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Right here are some tips for you guys to pick up and use. I’m sure most of you know what to do to please your girlfriend or your wife/fiance or to impress a girl, but here goes.

1. Make her a cup of tea in the morning

If she doesn’t like tea, then make her favourite hot drink for her. This generally make a girl happy.

2. Give her a morning kiss and hug when she wakes up.

This will only apply if you’re living with her. This will definitely brighten up her day even if she woke up on the wrong side of the bed, meaning that she woke in a bad mood.

2A. If you don’t live with her then give her a kiss and hug first thing when you see her each day.

3. Take her out to somewhere special when she’s least expecting it.

Girls like it when their boyfriend take them out to somewhere special, surprising her. Take her out for dinner in a romantic, nice restaurant, or take her to the place that has the best memories that you share with her. I think you could imagine where to take her.

4. Tell her you love her now and again.

Girls don’t mention it, but we like it to hear you tell us that you love us now and again. Girls don’t expect you to say you love her all the time, well some do, but most don’t. We just like to hear it now and again.

5. Get her a random gift now and again.

Girls like it when you get them something special no matter what the cost is (as long as it’s not a freebie from a magazine or something as there’s no thought to it!). She will think it’s sweet and romantic that you get her a gift for no apparent reason but because you love her.

6. Be there for her anytime she’s down in the dumps and do something that will cheer her up.

If it’s your humour that makes her laugh, then use that to cheer her up. Take her out to distract her mind from the sad things. Listen her out, let her talk through it all so she can get it out of her system. Hold her hand if need. But most importantly is to be there for her when she needs someone.

7. Don’t forget her birthday, do something special for her on that day.

Don’t ever forget a girl’s birthday!! Make each of her birthdays a special memory. Take her out, whatever you feel that will be special. Get her something special. The cost of the present doesn’t matter, you can make it, you can buy it, it doesn’t matter after all it’s the thought that counts in the end.

8. Before she goes to sleep, or you go to sleep, call her and tell her goodnight.

It’s sweet if you just call her and say goodnight to her. Maybe sing her a song to sleep. Girls love romantic moments. And it is romantic to sing a song to her before she sleeps. It proves to her that you haven’t forgotten her and that she is in your mind.

9. Hold her hand when you go out with her, anywhere.

I know it’s natural that you would hold her hand whilst you go out with her. But it’s little things like that that makes a girl happy.

10. Try and find topics to talk to her about that you know she will enjoy.

It can be anything. Maybe a movie you just seen with her in the cinema. Maybe a book. Anything really.

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There you go. 10 tips i’ve laid out for you. There are many more that you can use but i guess you gotta just have to figure it out yourself.

Well i’m going to lay out a few Don’ts.

• Don’t argue with her as there’s no point, as you more likely won’t win that argument as a girl will probably find another reason to argue with you about. It will just go nowhere.

• It’s alright to spend time with other friends that are girls, but don’t spend a huge amount of time with another girl more than your girlfriend. She will get jealous and she won’t like it as it will hurt her feelings that you much rather spend more time with another girl than her.

• For some girls, Tip 6 won’t work for her. Depending on what your girl is like, work it around her. For some girls, don’t make a wise crack when she’s already upset, she wont be in the right frame of mind to giggle at it, like make a funny comment about something, or tease her, etc. With some girls you will just make the situation even worse.

I think you can figure the rest of the Don’ts =D.

Hope this helped you a bit to understand a girl’s feelings and how to make them happy.