 am

  Most are self absorbed, rude, aggressive, up/down personalities and chose wimpy, head in shoulders, low self esteem, white boys to date–that way they have upper hand (employee-employer relationship) in dating/marriage. There also can be high degree of emotional/verbal abuse characterized by psychologists.

• 345 Lisa // Jun 23, 2009 at 5:45 pm

  Also many of these white boys look at asian/oriental women as exotic sex objects for their conquer or a taste of variety sexually speaking. Some asiatic women love sexually acts and feel that white boys are better, higher libido’s etc…. notice the term white “boys” because that is what they are, and hence oriental “girls” because that is what they are. They are not men nor women, they are immature imbeciles that need to stop fornicating and start becoming productive citizens. enough hell kitty, sports, bbqs, and baseball caps backwards, looking for next orgasm, start becoming productive USA citizens. thank you.

• 346 Curious // Jun 25, 2009 at 8:59 pm

  What do you consider “cute”? I hardly see “cute” asian girls dating white guys. I know beauty is an eyes of the beholder but it seems like white man are having trouble distinguish between ugly and exotic (short, flat face, super slenty eyes, short legs).

• 347 tina y. // Jun 26, 2009 at 8:12 am

  I think some of these people need to listen to that great korean band song–Hot, hot issue, that was really good. rearry good.

• 348 Gisele // Jun 28, 2009 at 11:49 am

  White guys are more aggressive than Asian guys. Asian guys tend to be really shy. I honestly like the go getter

• 349 nadya // Jun 29, 2009 at 2:15 am

  does ethnicity really matter when it comes to love??? i jz dnt get it why ppl still make such a BIG ISSUE over asians with whites.

• 350 Que // Jul 1, 2009 at 11:19 pm

  Heaven forbid society starts respecting the multitude of things that make humans nearly identical instead of obsessing about the few things that set us apart.

• 351 Small Feet // Jul 3, 2009 at 1:42 pm

  http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-9142171923095749295

  check out this great documentary. its explains why asian girls want to be white, why they dye their hair blond, why they get eye lid surgery, etc.

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