I lost a bet with someone, so for one day, I actually have to post my real face on the internet.

So today, until 10:30 tomorrow, you will see my actual picture in real life.

This is a ONE DAY ONLY DEAL!

Laugh if you want, I don't mind.

I was asked the other day by a girl some stuff about guys.One of her questions was:"Why does he flirt with me, but not ask for a number?"This answer, is very simple, because I do this all the time.I flirt because its fun. Flirting is a great way to be nice and uping my chances of going on a date with her.I just don't grab her number because women expect you to call them once you have their number. I may be busy literally and seriously for the next 2 weeks, and really, I don't want to have to deal with feeling bad because I didn't call you in 2 weeks. So I just flirt mostly, keep it simple, and that way, no one is disappointed.There is a second reason, which all guys are very much aware of. We fail to get your number sometimes because we know that there are other guys out there as well who want(or have) your number. Or even worse, we think you're taken (which most girls seem to be after the third week in October and through the week after Valentine's Day.) I often wonder why.I admit I'm also guilty of this as well, but if it looks too good to be true, it usually is in my case. I will also admit that sometimes, I forget. I know that most girls would think "Why would you forget something like that?", but we do, we're guys, not girls who remember everything.Laziness can also take into account, as well as a disease that most of us guys seem to have called "obliviousness".There is also denial ("I don't think she likes me like that" or "She's probably got a boyfriend anyway").I am guilty for all of these, because I'd rather assume that a girl isn't interested in me,than go after a girl that REALLY isn't interested in me, and I look like a hopeless stalker or something(women often like to assume that guys are)So, in conclusion, the reason why guys flirt but don't get the number:DenialObliviousnessForgetfulnessPossible guilt due to time restraintsAssuming you have someone else you like (or are with)

In comics with superheroes and villians with extraordinary powers,  you see such things as super strength, flight,speed, invisibility, heat ray vision, elemental supremacy, duplication of self, and psychic powers, the "What if?" question comes into play.What if you had one of those superpowers, and what would you do with it?If I had a superpower, what would it be?I would choose....Teleportation.Not like Jumper, mind you.More like Nightcrawler.

However, I don't want the fur, blue skin, and less fingers/toes, just the superpower to teleport.(I'll take the German accent though.)I would probably be asked, "Why would you want that crappy superpower?" "You can't mess people up with it, and you can't be cool like Wolverine or Gambit."My response would be this link.Why waste money on gas when I can teleport anywhere I want? Its eco-friendly, and over 9000% more efficient.If I don't feel like being at school, I can just teleport.Girlfriend going ballistic on you? Teleport.Traffic? Teleport.Not going anywhere for a while? Grab a Teleport.You can always leave your doors locked when you can teleport.Want a closer view of the cheerleaders at the game? Teleport.Late for school/work? Not when you  teleport....Want to go on a more...romantic date? Grab your girl and teleport to that nice restaurant with rooftop dining.What? you don't say you have enough money to pay for that rooftop dining? Teleporting makes eat-and-runs fun!Are your girlfriend's parents about to catch you making out with their daughter? Teleport.Want to go on vacation? Teleport.Want to have multiple girlfriends and NOT get caught? Teleport.I could have one Japanese gf, a Irish gf, a Spanish gf(as in a gf from Spain), and a Hmong gf.(btw, I really wouldn't do that if I had the power, I'd just stick with the Japanese girlfriend. I just wanted to explain how cool this power would be if you had it.)Unlike mind reading (which is what I bet most are going to say) it doesn't directly affect anyone. Just me.If you had a superpower, what would it be, and what would you do with it?(Doesn't have to be anything I stated beforehand. But you can only have ONE.)

This Wallpaper is from "Sayanara Zetsubou Sensei".

Feel free to steal it.

It may seem that since the age of the console, PC gaming has gone into a declining trend.However, JPR research group says different; as a matter of fact, the group recently did a study claiming that the PC gaming market is worth over 20 billion, with an estimated growth to around 35 billion before 2012.Since 2005, the group says that more gaming PCs have been shipped than PS3, Wii, and 360s combined- at a rate of 2.6:1 worldwide(196 million PCs to 74.7 million PS3, Wiis, 360s. This excludes PSPs and The Nintendo DS.) The JPR Group acknowledges that most of this growth is in the Asian market.The trend also has caught on with gamers in america, due to high resolution tv screens, and a multitude of multiplayer games that one gets better quality on PCs rather than consoles-Fallout 3, Call of Duty: World at War, for example. And its not secret that since World of Warcraft came out, that PC gaming sales have risen.JPR concluded by saying: "Fact is the PC Gaming Market is bigger, worth more money, growing faster, and has better technology than the console market. How come no one but us seems to know that?"Sources: http://www.jonpeddie.com/So what do you think are the reasons why the PC market is growing larger than the console market?

I was watching a Wong Fu Productions movie called "Just a Nice Guy" this week, which was about a guy trying to get with a girl that he really liked, but was having trouble because well, he was just a nice guy around the object of his affection. I have heard my friends that are guys say that they have had this problem in the past. I myself at one point had trouble with this, but I got past it, and here's how. 1. Be Disagreeable (sometimes) One thing that us nice guys have to stop doing, is being so nice. We need to stop complimenting our Object of Affection(hereafter refer referred to as OA's.) Now don't go insulting her all the time, but rather, stop always telling her how perfect she looks, and start offering constructive criticism, as opposed to smothering her with compliments. 2. Be "Conveniently" Unavailable. Something that you have to do, is be out of your OA's reach. this sounds odd, but it is effective. Doing your own thing, and having a dating life that doesn't revolve around your OA is effective in avoiding the friend zone. Make sure she knows you're out on dates. Not only will this keep you busy on those normally lonely nights, but it will also make the girl think that she's missing out on something. The more you have her thinking of you, the better. Always being there for her as a shoulder to lean on in times where her boyfriend isn't treating her right, could result in her saying something like this: "You'd make some girl out there really happy!" (In this scenario, I suggest abandoning hope.) One thing, though: you cannot be unavailable for too long, lest she forget that you even exist. 3. Become Assertive. (Man Up) As much as girls like your OA may say, "I want someone nice," well, that's not always the case. You know what a woman wants? Barring any homosexual tendencies, a woman wants a MAN. She wants someone who can protect her, someone to argue with, someone who is going to squash bugs without hesitation. Quit being so nice and just man up; trust me, when you start pumping out that testosterone, she'll pick up on it. 4. Change your "look". If you've never really paid attention to fashion, today is the time to start. Buy yourself a couple new shirts and pants...a blazer or two never hurts. This step is important because you want to change her perception of you, and nothing will accomplish that easier than looking different. If you have no fashion sense at all, look to one of your friends - you know, the good looking guy landing all the babes? Yeah, him. Don't outright copy him, but check out his style and mimic it to the best of your ability. If all else fails, just ask him where he shops. 5. Exude confidence. After changing your look up a bit, you're probably more confident about yourself. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a guy who is confident. You know why the good looking guy gets all the girls? Of course, being good looking helps, but chances are, the good looking guy has been told that he's been good looking his entire life. So he knows he's good looking, therefore CONFIDENT about his appearance. Even though you feel like a troll inside, walk tall, fix your posture and look at the girl in the eyes when you talk to her. (Keep in mind, that her eyes, are on her face, not her chest.) 6. Never Confess. I saw in the video "Just A Nice Guy" that he confessed his love for his OA, and it worked out, which is all and good, but seemed like too much of a happy ending. I personally wouldn't suggest this, because if you like a girl, she probably knows anyway, and she probably has a million guys chasing after her already. No matter if you have all those nice warm fuzzy feelings inside for her, don't confess that to her. I think some more things could be added here, but these have been my overall tactics in avoiding the dreaded "Friend Zone" or "Friend Ladder".

Here's the changes that I proposed as I mentioned on my status.

I noticed that my posts were well, not as good, or as many when I first recieved the permissions to write on the Buzz,

so I intend to remedy that my writing more often.

I looked for things that need more contributions on the Forums, as well as the Buzz.

(That way, I'm not feeling overshadowed by Jiamei or Solong2010 when they make those great posts on music, or kepi when she makes those excellent posts on tv shows...)

My old focus was Asian history, but now, I think that I'll try Love and Relationships,  Technology, and perhaps throw some gaming reviews in as well.

The sole intent and purpose behind this post was to tell all the other admin/staff, so they can hold me accountable.

So if in a week, I post nothing new. tell me what's up. XD

Nine things women say that you should pick up on.

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. (2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. (3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes . Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. (4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! (5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.) (6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. (7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' ... that will bring on a 'whatever'). (8) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying ____ YOU!(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

It would be great if more of us guys knew about this stuff, when I told my friends on facebook about it, both the guys and girls thanked me. lol

Recently, I saw the second Death Note Movie.

Am I a fan of Death Note, you ask? Well of course not, after the 2nd volume of the book, I quit reading it, and I've only seen one episode of the anime. So out of near complete and utter ignorance, I bring you my review of  the Death Note Movie.(Just like a movie critic)Death Note consists of some individuals. Light Yagami, the person who wishes to use the Death Note to bring justice to criminals.(The Death Note is a Notebook in which you write a person's name in, and they die. you can even specify the time, and actions involved before the death, as well as the death. if not specified, they die of a heart attack.)Light (pictured above holding the Death Note) wants to create a perfect world with the Death Note. he formed a secret aka called "Kira."L, or Ryuzaki (pictured above wearing white) is the genius working with the police on the case to find out why criminals are mysteriously being killed, and who Kira is. He's always eating something, throughout the whole movie. and hes very lazy, he just uses a rolling chair instead of walking most of the time.

He works with Chief Yagami to track down Kira, so in a way, he's inadvertently trying to track down his own son, who ends up working by him. Small world, huh?

Misa (played by Toda Erika) is in love with Light, and knows that he has a Death Note, because she has one as well.  I like this picture of her better, looks less jail-baity.

Misa is a pop singer as well, but also has sporadically killed using the Death Note, even taking a tv station hostage to broadcast messages.She is obsessed with Light, and for a while, you kinda almost think they're married, She tries to seduce Light several times, but Light is like "No.rabblerabblerabbleI'mtryingtotakeoverthe worldrabblerabblerabbleNewworldorderwithnocriminalsrabblerabblerabbleBecauseI'mgayanddontwannahavesexwithyourabblerabblerabble." If it were me, the story would be quite different.....but I rabble.

(I also believe that I have full right to talk about the women in this movie, because all throughout the movie I heard yaoi fangirls "squeeeeing" every time they saw Light or L.)

"See Light? she even tied herself up and everything for you!" I said."Norabblerabble." Light responds. "ItoldyourabblerabblethatI'mgayrabblerabble." I didn't feel this scene was necessary, but in Japan, anything goes.

Naomi Misora (above)recieves the Death Note after Misa, and I saw one scene with her in lingerie laying on a couch writing names into the Death Note, and I was like "Wow she's hot.". This is the kind of fanservice I don't mind.

I could also talk about the shinagami, Ryuk and Rem, who are associated with the two death notes revolving around in this plot.

Rem, (above) wants to protect Misa, which is taboo for a shinagami to do, since shinagami are pretty much angels of death.

Ryuk (below) just wants to have fun with the Death Note with Light, killing people."hyukiing" it up along the way. He also has a serious apple addiction.

So, will Light be found out? Will Misa? Will Naomi? Or will either of the 3 kill L first? Will Misa rape Light? (Hey, it could happen)I would like to spoil it, but I'm a nice guy.How about finding out for yourself?

Case #1: The attention whoreOne girl that my friend dated, was nice and all when she was around him, but whenever we decided to hang out with her sans him (damn almost said his name) she was all mopey and pined over him, which made her to be a drag around. But when she was with him, she was attached to him-all of the time. We figured out later that for the past 2 1/2 years they were dating, she cheated on him 5-6 times, primarily due to the fact that she wanted someone there and then and he wasn't around at the time, because he was doing something, like say, working, or a family trip.Case #2: The PsychoThere was this one guy I knew (not me) that had a very attractive girlfriend, to say the least. She however, seemed kind of odd, but since I was a guy, and she was hot, I overlooked it. My friend and his girlfriend, along with some other friends, (2 of them being female and taken) hung out one night at a bonfire party, and his girlfriend was giving the evil eye from afar to the two girls. Well, long story short, someone's tires were slashed that morning, and lucky for the guy and the psycho girlfriend, their car's a 2 door. Theres more things that I'll compound on this later, such as the threatening phone calls made to these same poor girls.Case #3: WTF?! (The stereotypical bad Girlfriend)There was a special someone that I dated a while back, who I was absoolutely crazy about.I treated her great, and all her friends knew it. I was dumped in the second month.However, some time after this, I see her with a pale, rail-thin, utterly hairless south of the eyelashes (one could assume) emo (guy?) he owned the image that adorned the dictionary definition of pipsqueak.And you picked THAT over me? *sighs* 

I’ve been a bit busy with college lately, so posts have been few.

But in this one, I want to talk about something that has beenon my mind lately….

If everyone loves an Asian girl (And I’m pretty sure they do)

then why can’t anyone tell them apart? ~.~

In this post, I will attempt to educate the differences  between Asian women.

1. The “Trap” (commonly called Shemales)

Now boys and girls, this one can be quite difficult at times, because sometimes, they can look even better than real women.  So if it looks too good to be true, its a trap. Just keep that in mind.

2. The P.P.A.G (Peppy, Perky, Asian Girl)

You’ll see this kind of Asian Girl cosplaying, hanging out in Sanrio Land, and of course, an anime convention. They’ll  also be these constantly upbeat, squeaky-voiced avatars of over cuteness to the point where it wears off quickly and will make you sick, much like a Hamtaro episode. The side effect will make you want to watch as much Vampire Hunter D, Berserk, Hellsing, Higaurashi(sp?) and other bloodletting anime just to see violence.

3. The S.A.G ( Slutty Asian Girl)

Note the slutty clothing. Usually these trashy looking attention whoring vixens are found on local street corners or back alleys providing “services”. Some also have streaks of blonde in their hair, and also have been known for using any means possible to making their breasts bigger, plastic surgery included, and also may have side jobs working in the adult film industry, which is run by the same people that run the arcades/coin slot  casino ops. Proceed with caution.

4. The “Perfect” Asian Girl

These are the paragons, if you will, of Asian women. They are the Asians you will see the LEAST of, if at all, in Western culture.  They have that perfect shiseido skin…that flawless face…that sweet smile *takes a second to wipe drool off of face* that makes your parents think she is the perfect little angel, and that you should marry her. (but of course….we know better) And, she always has most of her body covered. She kind of makes me think of the lead female in those Korean Dramas.

5. The Ugly Asian Girl

You can always, always, ALWAYS find one dating a white guy who thinks she is absolutely gorgeous. Nothing more to say here.

I didn't notice it at first when I logged on, but I looked at my profile, and it has been 2 months since I've joined AC!

I love it here, and enjoy it a lot (even though I haven't learned how to do everything yet). But I'm learning, And I hope to make more friends and meet more cool people here!

And blogging on the AC Buzz as well, >_> I've been getting behind lately, more or less because school has started up.

But, I need some suggestions on what to blog about, I'm considering these topics:

Anime, Humor, Technology, and still a little about Asian History as well.

Thanks for having me around!

Many of my guy friends, and some girl friends,  have asked me advice on how to obtain a Temporary Significant Other. But, for ease of typing, we shall hereafter refer to them as TSOs.(also referred to as girlfriends/boyfriends.)There isn't a straightforward, always effective way off obtaining a TSO. Its almost like a horrid game at times.But, I have integrated everything into 6 simple steps on how to obtain a relationship with that person whom you desire most.(Note: I wrote this kind of for guys more, but I believe girls can profit as well from this.)Step 1: Detective work, followed by a little fishing.You talk to a person, not knowing too much about them.  You don't know if they're interested in someone else,(or already has a TSO unless its clearly evident or they're lying)So, you're playing detective. But, you also have to be a fisherman, and a master tactician. But, you also have to play private escort, ice climber, and the most important part-yourself.Now, after you've finally figured out whether or not they do (abandon all hope if they happen to like someone else, or have a  TSO, btw. Camping females/males is useless, unless you're in middle school, where all relationships last an average of a week.) like someone else or have a TSO, you have at least a little information on them by now.But the game of obtaining a TSO deals with more than detective work. You have to fish as well. And by fishing, you have to put your thoughts onto a hook, and plunge it  into the cold depths known as scrutiny, which you are subject to, as  long as you like certain things, and have an opinion. Because they have one too. And what's worse, is that some tend to disagree, but everyone's different.Step 2: Use what you know, and the friendship grows.After this, you have to play on their weaknesses...er, I mean, strengths, in order to win their respect, and for them to be comfortable around you. (Note that if you didn't have much or anything at all in common, abandon hope, and move on to someone else.) If you both like video games, then play video games together. If you both like hiking, then take a hike(no pun intended). But, still try to grab some friends and take them along too, so it doesn't seem obvious. (This is the tactician part)Talk about things you both like, and the friendship will get stronger, and better, along the way. "But, after some time of this, and hanging out and all of that good stuff,  How will you know when it is time to take the relationship further?" One may ask.Well, that is different for every person it seems. Some, it may take 3 weeks, and another, 3 months. (Just a metaphorical range, by the way.)IF (2 letter word)  you are able to succeed in the above, and things tend to be going really well then I would strongly consider taking the small step forward that is necessary in order to obtaining your future TSO.This step is almost invisible, yet if you skip it with some people, you may ruin everything.Step 3: Reassess everything.Reassess everything.Do they have a TSO already? do they show interest in someone else besides you romantically?If they do not, then advance directly to GO, collect $200, and take the next step.If they do, (or already have had since you started talking to them, but failed to pay attention when I mentioned to abandon hope in this situation earlier) then abandon hope now, because if they are faithful to their TSO, and their relationship is stable.....you don't have a chance. (about 99.9% of the time.)Step 4: The Fun Begins.This is the next step, which is almost the next to last one that you need to make, which should happen automatically, but sometimes needs a little nudging to happen from the member of the opposite sex.Now, you're playing private escort. Go with them alone on "dates". Without all the friends. Tell no one about anything, because nothing is set in stone yet. Enjoy their company, doing something different, but still something they enjoy. A little variety never hurt. Don't go with the whole dinner and a movie thing, that is way too typical. (Unless, they really like movies.) After a while of this, (Varies with each person....) and everything seems to be going well, then, you are usually well on your way to obtaining your TSO. But this is also a hard step as well, if you're clueless (guys), seeing how explaining your desire to be exclusive with your chosen someone can seem a bit awkward, or cheezy.(For right now, you are playing the role of you, which should be the easiest role of all.)Step 5: Seal the Deal.Note sayings you may want to avoid:"Ey bay bey, how bout' we go to my place, and we can roll dees tires?""Will you be my girlfriend?" (For some reason, saying that to a girl would make me feel as if I were in elementary school again)"So, I was hearing this funny joke one time, about you and me, being together, going out...you wanna do that?"(.......This isn't a joking matter.)"Will you go out with me?" is simple, but I feel it is overused, and a bit short. But on the other hand, I can't disdain it, seeing as I've used it before, and it is remarkable how words can get caught up in your throat, when you need to say something like this, so a short sentence like this could be a good option.I would try something like this:"Since I've met you, I've really enjoyed spending my time with you, and was wondering if you wanted to be in a relationship with me." I guess that one seems odd too, but I feel that it best says your feelings about the other person, and follows through, without seeming like a blatant inquisitive statement.But, the point is, say whatever you want, but be sure to include your feelings, just to make it a bit personal. I would also suggest including a buffer sentence of "If you need some time, its ok" or "I understand if you don't want to" to pick off some of the glacier that may have suddenly formed between you and them when you asked this question.(For the record, for this moment, you're an ice climber. lol)If everything goes like it should, both parties will receive an answer that is desirable and hopefully, you will obtain your new Temporary Significant Other. (Or boyfriend/girlfriend.) Step 6: Break the Deal. (But softly...)This step, somewhat unlike all the others, may require some time, or, not at all. It's your option!This is also an important step, seeing as if you did not partake in this step, they aren't temporary! (We wouldn't want them to be permanent, would we?) Inform your TSO one day that you want to have "A talk."  You can either enjoy the look of horror on their face after you've said that, or simply enjoy said look after you tell them that you don't want to be with them anymore.Commonly used phrases for doing this include:"I don't think that I like you "that way".""I think you're a great guy/girl, but I don't want to be in a serious relationship.""I think we should break up. It's not you, its me.""I don't think we make a good enough couple.""I was wondering...is it ok with you if we see other people?"Or, if you REALLY want to shatter that already thin ice created by you mentioning breakup, you can follow up any of the above lines by saying:"Can we just be friends?" or "We can still be friends if you want..."The aforementioned line, used in combination with any of the above  is GUARANTEED to break the relationship without any hard feelings, and there's always the possibility of you being friends still, because you left that door open.   Lets Review:Step 1: Detective work, followed by a little fishing.Step 2: Use what you know, and the friendship grows.Step 3: Reassess everything.Step 4: The Fun Begins.Step 5: Seal the Deal.Step 6: Break the Deal (But softly...)There you go.Follow all of these steps, and I'm sure you will be able to be with that special someone you've had your eye on.And then, you can break up with them, without them becoming bitter enemies, because you can still be "just friends."And that, is how to obtain a Temporary Significant Other.